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Don't mean to blame the victim here, but you sound like a bit of a sucker for the drama of it all. Yeah he's self-interested and shows poor judgment when it comes to how he treats his friends, but you kept keeping him around! At what point did you think his behavior would magically *poof* change? And the stuff with "dutifully" telling him the rumors about his ex and her new boyfriend...please. Drama drama drama. I'd say a grudge is not terribly useful - just be glad you're rid of him, and take a look at what made you keep him around for so long in the first place.
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