A lot of shy guys stare and play with you as a sort of sign that they want YOU to make the first move. I do it all the time, I really hate asking a girl out and then either she says no in public (SOOOOOOO embarasing) or she will feel forced into saying yes and then calll it off over the phone. WHat I'm saying is, guys LOVE for a girl to make the first move, we are always worried about whether a girl likes us or not, but if you ask first, he knows and all that anxiousness and shyness will dissappear. If you make the first move, there is no loss on your part, only a gain in his self-esteem, and a lot less beating-around-the-bush for you.
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