I can understand not wanting to create a bad working environment, but inviting someone to lunch or really preferably dinner out with a group is such a mild overture that I don't see it creating any real problems. Now if you were to ask her out in the store and she rejected you and you threw a fit, that would be a problem. I just don't see the downside to doing something mild like this, but you know your work situation and I don't.
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