Wife's little sister

It's worth considering that part of the SIL display is her wanting to score something on her big sister. Yes, she may want to get skin to skin w you, or work on her head skills with what she may think of as a safe dick. But part of it might be a sibling power play that she isn't even consciously aware of.
Tell your wife that SIL is a cutie who needs a man, and you are already taken. Tell her it's fun to have the attention of a nice young thing, but until SIL learns family boundaries you sadly will have to deprive her of your flirting skills.

Then keep your hands to yourself. Maybe try getting the wife to put on blowjob eye makeup and take a load for the team from time to time. Buy your wife a necklace and earrings and get her to cowgirl you while wearing them. Minor spices that are a visual, sensual feast for a man getting hungry for such. Worth a try IMHO.

 

That thought had crossed my mind as well. SIL could also be consciously wanting to hurt her sister, and "Hey, I seduced your husband, ha, ha, ha" is a powerful weapon. Or she could nail both of them with "Your husband was flirting with me for a long time, I never thought that he'd rape me."

 

fuck it, just ask her if she has the hots for you. if she says yes then walk off, or dont. if she says no then say ok. either way your wife will know the answer and you will also. it might be awkrd but atleast you will know where you stand and who knows maybe a film crew will walk in and your wife and sil will start making out and ask you to join in

 

Damn, you've got a dark turn of mind, sir.

Everytime I see this post come up, I think, "damn, this dude is so fucked."

 

Yeah, and it's not because I watch too much TV; I have female relatives who have pulled that kind of shit. Partly because of sibling rivalry and vengeance, but mostly because they can't live quiet & normal lives. But they also had horrible childhoods with a father who was abusive sexually, physically, mentally, verbally....just about any way you can think of.
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The direct approach could work fine. Or the SIL could freak out.

 

so what if she freaks out, atleast you would know.

 

My 5 cent advise would be to just keep it yourself..... you might be too much perceptive of your SIL's actions.... i haven't read in your story if your wife has a male sibling... maybe your SIL just happened to enjoy an elderly brother kind of a feeling and she has just happened to see it in you... hmmm.... just keep the cards up in your chest, don't spill the beans just yet so as not to create animosity in her family.... nothing has been proven yet, only mere assumptions.... try to press the buzzer when your SIL's actions towards you is really positive.... this is how men should really stand up to their ground, always keep it to yourself when it comes to this, you can always avoid such circumstances whenever you feel like if its the right time and proper thing to do....

 

Paragraphs are mandatory. I couldn't get through that, it was too wall of text for me. Bleeh.

 

Kind of going through a similar situation. SIL has been throwing lots of mixed signals for the last two years. I would definitely go through with it if she came right out and said something, but I've decided not to be the one to make a move.

Love my wife, but I really could use some variety. She's on board with having a mutual gf. Although neither of us have the time to actually look around.