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What type of driver are you, Raging or Calm?

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by Freetofly, Jun 11, 2012.

  1. Fangirl

    Fangirl Very Tilted

    Location:
    Arizona
    No, I would say based on some of the comments here (no offence guys) you are quite a mellow driver.
    I go five mph over too, on the highway when the posted limit is 70 mph. When it's 55, I go 10 mph over but no more. Here in my neighbourhood in the vanilla suburbs with kids on bikes and pedestrians aplenty I do the exact limit because I would never forgive myself if I hit a kid or dog. As a pedestrian I have yelled at grossly speeding drivers. I'm sure it totally changed their driving habits forevermore <sarcasm>.
     
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  2. Plan9

    Plan9 Rock 'n Roll

    Location:
    Earth
    Yeah, this attitude might change once you're on two wheels and those same douchebags do things that aren't just annoying but downright dangerous. You can jerk the wheel / slam on the brakes in a car with few consequences in most cases. Try that on an 800-pound motorcycle going 65 and enjoy the roll. Generally speaking, I'm very zen when I'm behind the wheel of a car. Things change significantly when you're on a motorcycle and faced with a near-death experience every time some dickhead on a cellphone drifts into your lane; every 4-way intersection is potential T-bone kill zone.

    I've had three major close calls on my motorcycle since I started riding. The narrow profile saved me on two (darted down the center line between cars, rode the right side line around a pickup), other time involved me slamming on the brakes and jerking the bike into the left lane around a car that decided to stop (no apparent reason) in the right lane on the middle of the highway. Good thing you're more alert to others when on a motorcycle.
     
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  3. Borla

    Borla Moderator Staff Member


    I had that happen last week, and to make matters worse my wife was on the back. Two lanes going down into one. The right lane became a turn lane. My lane is crawling, the turn lane is empty. I see a guy coming flying up the turn lane. He whips his truck over about 2' in front of me. I lay on the horn (I have a nice big air horn, practically a semi horn) and the brakes. He screams out his window "you saw me coming you *#&$!" and a handful of other rude and obnoxious things and then tried to brake check me (I was far enough back that it didn't matter). I just about bit through my lip keeping my mouth closed as I feel my wife kind of squeeze my leg in a "calm down" gesture. One, because I know it will freak my wife out if I'm riding around responding to every idiot while I'm on the bike. Two, because if the guy is loony enough to try something stupid I'm playing with an exponentially higher risk level than in a car.

    So I just follow at a normal distance, no more horn, not saying anything back, nothing. He starts yelling out his window at the next light, though I can't quite hear what he's saying. I purposefully stopped far enough that I could get around him in the turn lane if need be, and he's giving me the stink eye in the mirror as he's saying whatever it was. Again, I'm just sitting there, not responding, but he keeps at it. I really want to get off the bike and jerk him out of his truck. But instead I reach down, grab my phone, and very deliberately zoom in on his license plate and take a picture, then put my phone away. I figured that, worst case, if he started escalating things to the point where something went very bad, there would be proof of who he was. The dude throws his hands in the air in a "what?!?" type of gesture, but he immediately shut up. I was behind him at about three more lights and a stop sign, he never uttered a word, no brake checks, nothing.

    But I get what you are saying. And you are right, you are (and have to be) way more alert on a bike. I also follow even further back, take less congested routes, and try not to go anywhere that I have to be in a hurry. But it does make you about 10x madder when you see someone deliberately (or even just stupidly, though that's slightly more forgiving to me) being a jerk to you when you are on a bike and are far more defenseless.
     
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  4. cynthetiq

    cynthetiq Administrator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    New York City
    I drive like an old man. Sometimes I drive spirited, but mostly I don't give a crap that someone cut me off anymore. In fact, I usually just try to keep up with them in a tortoise vs. hare, manner and laugh as I catch up to them at the next light.
     
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  5. Speed_Gibson

    Speed_Gibson Hacking the Gibson

    Location:
    Wolf 359
    I was pulled over once in Oregon just south of Woodburn and given a ticket. I understand that one as I was going 13 over the speed limit.
    The time I found amusing was when the cop that sits in Hubbard at night pulled me over for the headlight that had died 4 hours before at 2200 when I was coming home from school. I was going under the speed limit as I was fully expecting the lights behind me with the burnt out light. He administered a very brief field sobriety test no doubt after seeing my completely bloodshot eyes; he then got to hear how of course they were bloodshot when you get 3-4 hours a sleep a day and drive 120+ miles any given day.
    But my very first thought even before reading Snowy's post was the Ford Mustang on saw on I-5 heading up to Wilsonville that was doing some moves worthy of a stunt driver from a Tilted Film Production clichéd action film. Flying across all three lanes with just a few feet of clearance between the bumpers and back again, and of course doing this at a good 10-15 miles over the speed limit. Not surprisingly a State Trooper flew by me a few minutes later and that Mustang was pulled over a few miles later with the driver in handcuffs behind his car.
     
  6. ngdawg

    ngdawg Getting Tilted

    He probably just has it out for bikers and feels "safe" being a douche in his cage. One time, as related to me by my rider, he was first at a red light and when it turned green, apparently he wasn't quick enough for the guy behind him because he blew the horn. Don, who is not small but not a giant either, simply put down the kickstand and began to dismount. This apparently scared the horn-blower because as Don looked at him, he was waving his hands in desperate apologies. Pays to be a biker dressed in all black leather on a black bike. LOL
    I love being a pillion warmer with a rager's attitude. Whenever we're out and about and I see someone on their cell phone, I yell "Put down the damn phone!" at them. One moron didn't like that, so, at 55mph in the left lane, phone still affixed to his head, he reached over to his passenger window to crank it up. So now Bozo is driving with NO hands on the wheel and leaning over. We hightailed it outta his way.
     
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  7. TheSurgeOn

    TheSurgeOn Getting Tilted

    Location:
    England
    I loooooove driving my 6 cylinder Golf, it's twenty years old, looks ratty but flies and can embarrass whoever deserves it - usually pushy BMW/Mercedes drivers. No way am I crazy and like to think I know what I'm doing, having cycled and biked previously I am defensive on the road assuming I'm surrounded by idiots who are about to do something unbelievable, so I'm not surprised when they do. I've found that slow moving vehicles are the ones that cause others to take risks, but learnt my lesson when I overtook a tractor doing around 15mph holding up a long queue of traffic for around 10 miles, I went to flick the bird out of the sunroof as I got in front only to find it closed -OWW!
     
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  8. Freetofly

    Freetofly Diving deep into the abyss

    This would be me most of the time, more like an old lady.
    I had some idiot riding my ass for about 4 miles this past winter and I was 5miles over the speed limit already. Then it happens, he is going to pass me, so I slow down to let him, and wham a herd of deer shoot out in front of him.
    He killed three instantly and the two others were staggering off the rode. His car was totaled and it was an awful sight for those poor animals. What an asshole, the whole time I was thinking this guy drives like my husband.
     
  9. raptor9k Vertical

    I consider myself a calm driver but my main peeve is people that 'enforce' the speed limit by driving in the left lane. That's when I wish for Magneto's power to fling them off the highway. If you are going to pass, do so as quickly and safely as possible and then move the hell over.
     
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  10. 10 bucks to say he blames you for the accident.
     
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  11. I'm very cautious around Motorcyclists (give them room to pass, or pass w/ plenty of room, keep a close eye on them, etc...).
    Similarly... my 2-ton car is nothing compared to 20-tons of cargo on a freighter... I'm very cautious around trucks, too... respectful... and I let them over to pass because, at least here in the mid-west, they kick it up a notch to pass (not CA truckers who pass another truck going 55 @ 56 MPH)... and they bring my goods to market.
    --- merged: Jun 12, 2012 at 8:28 PM ---
    What's the gas mileage on that thing?
    I'm guessing around 45 mpg?
    Those old-school 4 & 6-cyl diesel Golfs, Rabbits & hatchbacks from VW are wicked-awesome, long-lasting, reliable, and efficient machines.
     
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  12. Stan

    Stan Resident Dumbass

    Location:
    Colorado
    I'm fairly aggressive when it's just me and the road. I'm a complete and utter wuss around other drivers. I live in the sticks, these days, and only go into town when I have a reason.

    I'm generally 10mph over the limit (more on my bike), I consider stop signs to read yield if no one is there. I also know that everyone is out to get me on a bike and leave extra room to avoid them. I've worked hard to lose my Chicago finger habit. People here carry guns and it just isn't worth the grief.
     
  13. TheSurgeOn

    TheSurgeOn Getting Tilted

    Location:
    England
    'Doesn't know how to quote chipperaroo'

    They're not economical unless your a ballet dancer with a really soft foot, 45mpg is 'doable' but 21mpg is what its about, the grins per gallon and smiles per mile are almost worth it with 'gas' being £1.42 a litre (which would shock you if it was converted). Search you tube for VR6 sound. :D
     
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    I can do the conversion... sumpin' around $8.50 / gal (USD). Fvck.... oh, wait... i can say FUCK!

    Yeah, if I had one of those buggers, I'd have it tuned to the sound of 45mpg... that's what I love about your type of car. But, alas, I just have a 25mpg beater, because it's all Pt. A to Pt. B for me.
     
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  15. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    I hate to fly, and when I lived in Boston I would drive to western Kansas several times each year. That's 25-30 hours, more or less, depending on traffic and weather. I actually enjoy driving on the open road. In the city, not so much.
    I think Western drivers are definitely better than East Coast drivers, or maybe it just seems that way 'cause there are fewer drivers out west. I'm not real aggressive, but I do like to drive fast. I also hate the left lane Lannies and middle lane Millies. There seem to be fewer of them in the Plains states.
    On the road I like to wait until somebody passes me doing about 80mph, then settle in about a quarter mile or so behind and let him run interference, and I watch for brake lights. I guess the he has the radar detector, I don't need one. I have an older SAAB 9-5 Aero sedan that I keep in tip=top shape with good tires, brakes, etc. A 4-cylinder turbo 200 something hp. And 30+mpg if I keep the speed down, which I mostly don't.

    I have a big hate for trucks, especially their lights. I don't mean the freighters, I mean the Ford F-whatchamacallit pickups, the Escalades, Suburbans, Navigators, and anything else with headlights four feet off the ground. And driving lights besides. And pulling a trailer. All the while tailgating me. I could read a newspaper by their fucking headlights. I usually just slow down. The closer you get, the slower I'll go.
    I have a milder hate for motorcycles that I can hear from three or four blocks away, other than that, I'm cool with bikers. Except the ones that drive on the shoulder or between the lanes in heavy traffic. Assholes.
    My cousin, a state trooper in Kansas, has the stereotypes down pat. Young males drive aggressive, young women drive oblivious, and seniors drive like they're impaired, even when they're not.
    Now that I'm in Lincoln, I'm less than 400 miles from my home town, so that's a lot easier, and no big cities and heavy traffic. And I've got a boyfriend to, so I don't spend near as much time on the road.:)

    Lindy
     
  16. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    I drive with intent.

    I used to do Domino's pizza delivery...broke records there doing it.
    One thing this on the job training showed me, is that you can be calm & safe while going to A to B very efficiently and fast.

    Fast is not crazy fast, but you are going a bit above the speed limit...but not so that you're not aware or being in control. (5-10 mph above)
    Again, this is not crazy fast...you're not getting anywhere if you're stopped by cops or hitting something/someone or wiping out.
    Going from A to B is not a direct line or the shortest route...rights are better than lefts, where's the traffic...know your alternatives.
    Signal & be safe, but be willing to change lanes...It's amazing how many waste time by getting in the longer lane.
    In my experience, when it's stop & go traffic...surprisingly the slow land becomes the faster lane.
    Watch for your holes and patterns ahead, move into those lanes that are more clear.

    It's about paying attention, and being aware of your situation at all times...adjust accordingly and do so again if necessary.

    I spend more than enough time in my car, I'd rather be out of it...so by driving by intent, I'm done with it sooner rather than later.

    Rages from me usually consist of me yelling in my enclosed car,
    "God-damned sono'abitch ass-hole mother-fucker!!!"
    Or a well placed "idiot"...then it's over with.
    Forget about the other person...too much anger can be dangerous for YOU...and frustration is not good for your stress either.
    I prefer calm. Cool & efficient is the best. Angry or lingering/casual is not for me.
     
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  17. raptor9k Vertical

    So I was driving home from work last week and got ran off the road by a semi. I drive a very white 8k lb F250 that's incredibly hard to miss. He was talking on his cellphone and didn't even bother to check his mirrors before entering my lane. Thankfully he signalled and I was able to move into the shoulder without getting hit. I think i did really good handling the situation, mostly because I wasn't carrying at the time. I have resolved to install a train horn under my truck once I get the onboard air to drive it.
     
  18. Freetofly

    Freetofly Diving deep into the abyss

    Oh yeah, would like to hear that!
     
  19. raptor9k Vertical

    Something like this.

     
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  20. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    I recently lost my shit riding my bike.

    I was riding along a reasonably busy road and was being hyperaware. A good thing because I just about t-boned a guy trying to merge into the traffic. From a distance, I could see him inching out of a driveway and was ready when he pulled out right in front of me. My choice was run into him or veer into traffic. With no time to shoulder check, I slammed my brakes and slid within inches of the front of his car.

    In lieu of my bell, which I couldn't reach in time, I yelled, LOOK OUT!

    Heart hammering, adrenaline flowing freely, I went on my way. At the next intersection, they pulled up and started yelling at me. This is when I lost my shit. I think I used words that they don't use in Singapore.