Threesome, threeway, menage a trois, scenarios (NSFW, obviously)

If as @Lindy posted the point is two women taking care of one man, they should also help each other orgasm. That release is the reason. I am not selfish, I can do whatever my woman wants but I also like being serviced. And because of my desire to satisfy my partner I feel like I deserve to be her focal point. Finding like minded people to swap body fluids is my problem. I prefer oral sex with vaginal and anal from time to time but just the two of us. I have to be bonded emotionally to my Lover and I don't like to share. " That woman is my piece of ass " sorta thing.

 

I just wonder how common these are outside of the porn industry?

And have any of the females here ever come close to having an FFF threesome? I'm wondering why gay and lesbians don't have more triad relationships and hookups actually.

 

I don't know if they do or don't, but my guess is the relationship dynamics that affect straight couples also affects gay couples.

 

I was cleaning out my new Mini CooperS that I bought from my daughter and found a "Menage a Trois" wine cork in the glove compartment !
xoxoxoo

 

I have experienced both, mfm and ffm and would do both again. I plan on it. Both are good, a lot of fun. Yeah, when you are the single things are focused on you. And that's nice. It's nice to be treated so well and I think people appreciate giving that. I'd like my girlfriend to be completely satisfied to exhaustion, and I like to be overwhelmed as well. A few years back we got to be with two other couples and there was a lot going on. But people paced themselves and had a lot of fun. The women were down for whatever, but as is often the case the oldest guy was having some performance issues. But having sex with three different women was awesome. And watching my gf get pounded was something else. We were there for about three hours. We came back to her apartment and made sweet sweet love after .

 

I'm waiting to hear what Snowy has to say.

 

This source says that it is more complicated having multiple partners in a poly relationship. I would like to think that it would be easier. I know spending time with more friends is easier for me than just one.




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MFM is easier tbh. Its easier for a lot of reasons, most I think should be obvious and the guys themselves can be straight without it getting too awkward. Threesome is a good bucket list thing but its not what my wife and I really seek, though sometimes they happen and we roll with it.

I've had one FMF where the women were straight (well one of them which makes it straight by default), talk about pressure and work. It was far less fun than I could have been. When the women are bi it does help a lot.

To an extent yes, but it depends on the intensity of the women. Sometimes they are a bit unsure of what to do, and then you gotta kinda take charge.

I think they are pretty common as a once or twice thing for a lot of people, based on some of those "have you ever" drinking games with vanillas and pretty much normal in the alt-sex types.

 

Threesomes is one of those things I'll dabble with fantasizing about. I don't want to actually have one. Not necessarily intimidation.. Just that I think sex in all it's forms (relationship or one night stand, and anything in between) should be about pleasure. I could go into pointing out that if it isn't about pleasure it's probably about power, control, or something along that nature.

Since it is supposed to be about pleasure and satisfying each other - I don't want anyone else there to break my concentration on him, or him on me. (If I was into girls, the same would be true.) Since I have a tendency for strict monogamy - and I am rarely sexually interested in two people at the same time, what you said above resonates with me. If the parties aren't all really into each other - not sure how that is supposed to work out.

And this is coming from a person whose partner recently said he wouldn't mind watching and then participating with me being with another guy.....

 

That's one of the main reasons I've never tried to arrange an FMF threesome. My wife and I have only been in one MFM threesome. It was back in the mid-80s (we were both in our late 20s at the time), is was with a very close friend, and it went on frequently for just over six months.

In (partial) answer to the OP:

I'd just like to go back and pick up that old threesome where it left off (with all three of us at the ages we were back then. I'm 61 now and suffer from ED. There's no way I could perform up to "standards" in my current condition!) Mostly it was just lots and lots of vaginal sex with my wife. We never did any anal, or anything most people would call kinky. Usually it was 2-3 times a week, but there were stretches where we were fucking her almost daily! She gave me head a few times, but never did (not even once) for our friend, saying that that was reserved exclusively for me. Mostly, our friend and I would take turns petting and fucking her. Only a couple of occasions, we spit-roasted her (my cock in her mouth, his in her pussy.) Went that happened, she really tried hard to get both of us guys to cum at the same time, but it never quite worked out.

 

Buzz were condoms used? Was it Ok for both of you to cum inside her?

 

Condoms were NEVER used and both of us guys ALWAYS came inside her. We all knew that we were free of any STDs, none of us were fucking anyone else at the time, and my wife's birth control pills worked extremely well. She always wanted to feel us pumping inside when we came (and that sensation would frequently trigger her orgasm, if she hadn't already had one.)

Our friend had the most amazing sexual stamina. He could fuck my wife for 10-15 minutes at a time, repeatedly, without every cracking a sweat. When he finally did cum, he'd just keep cumming and cumming and cumming! I've watched him pump (productively) for well over a minute. There were a couple of occasions where his semen would start to leak out of my wife's pussy (around the base of his cock) while he was still pumping inside her, simply because he'd "filled her up" and there was no room left! It was so amazingly arousing to watch, I'm almost starting to get hard right now, just remembering it!

 

I've always been in a hetero relationship, but I am bi. I've been licking clit and taking dick since I was 10. I love sex. I love threesomes and group sex, but I don't like to share. I would be okay with him getting a bj by another man, but that's it. I'd lose my mind if he touched the other woman if it were FMF. I, however, want it all. This is a cool thread, but has anyone ever fucked some random person at a gas station?

 

Depends. Was there pumping involved, whether of liquid petroleum products or other fuels and lubricants?

 

You always know exactly what to say.

I'll be in my bunk...

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Never been in anything other than one-on-one. Too many parts flying around to keep focus.

Maybe eventually, but for now, my current partner is more than enough for me.

 

I have a feeling that if I was to get into a threesome, it would be in a role as moral support... "you can do it!!!!"

 

Ask and ye shall receive (sometimes).

Female here. Threesome is out. Not myself or a partner engaging in one, together or not. No way, no how. While I wholeheartedly support the idea for others, I know myself too well to give it a go, were it to be an option. I'm WAY too jealous a person, and although I was not an only child, I was never able to absorb the "play nicely with others and SHARE your toys/things" policy.