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The Purloined Household

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by Random McRandom, Nov 8, 2011.

  1. Joniemack

    Joniemack Beta brainwaves in session

    Location:
    Reading, UK
    But one can then be a child for the rest of their life. My ex-husband for instance. :)
     
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  2. Eddie Getting Tilted

    Basically, the change from one species into another.
     
  3. Random McRandom

    Random McRandom Starry Eyed

    I'm just gonna drop a *facepalm* here. It seems like a good place.
     
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  4. Joniemack

    Joniemack Beta brainwaves in session

    Location:
    Reading, UK
    Citation please.
     
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  5. Bodkin van Horn

    Bodkin van Horn One of the Four Horsewomyn of the Fempocalypse

    My kids are totally more likely to commit murder because I cook them lunch.
     
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  6. Random McRandom

    Random McRandom Starry Eyed

    Shit! I made my kids lunch for school this morning. Fuck! I hope they don't go Columbine.
     
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  7. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    There are a number of problems with this.

    1) Your pointing out feminism is noted when you suggest a turning point of "adopting a destructive lifestyle." This suggests to me that you blame feminism for this adoption. Feminism, generally, is concerned with the liberty of women (more specifically: equality and rights on par with men).

    2) You appear to be assuming that increased suicide, abortion*, divorce, child-on-child murder, crime, poverty, and rampant immorality** is somehow connected to feminism. You haven't named anything else as causes.

    3) If i) feminism is, basically, about the liberty of women, and ii) feminism is implicated in the increased occurance of social ills, then you are essentially saying that you think the liberty of women causes social ills. This, in turn, tells me you have a problem with the liberty of women.

    * increased abortion isn't necessarily a bad thing; it may merely be an indication that more sex education and increased access to health care and contraceptives is required
    ** what you deem immoral I might deem moral and vice-versa, so I see this point as being meaningless
     
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  8. Eddie Getting Tilted

    Woman's rights may have been the reason for the start of feminism but it has little to do with the current agenda of the feminist movement. A movement which has been absorbed into modern day liberalism.

    I don't connect these effects to feminism per se, rather the agenda of the feminist movement/liberalism, which has torn down everything that gives stability to the household. And without a stable household you won't have stable children.

    As I said earlier, I don't think freedom is the issue. The issue is the agenda of the movement and how it tears down the moral fabric of our society to the point of rampant dysfunction.
     
  9. Random McRandom

    Random McRandom Starry Eyed

    morality is subjective.

    point me to a period of time where some supposed moral standard led to a peaceful society where dysfunction didn't exist. Show me where the church hasn't been the cause of numerous wars and death. Show me where the morality that you claim pervaded world society and humans were functional and civil in the highest regard. Show me these things.

    and then cite your sources that immorality is the cause of all of the ills you listed earlier..as requested by Joniemack
     
  10. the_jazz

    the_jazz Accused old lady puncher

    You may think one thing, but the historical evidence points to another. Men participated in child care. They were not always hunting, making war or "worked" (still waiting on that definition). Tool making, for instance, is an important part of hunting and/or war (probably work too, but since you won't bother to define your term or are lazy with them, I can't tell). Tool making generally requires sitting in one spot for a while, which is *shocker* fantastic for child care. Obviously, while the women were off gathering/creating the basis for civilization, they had the infants with them, but pretty much the way biology works for nursing mothers.

    So, yeah, Eddie, you clearly are pulling suppositions directly from you ass and calling them "facts". The good news is that I'm talking about agriculture, so those facts make for good fertilizer.

    You have no data to support the following claims:

    change in suicide rate
    change in abortion rate
    change in depression rate
    change in child-on-child murder
    change in immorality (whatever that means)

    And even if you could plot those data points, to pin them all on one sole cause completely ignores any other influences, like economics, geopolitics and epidemics.
     
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  11. Eddie Getting Tilted

    A morality based on truth is not subjective.
     
  12. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    Much of feminism has always been a liberal movement. Some of the "destructive" elements would be more in line with radical feminism, which is what many people tend to think about when they think about feminism. The liberalism in feminism isn't about dismantling the current social order; it's about giving the same liberties to women that are afforded men.

    What is "everything that gives stability to the household" exactly?

    You're going to have to expand on this. What agenda? Women's equality? Women's rights? What moral fabric is being torn? What's tearing it? What is the real cause of this dysfunction?
     
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  13. Random McRandom

    Random McRandom Starry Eyed

    what is truth?

    the bible? your god?

    what makes your god different than the gods of other societies in which theirs are completely based in falsity and yours is a pure and honest truth. You have a lot of citations and proof to come up with. Chicago Manual Style if you please.
     
  14. the_jazz

    the_jazz Accused old lady puncher

    *snort*

    You're so far away from truth on your claims in this thread that you might have acheived escape velocity.
     
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  15. Random McRandom

    Random McRandom Starry Eyed

    I have to walk away from this for a few minutes. I'm tired of trying to explain why I'm laughing to producers when I'm working on a serious PR piece.
     
  16. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    Actually, it's mostly based on values, principles, beliefs, and practices.

    "Premarital sex is wrong" is a belief, not a truism.
     
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  17. Eddie Getting Tilted

    I never said they didn't. But in the cultures you mentioned, the women where the predominant childcare givers/cooks/ homemakers while the men where predominantly the ones who left the home during the day and hunted/worked/fought. In the cultures you mentioned, the men were not the ones who predominantly provided childcare/tended to the home/cooked. That was my initial point. Do you disagree with my point?

    The economic and political trends are a result of the culture.
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    Maybe according to you, but then, who are you to say what's true and what's not? You're just a man, a fallible, imperfect man.
     
  18. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    While this may be the case, I'm uncertain you've convinced me that you understand the broader cause and effect in American society. You know, the truth behind the occurrence of things.

    You just struck a chord with me. I'm a post-postmodernist, which basically means I'm suffering from the hangover of several decades of critical theory that went on about how the only truth is that there is no truth. If it sounds like an ironic cop out, it is, which is why postmodernism is ultimately unsatisfactory.

    But what it outlines is this: for too long there have been institutions that have pretty much dictated what's "True" and what isn't. But many of the things they were talking about had no real basis in a reality of true vs. untrue. Since before the 20th century, it had been falling apart (date maybe back to the Enlightenment), and with postmodernism it pretty much came tumbling down.

    So we get this idea that "premarital sex is wrong" as once being a "truth" of one kind or another. Now? It's an opinion, man.

    Because that's all we have.

    Unless you want to talk about atoms and stuff.

    Or transmutation.
     
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  19. There is so much holy shit in this thread, my head can't process it. In fact, I can't even form a coherent statement about it, and I've been trying for about 5 minutes. I'll get my thoughts together and come back.
     
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  20. the_jazz

    the_jazz Accused old lady puncher

    As a matter of fact, I do disagree. So does the historical record. And most anthropologists. Men and women in hunter/gatherer societies didn't have "homes" since most are at the very least semi-nomadic. You still haven't explained what you mean by "work", so I'm going to continue to ignore that aspect of your argument except to point out that apparently not even you know what you mean. But in order to gather, women, by the very definition, have to leave home to gather. That's why women are suspected of creating agriculture - so that they could stay closer to home.

    And what the fuck is a "homemaker" when we're talking about nomadic and early cultures? That's a term existing entirely in your skull, Eddie. Did women do most of the cooking? Sure. I'll conceed that. Everything else in your claim is entirely of your own making and something that's been proven wrong by the historical record.

    Ah, but that's not what you've said - nor is it in any way true. You've said that all those problems you listed are the sole result of the rise of feminism (I'm still waiting for you to tell me when that began). But to this latest claim, Friedman would be rolling in his grave if he heard you say that about politics. You're a free marketer, so to say that cultural trends affect markets in the ways you've claimed is kind of illogical. That's a Keynsian interpretation of economics. And I didn't say "political trends", I said "geopolitical". There's a big difference. Need me to explain it to you?