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The Complaining and Bitching Thread

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by ASU2003, Jan 14, 2013.

  1. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    I will admit...I'm off my game.
    While I've been going out a date...here & there. This is almost by luck not intent.
    And I've screwed up other potentials than those...

    I have recently had two lovely women make advances...and I've been thrown off and stunned by this...to the point I either dismiss myself or lose the moment.
    Why??? :confused:
    I don't object at all to women showing interest...I enjoy it.

    Here I am, wanting to make something happen, encounter someone. And pondering potentials on dating sites too over some length of time.
    Even in "horndog" mode...where my hormones are making me eyeball anything that moves.
    BUT
    Given the chance...in the moment...I hesitate.
    There is NO ambiguity from them, which I normally bitch about...still I miss the beat.

    Am I that damaged??
    Am I unnecessarily anxious and self-conscious.

    Sure, I'm not as established as I'd like to be after everything...rebuilding it all.
    But ladies are not that ruthless...other guys can date without "having it all together"

    I need to let go.
    Forgive and forget.
    Start being the good-ol' easy going me.

    But all I can hear in my head & heart is "don't take the risk"
    even though...that's exactly what you have to do.
    You have to put yourself out there and be receptive...back & forth.

    I wonder if it's like periodic PTSD...not always, but enough that it makes me edgy and hesitant at times.

    I don't know, but it pisses me off about myself when beautiful women (who like me) "get away" like that
    because of my own lack of ability to leverage an opportunity to connect.
    Friggin' idiot. :rolleyes:
     
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  2. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect

    Location:
    At work..
    this day is deagging ass
     
  3. redravin

    redravin Cynical Optimist Donor

    Location:
    North
    Haven't slept since Monday.
    Wonder how long this will last?
     
  4. Cayvmann

    Cayvmann Very Tilted

    I wish I would stop posting in the wrong topic
     
  5. Speed_Gibson

    Speed_Gibson Hacking the Gibson

    Location:
    Wolf 359
    And thus the zombie plague spread from poor customer service...
     
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  6. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect

    Location:
    At work..
    So sleepy
     
  7. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    FSM, I am so fucking sick of the midterm elections. The Republicans in Oregon are desperate, and the commercials are ridiculous.
     
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  8. Speed_Gibson

    Speed_Gibson Hacking the Gibson

    Location:
    Wolf 359
    The Republicans win never in Oregon, their chances of winning the Governor's Seat are worse than the General Lee doing a 200 foot jump with the occupants not wearing seatbelts and getting more than a light bump on the landing or a slight scratch. Portland is by far the largest collection of voters that carry the most weight where it matters, and that group is solid Democrats.
     
  9. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    I hate it when someone's main argument is "it's wrong because I say so," especially in response to a statement of fact. What am I supposed to do with that? (Ignore it. I know.)
     
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  10. MeltedMetalGlob

    MeltedMetalGlob Resident Loser Donor

    Location:
    Who cares, really?
    I didn't get invited to any Halloween parties this year. :( (Usually I attend two or three!)

    Naturally, that prompted this:
    [​IMG]
     
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  11. Speed_Gibson

    Speed_Gibson Hacking the Gibson

    Location:
    Wolf 359
    ....Just find some Nazis to battle in Africa or some Communists that will die when they encounter some aliens that probably shouldn't be included in the story.
     
  12. Japchae

    Japchae Very Tilted

    The smell... Oh holy hell... What did my husband eat?
     
  13. omega

    omega Very Tilted

    Tuna noodle casserole?
     
  14. Japchae

    Japchae Very Tilted

    Eew. Death farts are hopefully done for now...
     
  15. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    I hate not knowing what's going on. My anxiety is wreaking havoc today.
     
  16. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Damned cold medication is causing me to go pee every 30 minutes. To make it worse I'm drinking plenty of water because the decongestant makes me thirsty, and hot tea makes my sore throat feel better.

    My wife bitches about me watching The Walking Dead. Well, boo-fucking-hoo. I remind her that I don't like Hawaii Five O, NCIS LA, NCIS New Orleans, Leverage, Criminal Minds, etc.
     
  17. Stan

    Stan Resident Dumbass

    Location:
    Colorado
    Colorado is a swing state. my phone rings every 5 min from 5pm to 9 with some dumbass wanting to talk politics.

    Our Republicans went the loony moral route, rather than an economic one, this year. The commercials and calls are insulting.
     
  18. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    True conservative. Liberal. Border security. Obama liberal. Border crisis. Family values. Closet liberal.

    I've had enough.
     
  19. Borla

    Borla Moderator Staff Member

    Yesterday during the game I sat through three straight commercials about the same politician. He's either Jesus Christ come again, or Lucifer himself. Depends on which commercial was catchier I guess.
     
  20. DamnitAll

    DamnitAll Wait... what?

    Location:
    Central MD
    I'll always come party with you, MMG. My house doesn't even get trick or treaters.

    #sadtrombone
     
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