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Suit and Tie: Why Do We Associate Them with Authority and Experience?

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by rogue49, Jun 28, 2014.

  1. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    In IT it depends on what role you're taking and what's typical for the area & environ.

    Admin, Web design, Dev and such...most dress like you describe. I agree with the ageism.

    But in Washington DC, most places tend to be a bit more conservative in dress than places like San Francisco or otherwise.
    And also in more consulting/contracting positions and senior management roles...project manager and such.
    Or if you're meeting with clients...

    Business Casual is the most you can get away with...Khakis, Dockers and a button shit with not much pattern.
    No jeans allowed.

    And if you need to project authority or make a presentation, you can get away with sans tie these days.
    But you better be in a nicely cut suit...with a conservative shirt to balance it.
    Personally, I prefer this these days...it projects a confident but slightly casual look, comfortable power players have made it acceptable.
    Me, I like it because it doesn't restrict my neck/breath, trigger coughs ...and I run hot. (a suit is much more comfortable than a tie)

    But I find that the ones that are trying to play people or posture.
    They'll dress up a bit more conservative than others...as this is a part of their mask.
     
  2. martian

    martian Server Monkey Staff Member

    Location:
    Mars
    Certainly it depends on what line of work you're in specifically. IT is a big field. I'm in what I guess these days would be called "cloud services" so most of the people I meet and interact with are hardcore geeks. "Dressing up" usually means a collared shirt that may or may not be buttoned.

    I'm cool with it. I get to wear what's comfortable. I have a strong preference for jeans and a t-shirt these days.

    Of course there's also the fact that I work from home quite a bit, so on those days there isn't really a dress code to speak of. I may or may not have spent entire days working in my underwear.
     
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  3. MSD

    MSD Very Tilted

    Location:
    CT
    A tie is a noose at one end and an arrow pointed toward your genitals at the other. A symbol that your masculinity is conditional on your acceptance of the stranglehold that the system has on you. The suit frames the image of the noose and the arrow, affirming your acceptance of this control and your willingness to conform.

    Or maybe it's just a "look how rich I am" convention that nobody cares enough to challenge and I made that up as I went along.
     
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  4. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    The tie as we know it originated in the 17th century. It was brought prominence by Croatian mercenaries that used a piece of cloth tied around their necks to keep their coat closed. The French King at the time (the guy who had hired the mercenaries) liked the look an made it a thing that people had to wear at court (because it was cool and because he wanted to honour the mercenaries).

    The trend grew from there, but did not become formalized to the way we think of ties until about 1900 or so.

    As it grew out of court wear, it was adopted by the growing middle class and certainly carried meaning.

    Today? The meaning of a tie has been largely (but not completely) stripped of this sort of meaning. The fact that the vast majority of business people don't even wear them these days should give some indication of the weight a tie bears in this day and age.

    I wear bow ties and ties because I like the way they look. I am pretty sure that if everyone in this office (or in the many offices in the area where I work) were wearing suits and ties, I would find something else to wear.

    Fashion is as empty of meaning in the modern world as just about anything else that postmodernism has shat out. Pastiche is the norm.
     
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  5. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Well, again it depends on where you are.
    But there is more of a meritocracy than ever before, encouraged by the Internet.
    What a person looks like isn't as much as what they do.

    But I work in DC and in the higher levels of business and government.
    So the suit is a "thing" still in those environs and with that level of player.

    However, again...a player can show their confidence, style and authority by not wearing a tie or special outfit.
    As if they are comfortable and can get away with it.
    It really depends on the situation and your rank.
    That and the outfit is still a decent quality.

    Me, if I have total discretion, it depends on my mood...I'm not consistent.
    Sometimes I like to play dress-up...sometimes I don't want to deal with it at all.
    Hell, I think if I could get away with it...I'd go in butt-naked some days. :rolleyes:
    But that's not reality.
     
  6. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    I can appreciate that context is everything and that working in DC is going to be different from working in Brooklyn which is different again from Singapore.

    There is also a difference between these types of suits. I feel that many here are talking about the first two, while I am talking about the latter two.

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  7. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    I find that in conservative DC, the first row is the standard.

    While I would suspect to tend to see the 2nd row in NYC
    and this is what I personally prefer and wear at work. (although I'm not as skinny, the cut & style is the same)

    Actually, I'd like to try the 3rd row...but I don't have the budget for experimentation yet.
    You need a variety if you're going to do that...and you may want others to look at you, give an opinion, because you may stick with the "status quo" otherwise.

    Although, I don't know if others would attribute authority or experience with them...more likely they would think of style.
    You wouldn't start with these in an interview I would think...or in a presentation.
     
  8. fresnelly

    fresnelly Getting Tilted

    Location:
    Toronto
    At almost 40, I'm only just getting comfortable in a suit. I think I was too self consious to the implied authority of the suit. I guess I feel old enough to be "worthy". Now I just have to work up the courage to take my cheap, off the rack suits to a tailor.

    Speaking of first impressions, there's nothing like an ill-fitting suit to blow your cover.
     
  9. cynthetiq

    cynthetiq Administrator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    New York City
    it's just a costume like anything else.
     
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  10. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    They used to be worn with capes too.
     
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  11. Shadowex3

    Shadowex3 Very Tilted

    The second row's advantage is in functionality. Higher cut armholes allow you to move around with much less restriction and without the suit body pulling after your bicep, while the waistcoat lets you keep your shirt and tie under control and maintain a formal look even after taking your jacket off.
     
  12. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    I prefer the 3rd row; that is what I tend to see around Portland these days. I've also seen that formal Bermuda short trend popping up here. I don't know quite what to make of it. Bermuda shorts don't exactly scream authority, nor does that third row of suits. However, they do communicate to me that you care about fashion and trends in fashion.
     
  13. omega

    omega Very Tilted

    I don't think of them as costumes, but uniforms. But isn't everything? Even so called cliques or groups are wearing a uniform. Even what you work out in. A punk with a mohawk is wearing his clans uniform. Trench coat mafia loners, business people, old people, etc... Look at the kids with the basketball jerseys and the baseball caps turned sideways. Now its a flat brim instead of the rolled and shaped brim. It may be ugly, (and I mean fucking retarded looking), but for them its a style.
     
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  14. Plan9

    Plan9 Rock 'n Roll

    Location:
    Earth
    I'm one of those suit guys.

    ...

    Wow, a lot of repressed suit hate up in here. Like most threads, it probably says more about the individuals than the topic itself. The wrapping can't compensate for a shitty product, but great wrapping on a great product? The point.

    Every man should own one good suit and be able to crack the Double Windsor knot, if only for weddings and funerals. It's up there with being able to change a flat tire, do pullups and operate a rifle.

    Esoteric knowledge is a lot of the bullshit trivia people memorize as a part of their job. Wearing a suit is general purpose knowledge for many of those that have business outside the US.

    Show up to a meeting in London, Munich or Dubai in your 3 Wolf Moon t-shirt and baggy man-capris... your MENSA membership means nothing: you look like a child.

    A quiet, well-dressed dummy will get farther in life than a garrulous, Cheetos-encrusted rocket doctor. See every dating thread ever on this forum.

    ...

    You associate suits and ties with authority and experience because they have been adopted as the universal business uniform across the globe. And because you're a total slob.

    Those of us that had the pleasure of serving in the military understand the game: It's designed to create order with stratification in the workplace. Drones, leaders.

    If you're in an office where it's business casual (or just business sloppy), the guy in the suit is probably in charge of everybody, for better or worse.

    Suits have tiers as well. Being able to spot the Level 97 Peacock in a sea of Men's Wearhouse at a function is useful at times.

    I know it's America and it's all avant-garde to dress like dogshit when you're a rich genius, but that's just silly.

    Knowing your job + physical fitness + decent suit = baddest motherfucker in the room. Simple math.

    I've been to developing nations where men wear suits just to go to dinner with friends.
     
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  15. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
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  16. Plan9

    Plan9 Rock 'n Roll

    Location:
    Earth
    Would you believe I've seen him in concert? Once in a lifetime experience. He was clad in this fantastic purple sharkskin suit that--from the right angle--could likely be seen from space.

    Did it give him authority?

    You bet your ass it did.
     
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  17. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    All I know is that Lew Welch was Huey Lewis' stepfather.
     
  18. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    The brief teaser for the Fifty Shades of Grey trailer is total suitporn. It made me actually want to watch the trailer just for some hot suit action.
     
  19. redravin

    redravin Cynical Optimist Donor

    Location:
    North
    It does depend on where you are.
    My oldest daughter handles large loans for the largest Alaskan credit union.
    She'll tell you that some of the richest people, who own big companies, look the most like hobos.
    Like I said that's up here.
    You couldn't get away with that in NJ which is why I probably didn't fit in all that well.
     
  20. Bodkin van Horn

    Bodkin van Horn One of the Four Horsewomyn of the Fempocalypse

    I'm pretty sure that the authority owed to a suit's wearer is communicated by how shiny the suit is, and this is how I know that NFL commentators are the most authoritative people in the world.