Sex with Extended family?

Will make Thanksgiving dinners much more interesting for sure, no matter what happens.

 

I suspect that the OP may think that monogamy is a type of wood!

 

Nonsense, everyone knows monogamy is that thing where people fold paper into cranes n' shit.

 

hmmm, ok so married people, if your wifes sister or husbands brother hit on you, what would you do?

 

I think I would tell her I was flattered, but that the risk is FAR too great.

If you want extra sex, that's fine, but do you REALLY want to bed someone that ultimately will almost certainly side with your wife against you in a crisis?

There is only one curcumstance that this is even roughly worth doing, and that is if you and your wife talk it over first, and you have her enthusiastic participation.

If you need to persuade her, it's not wise.

 

Your fantasy about having sex with SIL should stay in your head and should go no further. Do not tell your wife or SIL about said fantasy or you will probably end up in a massive argument where you will end up sleeping on the couch or she might divorce you if you keep bring up the subject.

You: Hey, I kind of want to still have sex with your sister. You want to join us if she agrees?

Your wife and SIL: *long angry silent stare* Out.

I would tell them to stop.

 

How does the subject come up? Does she flirt with you and back off when you start to take her seriously? Thing is, the fact that she's shooting you down when it starts looking too "real" is the key to your answer - she's not serious so it's best you back off Jack. Some women just enjoy flirting. BIL's are usually considered a safe bet the flirting won't go any further. If you continue, chances are you will only make a major fool of yourself, not to mention the fact that others will catch on.

 

First get a barf bag. Then politely tell them to stop. Then run like hell because there's absolutely no good that can come of the conversation.

Unless the in-law in question is give-them-half-your-stuff hot (which is rare), then it's simply not worth it. It's one thing to get some strange on the side where it's not going to get back to them. But you're counting on your spouse's sibling to keep the truth from them. Unless they don't talk already, there's no good outcome here.

 

I would assess my feelings. If I wanted to be with my sister-in-law more than I wanted to be with my wife, I would divorce my wife and get with my former sister-in-law, openly, honestly, and without games or deceit. If I didn't feel strongly enough to divorce my wife and get with my former sister-in-law openly and honestly, then I would refuse her advances, and remain married and faithful.

Because that's how grown-up people handle relationships.

 

Yuck and double yuck , banging your sister in law is icky. She probably looks like your wife too.
Is she a slimmed down or younger version ? are you hankering after what was ?
If your contemplating it, get a divorce and do the honourable thing, if I was your wife and I found out I would John Wayne Bobbit your bits.

 

That brings a whole new outlook on everything

 

That brings a whole new outlook on everything

 

My ex's hot younger sis & I had a mild, open flirtation for years. Very mild, very open. When she got a deevorse she started getting frisky, coming over all the time - wandering around my house in short shorts, leaving off the underwear, modelling her new bikinis while she swam w my younglings & BBQ'd dinner . . . shit like that. I became very obtuse, acted totally unaware of her big-eyed wet-lipped signals, & stepped waaay back from the flirtation. Eventually the poor horny girl found a couple of fellows who were glad to bang her silly. She & I slowly regained our earlier friendly ways together. Don't get me wrong. It was a turn on for me, and fueled my desire from time to time. I just never expressed that desire with the SIL, only with my (then) wife.

When talking about her sister w my ex, the ex figured the hot SIL would have been thrilled to get me in the sack. It would be a combination of one-upmanship on her older sister of whom she'd always been jealous & envious, & a validation of her own desirability/sexual power after having been divorced by a man who would rather jerk off in the garage to tacky images of fat women than have sex with her (yuck - I saw those mags - yuck). I am very glad that the SIL wasn't the reason my marriage eventually (10-12 years later) came to an end. That would have been both tacky & demeaning to me.

For some reason my brothers never chose women I thought were hot enough to think horny thoughts about. Never did any of my sibs have inlaws I saw regularly who I thought were hot. My own Lady's sister/SIL's are definitely not anything I find hot. But hot isn't the reason to go for it. That choice should be made with more behind it than fantasy and an urge to rub your willy against something that is in that interesting place of being both known & unknown. I mean, going for an easy lay with someone like an SIL can totally fuck up your entire family dynamic. Family is for life. That foul-your-own-nest shit ought not go down. Ever. Jerk off, buddy. Fantasize during sex. Or get a deevorse (if you are married) & hook up with some of the millions of SIL's that are out there. Give this one a pass. Really.

 

My brother is married to a woman who by all objective standards is very physically atractive.
I can say that and at the same time tell you that I do not, and have never felt any type of sexual attraction towards her.
I just don't see her that way.
She's the mother of my brother's children and a part of my family now.
I don't think I could even perform sexually with her if I had to. The thought just makes me queasy.

 

Honestly, I'd fuck her like a rabbit until the shit and the fan collided...

And a few times after.

Oh, but I'm not married. I'm sure there's a reason for that.

 

What is... NOFX?

 

"Here's to you.....

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Seriously, this seems like a really bad idea, unless your family structure is wayyyy different than any I'm come across in real actual life...

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