Sex times

I don't really want to know how many orgasms I have in a year, but my guess is it blows 700 out of the water. It's nice to be responsive. I know my husband is nowhere near that, largely due to time constraints.

 

One would assume masturbation is a part of the equation. It's supposed to be good for you, even if it isn't quite as good for you as sex with a partner.

I haven't had sex anywhere near 700 times my entire life.

 

I'd tend to agree. Most, or at least many, of the chronic killers of men also impact sexual function.

 

The article points out that the study does not show causation, only association. "Maybe healthier people have more orgasms, instead of the other way around," says Erick Janssen of the Kinsey Institute.

Any reasonably healthy male who desires sexual release and who possesses functional right (or left)arm and hand should have no trouble attaining orgasm at least once a day.

And what about women and frequent orgasms extending their lives?

 

I'm helping her with that experiment now. I'll keep you posted how it goes.

 

I wonder if masturbation is underreported by older men, reflecting the stigma (self abuse, etc.) with which masturbation was once viewed.
I know the archetype is that women lose interest in sex, but men maybe also just lose interest. My aunt (Mom's younger sister - age 61) complains that her husband just isn't interested in her any more. Whether he is pecker pounding for his own release... who knows? Both of them are attractive and to all appearances physically fit.

 

Peter Pecker & the Pounders with their debut album, A Pound of Love.

 

It was their seminal work...

 

Yes, but you have to remember...there are many that either under-report (shy, ashamed, denial, etc...) and there are a significant amount of men that are truly not "interested".
It's just that there is a social stigma in reverse of women, that you "have to" be interested in sex and self-pleasure...otherwise you're not "a man" or enough of a man.
Many men hide it...or simply just don't "work it" .or advertise it...or don't do it at the level they are "expected" or at their mates desire level.

Frankly, I'd say it's 50-50 believe it or not.
Same goes with women...there are some that are sexually introverted, some extroverted. (it's just they can't advertise it)

There are many things you cannot admit to or advertise in this world.
Or in reverse...not believed. (people are really skeptical)

I can't tell you how many times I'd love to just say, here I am...here's the truth...take it or leave it.
And actually, I try for that. (in an "appropriate" manner...and sometimes not)
It's a great thing to feel unburdened with.
Funny thing is...I don't mind people knowing...it's just that people react strangely or negatively. (You can't handle the truth!! )

In a way, I feel sorry for those who just aren't interested...but cannot freely discuss it. (if they want, that is)

 

From what I understand...is that your body doesn't recognize the difference between orgasms, either by masturbation or intercourse.

Sex, of course, gets more exercise, hormones and other benefits from sexual interaction,
but as to the orgasms themselves...there is no diff.

So play with yourself or another...doesn't matter...just get off.
But I'm sure that full sex would be more fun. (or maybe not, depending on who you're with...and what goes on during that session)

Make Mr. Happy...happy. (or Ms. Happy...happy )