Sex times

Ok, now I can participate in this thread...beyond just memories and philosophical statements.
I never thought it would go this far, it was just a curiosity what others thought on the initial stats...but it looks like people want to express themselves...and that's a good thing.

I've finally become active again after my long trials of my ex.
You sometimes have to wonder if you still can...and have the "stuff" you had before all the pain.

But I'm back in the saddle again...and the proof is a wonderful line from the lady I was having fun with, "I think I just fell in love with your penis"
Well, it's a start...we'll see if she continues to like the rest of me too, our 3rd date is tonight (We're staying in and I'm making her a fish dinner)

But as usual...I analyze everything.
Not about her...I don't need to do that with her...but how I did. (that's all I can "control"...and I prefer to give than get...enjoying all the aspects of her body & pleasure)
How the equipment held up...how long, how often.
A run-thru of the engines.

So, it seems I still have it ...but out of practice for marathon level.
Perhaps a long work-week, lack of sleep and wine were factors.
But I did decent, the first two dates. (yes, I'm slut and proud of it...and I hate that word anyway. Hey, if you can get it, have all the fun you can, men or women)

After ripping each others' clothes off...we went at it the first set for 2 hours. (with a following mid-night session and morning too)
Intercourse for 5 or 6 times on the first session...likely going for about 15 minutes on average. (that's an estimate, I wasn't focusing on the clock, I wanted her)
Rigidity was good...although, I will admit, it was more challenging on the last couple of times.
She got off several times, I got off twice. (not counting oral or digital scenarios during the time, that was additional a few times)

But I'm not "rocketing" O's...and the base of my shaft is having more rigid challenges than the head. (this more than satisfies her...but it is a bit awkward for me)
(is this because of her "hugging" me? or because of my masturbation patterns? I think the latter...I've started "practicing" by working the base more...where the vaginal muscles hug)
She slept at the end of the first set...and as usual I didn't...I was raiding the fridge.

I woke her in the middle of the night...we had another go. This was better the 2nd date than the first...but the time was likely 10 the first date, 20 the 2nd date
She slept hard...and me on and off. (I have a difficult time after a good sex since I'm so stimulated)
She woke in the morn...and we had a final go at it. Again, this was better the 2nd date than the first.
My guy finally had "challenges" keeping fully rigid after a few minutes the 1st date. (my theory was I was tired, out of practice...and the condom restricting sensation)
The 2nd date again was better and then some.

I'm getting hot more than I used to...need a fan going or I overheat after the first hour.
And I had some difficulty getting oxygen...but that was better after clearing my nose.
Everything counts. I hate it.
The body is a complicated thing...sometimes it's perfect...often it's not. And in sex, people often take it personal or selfishly.

The condom factor is a difficulty...but necessary for now.
Now getting it on, although I hate to pause to do so...but the sensation is not as stimulating. (even with "thin" ones.)

So, I'm finding at least for now...I'm good to go on the first and 2nd part of the marathon, it's the end I need to adjust for.
I wonder if this is practice, body stamina...or just rhythm between the both of us.

I'll admit, I had some issues when I was with my ex at the end...but that was likely due to stress, lack of sleep and then some.
But she still got off three times or so...but this wasn't good enough.
I once tried the little blue pill...it didn't make that much of a difference. I still did the deed, for same length of time.
And from what I see here...I don't need it. (rest & relaxation is more a factor for me)

Tonight, if I get lucky...I'm well rested and I'll try to avoid liquor.
I tried to not wack off the last couple of days, but failed last night (hey, I was horny) ...to attempt to give a more significant orgasm on my part, if not quicker.
(Why do women take such insult if you take some time to get off...or don't to what they expect??? Or when? Can't we just have fun...and it goes, when it goes. Damn, people complicate things)

Sorry, if I surprised anyone with the analytical details...it's just how my mind works.

 

I think that is generally the conclusion this thread has come to via us sharing personal experiences. We're all different, and we all have our different tastes. Additionally, what we desire often depends on context, and how long it takes may depend on how much time there is to enjoy it.

 

Exactly.
But I was feeling left out a bit on the thread I started...and I needed to get out my analytical thoughts in my head. (it's just the way I roll)

However, all systems are a go...and then some.
Time to enjoy some sweet lovin'
'nuff said.

 

I'm glad that you could participate, and I understand your perspective and your way of doing things. For me, this thread has become a way to enjoy the infinite variety that is sex, even married sex, and it's cool to see others share what gets them going. It's something we need to do once in a while.

 

Agreed...that's what's a value to me from the TFP...where people can share what's normally hidden or indiscreet.
Unfortunately, there is no "book" on the matter and it difficult to compare in truth. (what people often say doesn't translate well or even related well...some are often circumspect)
There's no true class, media is often a myth.
People only learn by trial and error. (and there are always doubts and conflicting feelings)

If more were aware and took thought to consider it...as you would any other "up front" subject...then much concern and discomfort would be resolved....and people could just simply enjoy themselves.

I hope for a day when it can be spoken and discussed with rational and adult thought in the open.
The world would be a much better place.
There would be many more smiles.

 

Ugh, I really need some sex.

 

Sometimes I wonder if there's ever enough, IMHO

 

Never enough.

 

I think I got more than my share this morning. And Sig started it. Usually I start our morning sessions by abusing him while he' still asleep. Or at least pretending. This morning he started with a little nipple nibbling thru my nightshirt.

 

Well, I was in need...I'm good for right now, though. Who knows how long that'll last, though. My libido these days is huge. Standard mish the first time, and then anal the second. Glad both times fell during halftimes and didn't take too long. I like to balance my sports and my sex.