same ol same ol. maybe NSFW

Well last night was awesome..... things were a little different and my mind wasn't on other things. So I had all the focus on my wife. And she one upped me on different things. She was clean shaven if you know what I mean. That was a first for both of us
So the less stress you have the more you can concentrate on other things... It was AWESOME

 

She basically doesn't drink. When she does it's one.

I am of course a part of the problem. I don't place enough importance to my needs in my relationship...

 

Holy crap.... again in the middle of the day. That never happens. Maybe things are starting to look up.




Cayvmann my wife really dosent drink either. But I came home with a bottle of wine one time and told her that we were going to celebrate us being us. And that night was a good one. Maybe just surprising her with something like that might help. Just a thought.

 

Well swelp me, Ralphie. I wasn't actually surprised the good changes have maintained, but i wanted to hear it from you all the same .. I hadn't checked in. I've got some miniature of whisky and a can of beer, and am doing a chug-sip-chug-sip toast to the Both of you. I mean, this is about the whole ruddy balance of how you and she get along. I KNOW it was a lifetime caution/nono she'd been taught, you'd said so. And it's you and she who are sorting this. I can't actually find the words, mate, cos I'm so happy. Ok Envious too, but very happy for you. You know what I mean. CHEERS to the both of you

 

Thanks man. I really appreciate it.
Cheers.
I didn't know that stress could do so much to a relationship, epically since we've been married for 12 years.

 

Stress kills lots of things--sex and stress don't mix well. Glad you figured it out and maybe you can figure out ways for both of you to reduce stress levels on a regular basis in order to move out of the rut you were in.

 

That's a good idea. I'll gave to do that.

 

i could see it happening in the car cause youre just driving and there are little distractions as far as everyday things. you have time to talk.

i did ask her is now that hers was shaven if mine was next, and her response was "maybe, but only if i can do it". i liked to ran off the road when she said that. im starting to wonder where my wife is... but maybe being 30 has something to do with it.

 

happy for you folks

 

Just an update ... things are getting better

 

*fist bump*

 

Go for it tiger and tigress

 

How did you get her to masturbate? My wife doesn't, says it does nothing for her.

 

It took a while. When i was touching her occasionally i would ask her to put her hand on top of mine and eventually she was doing the work with my hand. After time with that i told her that it was a turn on for me. And slowlyyyyyyyyy it happened. The first time she dis it i was touching myself and put her hand on her and asked her to do it. It took a few times and BOOM it happened. But we had talked about it also. Have yku talked to her about it??