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Question about female orgasm???

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by kdluvsbd, Sep 9, 2011.

  1. Fangirl

    Fangirl Very Tilted

    Location:
    Arizona
    Though gushing feels great, to me a full on orgasm feels like a fantastic series of muscle spasms--I suppose clenching is what's going on tho'.
     
  2. Another search term is: "female prostate." The website "the_clitoris" is outstanding, to me. I learned the female prostate was first written about in 1672. It's logical, when we remember that at conception all fetuses begin with only one set of "parts." Later, the parts develop differently. None disappear. Think of the urethral "exit part" of men and women."
    I believe there's more discoveries to be made about women's ejaculations (and orgasm-connections; and men'sā€¦). "Fangirl" hinted at my up-to-now noticings: that there's at least two possible "kinds" of female ejaculate and one seems often tied closer to orgasm.
    "Mari," not her full given name but her nickname ā€” I find it funny enough to add that she joked about her menses being "Mari's nara sauce" ā€” was an adventurous young woman who became my short-time lover long ago (she too-soon moved back east following her job). We quickly began taking whole days alone for mutual pleasuring and I'd get "emptied." (We BOTH napped, if you must know.) Nevertheless, we soon discovered tha in this state,t when she orgasmed atop me, a fair amount of thickish white "cream" would gather at the base of my member afterwards, having emerged from inside her vagina. That was a head-scratcher, when her natural "lubricant" was a bit clearer and less liquid. Now where did THAT come from?
    Jump forward many years. "Becky" and I once coited in a motel tub. I slipped my arms between her legs, cupped her buns in my hands and lifted her up against a wall so her lower clitoral ridge rode heavily atop my member. We quickly noticed a warm liquid splattering in the tub and my bush and legs getting soaked. This turned me on (okay, I'm weird) and I continued to my culmination but she didn't. She "relaxed enough to let it go," though, she said. It was a lot and immediately afterwards she had to pee, doing so for as long and as much as usual. With no thrashing, no clenching, no loud orgasm.
    We learned how to bring on the liquid flow when she or we wanted it and (okay, we were both weird) taste tests confirmed that it wasn't pee. It shot out of her urethra, not her vagina.
     
  3. Hi all. Copying this comment which I made in another thread. Hopefully not already covered on this one.

    One really important thing no one seems to touch on is *why* a woman's body should be able do this. And there's a really cool reason. Granted right now it seems to be just a theory but I totally believe it.

    It's a general cleansing mechanism, including UTI prevention!

    The software here is preventing me from posting a link because I'm brand new to TFP, so I have to break this up. But, see

    http://
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    ncbi.
    nlm.nih.gov/
    pubmed/
    19766406

    Excerpts from the abstract: We hypothesize that female ejaculation has a unique function in producing a secretion into the urethra that provides protection from urinary tract infections (UTIs). We also hypothesize that retention of prostatic tissue and an ability to ejaculate its glandular secretion were maintained in women because these traits provided an evolutionary advantage. Specifically: (1) women who could ejaculate antimicrobial secretions into the urethra were less likely to suffer UTIs (particularly coitus-induced UTIs), (2) women without UTIs were more likely to be receptive to coitus at a greater frequency, (3) women engaging in frequent coitus were more likely to become pregnant, and (4) women who became pregnant often were more likely to successfully reproduce the species.

    So, if you are ejaculating it means you are in excellent sexual health! I love this theory because a) it helps this seemingly unusual thing make total sense, b) explains why women should enjoy it, and why stimulation around the urethra should trigger it, and c) because it explains why many men find it so hot! Just like big, healthy breasts say to us "good child-bearer", we instinctively recognize signs of reproductive health & likelihood of many successful pregnancies, and squirting is one of them.


    Also, here is a clip from (of all things) the Oprah Winfrey Show with Dr. Brothers talking about FE with a caller.

    https://
    www.
    youtube.
    com/
    watch?v=IQIgkwYN6Is


    Enjoy!