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Preferences when it 'cums' to cunni/felatio

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by AlwaysCurious, May 20, 2014.

  1. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    I think I'm going for take-out...
     
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  2. AlwaysCurious

    AlwaysCurious Vertical

    Location:
    Great Britain
    @Baraka_Guru


    That video was hilarious!

    It's a good thing me and my partner have pretty good communication then xD

    Okay, now it's time to share my story.

    Well, in my opinion it was really intimate.
    It was really new, and very different, and he tasted....I had nooo idea how to explain, like nothing else I'd ever tasted ever. Not sweet, slightly sour.
    He's quite wide, so my jaw started aching a little. We experimented with a few different positions. Him laying down, and me over him seemed best.
    He's not especially loud, so he was really quiet, which made a little nervous.
    We didn't think he'd came, although afterwards his penis started go a flaccid [he said he felt like he'd orgasmed, but didn't notice ejaculating], although he was ready for another go again pretty soon afterwards. He tasted a little bitter afterwards, and the texture had changed.

    After I'd gotten home, he told he he'd found a mark on his sheets where he had cummed, so erm...that explained a lot, we figured.


    Soo.....that's my story...
    I'm seeing him again later this week, so....more experimenting to be had....

    Any tips?
     
  3. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    If I'm reading your post correctly:
    While receiving a BJ from you, your BF might've had a dry orgasm, or a full orgasm, but neither of you knows for certain.
     
  4. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    I love it. ...brilliant find.
    Everything is relative...and depends on your perspective.
    And in sex, your own comfort level.

    Actually, if you watch enough adult material and read/watch some of the background material on the actors,
    you'll start noting that each has their own limits ...and preferences.
    They set the terms of what the will and won't do.
    One actress, will allow full on anal and then some...won't swallow. (and vice versa)
    Others will do a blowjob, even a rimjob...but not vaginal or anal sex. (and vice versa...like the vid)
    Hell, some will do a full on gangbang...but feel uncomfortable with masturbation vids.

    Also, I was fortunate enough to know some adult actresses back in San Diego... (many are quite intelligent, open and philosophical)
    There is always a factor of money in this case too...they will do what only is paid for...for EACH portion of the act.
    BJ?, Straight? Anal? How many? Exotic? Difficulty? etc and so on...
    So there is always budget to consider, what works for the movie & market. Biggest bang for buck. (pun intended ;) )

    But that's just a "zoo" like observation...where you can see the animals in their "natural habitat".
    In real life...with typical people...in everyday lives...EVERYONE has their comforts and preferences.
    For ANY act or scenario...and it can fluxuate thru time & situation.
    ...and it does not have to make "logical" sense.
    It just is.
     
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  5. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    I've finally gotten around to some long-overdue manscaping.

    It was like taking Chewbacca to the groomers.

    Now to see about getting fellated.
     
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  6. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    I'm inspired.
     
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  7. pWf

    pWf Getting Tilted

    I am a man with alot of body hair, all around. Except on the head! So I know plenty of ladies going ewwww LOL However I do keep my man parts shaved, do it every Saturday, unless we have a special event on a Friday or something (meaning swing fun). The wife she kinda fluctuates. LOVE waxed the best, sometimes she does a full sometimes a v above sometimes a strip. Very seldom full bald though. Says she gets ingrowns right above even with waxing.

    Over all I like clean around the lower parts, but will not turn down a good eating hair or not. I just prefer not to have stubble over all, can really burn the face when you get into it. But still wouldn't say no. BUT clean is a must! However a clean sweaty snatch can be alot of fun too... after a good workout at the gym... a little slip and slide
     
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  8. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Perhaps I'm weird, but I rather enjoy a hairy chest and a clean pate.

    You know, like this...

    [​IMG]
     
  9. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    That's not hair...it's barely there. (and not the head)
    As long as it's not on your full back and ass...or Robin Williams level, you're good to go.
    Me, I estimate I'm halfway between RW and the Captain above.

    IMHO...it's not the cock & balls that is difficult for men...that's easy, keep them clean and neat. (if you choose to do it at all)
    The question really is what to do with the bush and ass???
    How much is too much or too little for a man? (in the front.)
    And do you want to clean the hind-end? (inside or out)

    It's the bush question that I ponder...willy and the boys are clean.
    But the pelvic volume from an aesthetic angle is a challenge.
    You don't want to be the forests from the Moon of Endor...but if you do have hair elsewhere, you can't go all clean there. (unless you do everything)
    There's a balance.

    And my philosophy is if you're dating the backside should be clean.
    In a relationship there may be a bit more leeway.
    (and yes...this does have to do with oral sex ;))
     
  10. Fraeia

    Fraeia Getting Tilted

    Location:
    Newfoundland
  11. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Trimmed it up today with the clippers. I probably won't go as far as shaving.
     
  12. RedSneaker

    RedSneaker Very Tilted

    Pics or it didn't happen! Haha.
     
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  13. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    You're only like the thousandth person to say that to me on the Internet.

    'Cause, y'know, there are no real women on the Internet, or in video games, or anywhere. apparently.

    :p
     
  14. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    None of us exist in real life :D.
     
  15. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    I have a rule online, never trust someone to be female until you have seen them nude, in person, cam, or otherwise.

    This rule serves me well. Now that reverse image searching is a thing I've caught quite a few "single females" and a few "couples" using someone elses photos in swinger land. This sort of thing of course has been going on since the dawn of the internet. I recall a few "oh shit its a dude" moments some guys had back in my mudding days (1992-1996).

    And about 1999 when things like battle com came out, suddenly a lot of women in gaming couldn't figure out how to plug in a mic (roll eyes emoticon).

    So basically its always best to assume anyone you are talking to via text is a 45 year old man in a basement somewhere.
     
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  16. Lettice Dubois

    Lettice Dubois New Member

    Location:
    Oxford
    So this is my first post here and I must say, it tickles me somewhat to think that I will be assumed as a 45 year old man in a basement. My opinion on this topic however is that I prefer to be clean shaven for all the reasons mentioned previously. I love that my husband can see every part of me down there and I am fairly sure he does too! I particularly enjoy the way everything feels so much more sensual and oral is definitely the best example. As for my husband, he is quite hairy generally and so he does trim fairly vigorously around his nether regions, but for me personally, I love the fact that he is hairy- it's not at all excessive and therefore adds to his sexy masculinity and for this reason, I haven't fully decided if I would prefer him to leave it alone.
     
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  17. redravin

    redravin Cynical Optimist Donor

    Location:
    North


    I remember the days of the Ladies Lounge when guys would try to create characters to get in and post.
    Jadzia nailed them every time.
    I remember helping her track down proof on a bunch of those and I think she was only wrong twice.
     
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  18. Lettice Dubois

    Lettice Dubois New Member

    Location:
    Oxford
    Yes, I suppose it's even easier when most people use characters or even unrelated pictures as their gravatar. Myself including given I don't profess to be either of the characters in mine. No less beautiful though of course!!