likelyhood of Pregnancy through fingering with sperm????????

And knowing you, there will be plenty of latent sperm all over the place, so it won't matter where you get hit, it'll be flying.....

 

That's funny. Mine's Bukkake_Guru.

 

Ok, I'll make a serious comment here about calling the cops. I kind of hesitate posting this, because I don't want it taken the wrong way. But I think most of you folks have a good enough sense of the type of person I am to know I'm not trying to justify his actions or anything near that. That is absolutely not my intent. But here goes.......


If he continued to touch you after you clearly said "no, don't do that", you have every right to call the cops. You not only have the right to call the cops, but if it was my loved one telling me the story I'd absolutely encourage them to. My only caveat would be to think back through what happened and be sure that you clearly communicated you wanted him to stop and he didn't. I'm not saying this because I believe a woman has to fight and scream for it to be sexual assault, she doesn't. If she says "no", it means "no", PERIOD. All it takes is one verbal cue and all sexual activity should stop immediately.

But I'm saying this because I'm picturing two teenaged kids fumbling around. I'm picturing you both enjoying yourselves at first. Then very rapidly, either because you were afraid of pregnancy, something didn't feel right, whatever, you wanted him to quit. At that very second he should've stopped. But only you and he know exactly how/when you communicated that, and what his reaction was. And depending on how tight your pants were (you said they were still on), and how big his hand was, I can see it being possible that he tried to quickly pull it out and it hurt you, when his intent was just to remove it. Maybe he was confused and thought you were saying no to a new movement or the way he was stimulating you, and you wanted him to go back to what he was doing before (I've had my wife say 'no' in the middle of sex because she wanted rubbed L-R instead of up-down, or whatever. She didn't mean 'no, stop completely'). How long between when you told him to stop, and when he stopped? I'm not AT ALL trying to minimize what happened if you did clearly tell him no and he kept doing it without your consent. That would be absolutely wrong and criminal, and deserving of law enforcement being contacted. All I'm saying is that you should think clearly through what you said when and what his reaction was. An accusation of sexual assault is very serious, both for you and for him. If he was taking advantage of you, he deserves to be punished. If he was fumbling around and caught off guard and then tried to comply as soon as possible, that's a different story. Please don't take this to mean a suggestion of doubt, just that the details are a little underwhelming, lack of experience seems obvious, and I want to make sure you proceed with what really happened clearly in mind.

 

1. Doctor
2. Not likely pregnant.

However, I will say this...from my experience in hearing a variety of stories like this...that almost EVERY time, there was something else not said.
Usually it was much more complicated, more subtle, more extensive...and significant factors were left out.

I'm not going to sit here and write as if the boy was an aggressor and the girl was a victim.
While this CAN be true, I've seen many times where this was NOT true.
Unless I have proof otherwise, I assume mutual complicity.

The female participant has equal responsibility to herself, her own well being and any potential impact in her life.
Once you start playing with adult acts...then there can be adult consequences....and following cascading affects.
Personal responsibility is important.

Be discrete. It's no one's business but your own. But you can ask for advice from an more experienced acquaintance.
Be honest. EVERYTHING counts. All factors need to be truthfully looked at, all actions...including your own involvement.
Be realistic. Mother Nature does not care about nice things like religion, family, social status & culture... (the LAW shouldn't either)

Do not bring the cops involved unless there was REALLY a problem. (or law broken)
The act of this has impact on the accused life...cops showing up, etc... the shock and social impact is significant.
I'm not going to advise this either way on a friggin' board. The consequences are profound.

First, go to a doctor.
Tell the story...allow them to advise you initially. ...go from there.

 

Or you know... he could rub it around his lips and then stick his finger in there. Tell him you think it's sexy.