Is it true that if a man could experience a female orgasm

Interesting hypothesis, Skip, but it doesn't tell the full picture.

There is also a biological reason for women to have sex with many partners. We see it in nature, too. The female will mate with as many partners as possible and let the best able sperm fertilise her eggs.

That old "biological imperative" argument works for the goose just as well as the gander.

 

Is "best" a requirement? I would think any able sperm reaching the egg at the right moment will do the job. A woman with one able bodied sperm providing partner is just as likely to get pregnant with him as she is to get pregnant by one of multiple partners, providing she's ovulating and her egg is ready to be fertilized. For a woman to get the benefit of the fastest and most motile sperm available by way of intercourse with several different acceptable partners, she would have to have all this activity with the 48 -72 hour period she suspects she is ovulating.

If promiscuity in men can be attributed to the biological drive to spread their seed to as many women as possible, the same wouldn't necessarily apply to women who have but one egg a month to concern themselves with. There is no benefit to finding the most motile one from a selection of partners in what's a very narrow time window when a single partner, with able sperm but who's been selected by her for attributes far more important than exceedingly quick sperm motility, will suffice.

If women engage with multiple partners, it's not for procreation purposes though it could contain the purpose of narrowing down a field of acceptable mates towards the goal of finding one to procreate with. Complete with all the attributes necessary to protect her and a child as well as sexual compatibility.

 

Well, if we put cultural barriers aside and look purely at the biology, it seems that there are advantages in polyandry for the female. It may not follow the "logic" but that doesn't mean it isn't true.

Examples: The Genetic Benefits of Female Promiscuity - Blog

The Rise and Fall of Sexual Promiscuity -

 

I still think the downsides, for a women, outweigh the benefits though may not have early in human history when getting the species up and running and diversified was a more important factor than it is today.

Are biological imperatives still running the show despite the evolutionary change in our circumstances? Are modern men truly driven to promiscuity based solely on an unconscious call to spread their genetic material? Evidently, hormones in both men and women operate the same way they did tens of thousands of years ago, so maybe our sexual activity and choices are still dominated by the same ancient, biological bus drivers . I don't know.