how many times a week?

I gotta be honest, I find period sex gross. My wife hates the thought of it too. I've earned my redwings once or twice very early on, but I'm a hard pass these days.

There is no reason for it, its just not something that does *anything* for me.

 

Actually, while funny MMG raises a good point.
I have two friends who are GSM (a handy alternative to the rather long LGBTAQ+, it means Gender and Sexual Minorities which pretty much covers everyone).
Anyway the wife is asexual.
She just doesn't care about sex, it doesn't interest her in any way shape or form.
She likes to cuddle and be close to her partner and will have sex if that is something they really want.

Her partner understood that going into the relationship and has developed coping mechanisms.
They love her and they don't want to be with anyone else so they deal.
I don't know how I would handle such a relationship but I have massive respect for them.

 

Since we're coming up on the 6 year mark of no sex, here's the obligatory Photoshop:

 

i hate to like this....... if that makes any since

 

i was on a decent streak of atleast once a week. but the last month has been filled with horse shows and working late and stuff. you know life got in the way. so its been proablly 3 weeks or so . but it will get better

 

Interesting...though I'd never be tired of sex. HA....two kids later (3.5 and almost 5) Now I am tired all the time...but that's from life/kids. He wants it more than me...but again...I am freaking exhausted so much of the time by just every day right now. Add working a very demanding job whilst keeping everyone alive and in clean (semi?) clothes...lucky to average around 1-2 week when he's home...he's gone a lot for work and usually pretty in the mood on his days home. I'm also getting over the whole 'I'm gross and no longer the sexy 20 something I used to be before I had the kids stuff' in my head....I've put a lot of time into the gym too and gotten back to my college size but even then...there's only so much you can do for certain areas after babies. I'm trying to make more of an effort to initiate and buy sexy underwear etc to surprise him. Is it wrong that I prefer a backrub over an O these days?

 

My wife prefers a backrub. But sometimes it turns into sex

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How do you feel about giving a BJ or a "helping hand" after that back rub?

 

It often does, I do my best not to pull a starfish though

BJs happen very infrequently (not my favorite ) however the helping hand does occur, but usually the backrubs are a precursor to the deed.

 

If Sunday is considered the first day of the week, four.

OK, OK, once (but the day isn't over). My wife was wanting & needing some tongue, four Os, and dick, another four Os. I can't take all the credit she did have some help with her new mini vibe.

The vibe is sold as a g-spot vibe, and it certainly looks good, but it doesn't quite hit her g-spot just right. It performs quite well as a clit vibe.

More experimentation will be forthcumming.

 

?? starfish??

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This. This is a good way to look at a healthy relationship! Thankyou!

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I have been known to fraternize with those commies on many occasions. There's nothing like a good cultural exchange...

 

What in the hell just happened?

I'll try again, and skip trying to use the quote function:

Starfish (chocolate starfish) = Anus (asshole)

Edit: Seeing it in context, I'm not sure about "pull a starfish."

 

ahhhh.... Bach.

 

A starfish is when you are flopped on the bed, legs and arms spread wide, but also not really participating or active.

 

Like Moses and his staff, I have parted the red sea. I don't love it, but I'll do it again. Fortunately my girl's iud mostly takes care of that. It's been a while since she has even had any spotting. Probably part of being 45 as well. I wouldn't put it past her to still be fertile, considering her Iowa corn fed roots.