how many times a week?

Anything in particular that precipitated the increase?

 

Several things, the most being working on communication and honesty.

 

it's getting better. Now that she's off the birth control. But that means we're going to have to do something else for that. It seems the bc was suppressing her desire.
4 kids is enough.....however! We were really thinking of adopting in 5 years.

 

thatll do it

 

Or you're quite the pair of nerds fucking.....

 

Once a week these days. Could be more if we lived together. Could be more if Sandy would be interested and not fall asleep at 7. No complaints, just saying

 

Sandy and I woke late, and sat on the porch drinking coffee and having a smoke. She offered to make breakfast and I declined. We came inside and turned on the news. Where she say me back in my recliner, sat on the footstool, and gave me a slow, wet, blowjob that lasted 20 minutes and two orgasms. She then turned around and sat on me backwards, rotating her hips and pushing me deeper in her as slow as she could until I couldn't hold out anymore. When I finally came I was light headed and exhausted even though she did it all for me.

 

maybe2 times last month

 

over 1000 days and counting

 

Nothing for almost four years.

Actually, my wife got tired of making the same excuse, so she installed an old Indian device known as a "No Sex Rock" in our backyard. Now, all I have to do is look at the rock and it tells me exactly why I will not be getting laid.

 

For the first time in my life, I've lost count. It's at least 3 times a week, if not more. Whodathunkit?

 

the sad part is that you are right. sometimes we (me) just need a sexual release. wether it be a bad day, week or whatever. yes we (me) can take matters into our own hands, litterally, but sometimes its more than that.

sometimes when you get told no (speaking from exoerience) for whatever reason enough times it makes me quit asking or trying. kinda like a dog. you tell the dog No enough times it will eventually stop or quit. and it makes me wonder what is wrong with me. am i too fat, too ugly, too whatever..... for my wife to not want to have sex with me. my wife says that shes not a sexual person......ok whatever i know its all in how you were raised bla bla bla. but if my wife needed/wanted to climb on the roof once a week to make her feel better you can best bet id hold the ladder for her. but thats just me. but then when she is feeling frisky or whatever and i just go to bed i missed out. how am i suposto know when is an ok time to have sex?? back to the dog..... you tell him to stop getting on the couch and one day you let him cause you are getting a new one the next week, how is he suposto know.... no wonder he looks like a bad dog.

you can say communication or whatever but communication only lets the wife know how you feel it wont make her want to have sex with me, or only do it out of pitty or aggervation.

so yes this turned into me and not all males... oops my bad. and yes when youre told no enough you eventually stop and when this happens you miss the opportuinities that are there. sorry to rant

 

forthermore............................................


most of the time when men cheat on their significant other its not about love. its about needing the feeling of being wanted or needed. ive had the opportuinity but never did it, how did it present itself.... casual talking leads to other things and you feel like the other person is willing to giove you what you need.

if more women would have sex with the men in their lives there would be less (not none) cheating