how many times a week?

I'm kind of a night owl, and I've never needed much sleep. I usually hit lights out about 2:00am and get up whenever it starts to get light in the morning.

I've discovered a new kind of oral sex.

Sig is a deep sleeper, and in the morning if he doesn't already have an erection, I can gently take his hand and start some tongue and sucking action on his thumb, and he'll get a great stiffy. Sometimes he gets this silly grin, and mumbles/talks but I can never understand him.

When I move over to his dick, it's all ready to go.

 

Lately, we've been making up for a lack during the week with a surplus on the weekends. Banging every which way.

I'm content.

 

Right now, several...whenever we can get together...multiple times of some length of time, each time.

 

Seriously deficient because we've been too damn busy!

 

That's why we don't plan anything (else) for Sunday mornings.

One of us usually wakes up for a bathroom break early, turns on the coffee, feeds the cat, and brings the newspaper into the bedroom, where we may stay until noon or even later, enjoying coffee, sex, snoozing, and reading the paper. Nobody's too tired or preoccupied. We ignore the phones.

Sig almost always has morning wood and, being a horny little girl, I take due advantage. We can, and often do, go back to sleep later.

 

We've been out of town or I've been sick the last five consecutive Sundays. That's part of what I mean by busy. Hubs is tired and stressed during the week, plus we're out doing stuff at least a couple nights a week, and then summer weekends are fully booked to boot.

I still got mine, though.

 

Sex play seems to help relieve stress, but tired weakens my drive enough that I won't likely initiate anything more than a hug or quick kiss if I'm tired, and my response will not be very strong if he starts things.

Sick is about the only time that I have totally no interest.
I don't get the proverbial "headache," but if I've got the flu or a head cold or upset stomach or cramps, pleeeeze just leave me alone.
I'll make up that which was lost when I get better.

We tried @snowy advice (can't find the thread) to talk about our love life/sex when in the car on the highway and came up with some things to try, as well as talking out fantasies. Did a little bit of semi-public on the Californication Zephyr...
We've been exploring some uh, alternatives to the usual erogenous zones and watching porn together. Not for everyone, but fun.

Too many emoticons. Sorry (heh... heh)

 

It seems we're back to our bone-all-weekend-when-we're-home schedule. Phew.

Also, the reinstallation of our air conditioner seems to help, too. I'm not a huge fan of hot, sweaty sex. I like it just warm enough that we don't need blankets. Anything more than that is too hot.