how many times a week?

Thanks! It's nice to have advice from a "mad old post menopausal woman." I'll suggest evening primrose capsules. My wife isn't big on taking pills, even beneficial OTC herbal ones. She worries about it; I tell her we're not getting any younger (53 & 48) and that's why they make personal lube. I'm guessing that it's somewhat similar to a guy worrying about not getting the 'raging' erections that he used to.

 

What really seems to bother her is when she starts out wet, starts really enjoying sex, then starts getting dry, even when she has multiple orgasms. I think that she gets frustrated when her mind & body are wanting to keep going, but she isn't lubricating. I've tried to explain it's simply a menopause issue, and she knows that, but she still worries.

I don't have an issue with using lube. Stopping to use some lube is no different from switching positions because of cramp, stopping to catch your breath, slowing down to give your sensitive bits a break, etc. And yes, applying lube can be can be fun.

 

Rather infrequently over the last year; I can count on two hands the number of times it's happened. Cool by me, gave me room to get other stuff done

Most recent time was the Saturday before the new year.

 

Definately.

Are there any lubes that are better than others? There are a lot choices out there, especially at the 'adult novelty' stores.

We used the old standby K-Y jelly, and recently started using a store-brand liquid that seems to be just a liquid version of K-Y. K-Y is OK, but it can be a little 'sticky' until things get...moving.

 

Snowy, thanks for the list.

My wife isn't a fan of toys, although she did wear out the motor in the soft plastic g-spot vibe, this was a long time back, pre-menopause. I'm not sure why she doesn't care for toys. I can certainly think of many, many creative uses for them, especially if I leave her needing more. I think that the only silicone toy we have is a 'gel' vibe???? The others are rubber, soft plastic, hard plastic.

 

Sex with a partner only a couple times a week Self sex much more often.

 

Count your blessings. (One, two.)

 

How Much I Got it's Not Enough for Me !

 

5-7 a week , sat morning is playtime as we try to have a lie in till dinner time so can be 3-4 on a sat morning alone , maybe more xx I'm a happy girl

 

im with ya, i lost count about 6 weeks ago

 

Currently VERY single. So currently, none.

 

Sure. As y'all may know, I've been keeping track for years. We used to have a sexless marriage; not any more.

December: 26
January: 22
February so far: 10

 

damn. you win.

26 is a lot of times.

 

We're making up for a LOT of lost time.