Fetish and reputation

I wouldn't treat someone differently as long as they kept the fetish between consenting adults.

If they were the type of person to constantly flaunt it, I would treat them differently. Not because of the fetish, but because of their need to constantly mention it.

 

Fetishes make the World go 'round!

 

Acceptance probably depends on how closely someone else's fetish matches yours. Example....I spent six months in a wonderful flirtation with an incredibly attractive man.

Came the day when ''it'' was going to happen!

He presented me with a perfectly shaped erection and said......"BITE IT."

WHATTTTT?

Kiss it, lick it, stroke it, speak to it.....whatever......but.........BITE IT?

Couldn't do it.

I didn't feel anything other than sadness and regret. But...there it was.

 

Sounds like a challenge to me, lol.

To me, the only thing that's affected by how close our fetishes are is how much I'd want to bang that person. If they had a diaper fetish, or if they had a knife fetish, I'd accept them the same either way, regardless of how much I would or wouldn't like a sexual relationship with that person.

 

I think I would change my mechanic if I found out he was a random car fucker - wouldnt want a man raping my cars exhaust system.

 

There is nothing wrong with what consenting adults do, no matter how much it offends someone else. It is your life, enjoy it, own it, and be proud of it.

 

What's wrong with that ...I don't even have a kink that way but I've had my gf bite it ..never know what feels good until you try it ..I mean there's certain things you may avoid just bc well like I'm sure cutting and burning is someone's kink but I'm not letting that happen lol

But something so easy .. And turns out my gf has a biting fetish lol didn't know till she tried now whenever we get drunk n I forget she ends up leaving what looks like hickies (they are just from bites) all near and on my neck ..from bitting and kissing lol

 

I can't remember the comedian but the routine sticks in my mind.
He was talking about walking through a porn shop and looking at the rack of magazines.
One for a rather odd kink caught his eye and he picked it up.
It was really specific and unusual but what surprised him was that it was issue number 450.
He said somewhere in the world there was a guy who got up in the morning, went to work and his job, everyday was putting together this magazine.
So no matter how weird and unique you might think you are, there is someone whose boring ass job it is to provide you with stimulation.

So no, unless what they were doing involved hurting living things I wouldn't care.
I had to search to find someone who matched me and I didn't even know what it was under the surface so I totally understand.

 

I really like biting. And being bit although my bf has only done that twice. And the occasional spank. But i think those are kind of by-the-by/mainstream. I don't think id judge others unless they were being inappropriate somehow with their fetish. Although i know that some people aren't as open to/about certain preferences, but unfortunately, that's pretty much inevitable, even in this day and age.

 

Best. Post. Ever.

 

I haven't had the courage to ask the bf to spank me harder.
I'm still very vanilla. How exactly can u spank a pussy? (curious gets better of me....)

 

@snowy, forgot to tag you

 

Doggy style, legs locked to the bed frame, and a flail with chamois straps.

Sorry, flashbacks.

 

The same way you spank anything else - with the flat head of a big wood hairbrush. It's up to the recipient if/how hard you pres the bristles into the fresh red mark.

 

gonna have to try that

 

We started doing this recently.