Does your SO/you give bj's? Maybe NSFW.

Thats awesome

 

I think the situation be finally be coming to a head.

 

Ha ha i see what you did there.

 

Still no closer

 

Did you make her listen to that Eazy E song from #157?

That's been known to drive girls all kinds of wild.

 

Yeah, she rolled her eyes. Lol

 

Can I just say that not only DOES she, but it nearly made me burn the dinner....

 

Im jealous

 

As for the issues concerning chocolate sauce.......just put some towels down, BTW there are chocolate flavored condoms and other flavors of condoms and lube for such an occasion........I have always liked doing it and two ex's thought less of me because of it , even though we were in a relationship and everything, one fling said "you dont have to do that", I guess Im viewed as a nice girl or something ???? I dont know, one ex directed me on how he liked it and didnt like it and it was a major turnoff, like especially while its happening its like oh sorry, I didnt mean to offend you, got something better in mind to do right now? anyway I dont like having someone try and push me there or guide me or anything I just like to do my thing , but anyway....... I had a ex who didnt like going down on me and I would shave and shower and bath and everything and he....okay anyway Im totally off topic but I just am passionate about this subject . I hope she has a change of heart / thought.

 

I just can't imagine ruining the taste of a good cock with food

 

My STBXW was having nothing to do with giving BJ's, besides as a very brief form of foreplay. I don't really hold that against her; it wasn't a deal breaker for me. But my current SO has really turned me on to getting one, all the way. Something about a woman who really wants you to cum for her, and the pleasure being focused just on you...

My point... I guess I don't really have one. I'd have no idea how I could have gotten my wife to try giving me a BJ to completion aside from talking to her about it. I don't think I could have even cut back on giving her oral sex as a "negotiating tool", as that was (and is, with my current SO) one of my favorite sexual things to do. But good luck to you! Are you doing anything to try to move the chains? Or just hoping?

 

I kinda just gave up on it. She hasn't gotten any closer than the once. She hasn't even gotten close to it at all lately.

 

Damn, that's no good! Maybe it's time for you to break out the shoulder/foot-rubs (always brings me and my partner closer when things start getting stale ).

Reading through all these posts got me thinking about my relationship over the years. There was a time when I focused too much on what I could 'get' from my SO (usually after I'd been watching some fucked-up porn for too many weeks in a row). It would always end badly, because no matter how hard she tried I could tell she wasn't really into it (and the same is true for a simple blowjob).

These days I find that giving is the greatest feeling imaginable, especially when it comes to sex. I know my SO loves being eaten out, so I work it up in my mind and before long her pussy is all I can think about. Having control over how much pleasure I can give her is an awesome feeling.

She has her moments when she gets so wet thinking about my cock that she just WANTS to suck it. And having a partner that eye-fucks you as soon as you walk in the door is a pretty horny experience.

For your situation, if she thinks it's grose, you might (unfortunately) be shit-out-of-luck unless she somehow flicks a mental switch and suddenly loves the idea of a cock in her face.

My advice, focus on what makes you happy in other ways. I've wasted too many days/weeks in my younger years worrying about what-I'm-not-getting-sexually, I don't wish that torment on any relationship.

Good luck
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PS I love you :-P

 

Never really thought about it. I know were stuck in a rut right now with everything. But we did have sex last night. That was unplanned.

 

I've never had one, but I'm totally cool with that. I just can't get past the notion of inserting my genitals in an orifice that has:

A) Teeth.

B) Bite pressure of potentially up to 275 pounds.

The Power of the Human Jaw

So, when someone says, "blow job", I automatically picture this:


And I'll pass on it, thanks.

But the real reason I necroposted this thread was so I could add this:

 

LOVE getting oral and equally LOVE giving. I usually try to make my partner cum once or twice without insertion. Genetically gifted with long/thick fingers and a dexterous tongue.

~ Azharen

 

MMG no man should go his entire life without a BJ.
It's not even my favorite sex act/position but when done right, and she's looking up in your eyes it's magical.

 

I'm positive any other man reading that (and probably some of the women here too) got all hot and bothered reading that, but it gave me chills, and not in a good way.

I'll probably be flaccid for hours now. :eek:

With all respect, this one can, and will. I'm fine with that.