Do you ever take erotic vacations?

Have to say, my wife and I also manage to make any vacation erotic......well maybe not all....camping in a tent with the children was great, but not erotic.

 

I'd be very interested in seeing this as well. But yeah, I know how busy this time of year can be...

 

Wouldn't a honeymoon fall into that category? And sadly, it's the last (and first, and only) time I've done that.

 

I consider a resort with a nude beach to be sensual, not erotic. Before our son was born, we would choose resorts with nude beaches, the best was Grand Lido Negril in Jamaica.

I once prepared a scavenger hunt for my wife which led from a flower shop to a lingerie shop to me waiting at a sex motel. That was entertaining.

 

I like the scavenger hunt idea!

 

We've gone to Hedo a couple of times. It's one of those "erotic" vacations that you can allow yourself to let go completely, but you have to prepare yourself ahead of time for the mental aspect.

http://www.hedonism.com/

 

Seriously considering this for the missus & me, but can you explain a bit more about what you mean by preparing ahead of time for the mental aspect.

 

You have the prude side and the nude side..

on the prude side, people are generally more self-conscious and shy, so you have to remember that if they stray over to the nude side, they're probably more apt to be offended so you sometimes have to watch your act. The nude side (the times we went) was total abandon of inhibition. What this means is that if you aren't swingers, you'll need to prepare yourself on how to deflect the propositions of others. If you are swingers, you'll need to prepare yourself on having to employ your usual deflections and defensive mechanisms in a much broader scale.

It's certainly not a major issue, it's just something that you have to remember if you happen to be there when a swingers convention etc is going on.

 

Ah, many thanks. I misdoubt me that the Missus is interested in freestyle swinging (though that may be the very place to find her a comfy 3 or 4 way with no lingering strings...) We shall see.

 

there's all flavors at hedo.. so if you do want to venture down that road, make sure your rules are in place between you two and that all parties that are considered are aware of these rules. Other than that.. have fun and remember, it's WAYYY better than anything Vegas claims.

 

Glory's Sun: Is there public sex at Hedo? I have no interest in joining other partners, but I am interested in seeing live sex as well as being seen having sex. Everywhere I've seen Hedo discussed, there is way too much euphemism to figure out what actually happens there.

 

Let's just say..

I've seen it all at Hedo

 

Never a straight answer... is this part of the welcome speech at Hedo or something?

 

nah, it's not a speech, it's just something that's ingrained into most people that are active in the non "vanilla" lifestyle. You can find people that are mild and people that are wild. Any type of fantasy you have, you can usually find it at hedo (except for the illegal shit) a lot of us don't go into details because that's just how these things work most of the time.

 

I'm thinking you don't have to spend extravagantly to have an erotic vacation. Go out of town, rent a hotel and take your bag of toys with you. If you're up for it, toss back a drink or two and then head to an adult bookstore where they have pay booths. Many of these have couples rooms with couches. Go in, close the door (or leave it open if you're adventurous) and do the deed. It's exciting knowing there's random strangers watching you, and you have a bit of security knowing there are security staff on hand at most of these and most of the men aren't going to approach you unless you approach them first. So if you like to watch or be watched, this is a good way to step into it.

There are a few couples only resorts around the nation, we just haven't gone to any yet so I can't verify how awesome they may or may not be.

http://rooftopresort.com/

http://www.seamountaininn.com/

http://www.calienteresorts.com/tampa/

I'm sure there are more that don't require international travel but I'm not gonna look them all up

 

An erotic vacation can be a great Christmas gift. Just make up an "IOU" certificate.

 

Yes all the time.

 

never taken an erotic vacation, but after reading this thread it sounds like it can be an adventure.

 

We haven't done it yet, but we've talked about a night away where we lock up any clothing other than some lingerie and heels and stuff once we get to our room and the main rule is that if I get hard, we have to take care of it. It wouldn't be all selfish biased towards me, but that's how we discussed making such a trip standout.