Do women like to watch guys masturbate?

Zen,Thanks for the reply. I think I'm going to try it as foreplay. Hopefully get us both really turned on. And , yes we are communicating now. It's a good change that is moving us forward to something greater.

 

We gave this a try last night. She thought it was very erotic, and it got her hot. That was the point. I just didn't see it, but what do I know? We will probably add this to the repertoire. And, Zen I appreciate your comments. If I wasn't open to comments, I wouldn't post. When I read that last sentence, it sounds to me like I'm being a smart ass. Please don't take it that way, that's not how I mean it. Thanks again, we had a good time.

 

Well, I was the one who'd shown nervousness talking about this, so to me you didn't sound like smartass; more like just putting your cards face-up on the table and putting me at my ease. I appreciate that.
I'm as happy as can be that you both had a good time, and what was it you said in your previous post?
"we are communicating now. It's a good change that is moving us forward to something greater. " <- sounds like what we've been talking about here is part of a phase of good general developments in y'all's relationship. I'm looking forward to how things may have changed even further in the next weeks and months.
Best wishes.

 

We are moving forward. I knew communication was important, but life happened and we forgot. We had a hard reminder, now we remember. Things are great, and getting better. Communication, communication, communication. That's what its all about.

 

I like the weird infantile intimacy of somebody elses private practices. I almost like it better than sex/sex because it has an honest purity about it. There is no pressure to perform or please anyone else. It is the most primal sex act and being permitted to watch someone indulge is a high, high honor.

 

Sex, or you masterbated?

 

I love being watched while I masturbate. I've met a number of women on washington dc Craigslist, posting an ad as,in "do you like to watch". My fantasy was to be in a hotel room, lying on the couch fully aroused, eyes closed and have her walk in, grab a chair and watch, then I will open my eyes to see her watching. I know this is a bit dangerous, but after email and phone chats beforehand it made things easier. Each time in an upscale hotel, I would keep the door open a crack. She would text me when she got to the elevator. I would then lay back, shut my eyes, and slowly stroke. I would then hear the door open quietly, and soft steps walking toward me. At this point all kinds of sexy thoughts are going thru my mind. The longer I keep my eyes closed, knowing this somewhat stranger woman is watching me, the more I get turned on. One time I kept my eyes closed for about 2 or 3 minutes, hearing "mmmmm's" coming for her. When I opened my eyes and looked at her, she had this incredibly sexy expression on her face. This fantasy I've done three times, each time slightly different. I have a post out now, hopefully I get a bonafide reply, giving myself a 5% chance.

All in all I've done this about 6 or 7 times over the past few years. I have other hotel scenarios I've played out if anyone is interested in hearing them I'll post them.

 

Yes I am interested, start a thread please

 

Agreed

 

I'm just waiting for "it was a TRAP!" post.

 

To answer the OP; they might, but when I tried to find out, the bus driver made me stop.

 

I beg to differ. It really can be too small.

If I hadn't seen it myself... no, wait, that's not right

If I hadn't have felt it myself... oh, wait - I didn't feel it either.

I can feel my own fingers in myself and couldn't feel him inside me.

A guy can be too large as well, but that just takes some work (and time) getting used to. I've also been with guys that were a great size, but didn't really know what they were doing with it. Or maybe they didn't know what buttons they needed to push on a woman?

And then I've been with guys that instinctively knew not only, what to do with a woman, but what I needed - even when I didn't know myself.

 

My partner would NEVER masturbate! She is cold as hell but I love her dearly, she is my soulmate. She doesn't want to have sex after yrs. of marriage either. I haven't had intercourse with her in 23 yrs.!!!!

 

great stuff! This is very hot and I love games like these... tell us more! What kind of lady visited you? What happened next?
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I have a female friend from greece, and very now and then we meet online with a webcam turned on.
If things get nasty, i have to say she really loves watching me and i love watching her. You just feel the heat rising during the game as we play with ourselves, you can ask the other what you like to see and you get instructions as well... it gets me rock hard and damn it's hot when i see her playing with herself and then presenting her wet fingers to the webcam.
She goes crazy when i come on my desk and after a while she got a microphone, from that moment on i could hear her moaning and screaming when she had an orgasm...
I love these games, sharing this passionate lust with sexual people is sooooo horny!

On the other hand, just like ralphy i proposed and ex gf to have a mutual masterbation session... she wasn't interested... too shy she said and she told me it was better when I touched her.... what a load of bullshit

 

My wife and I both enjoy watching.

 

I just had a great time rereading this whole thread.

Where the hell is @Glory's Sun, anyway?

 

Does anybody really enjoy watching someone else having more fun than they are.....

.....just sayin'........