Current Rules for Being Clothed/Naked as an Adult

if i wasnt so fat, i would proablly like to be naked more

 

Check out Collins Beach on Sauvie Island...when it warms up. It is awesome

 

@snowy/@clarksdale - I will try this coming summer - thanks
Now I need to also learn what is appropriate and what is not appropriate over there...

 

Look but don't gawk.
Don't take pictures without consent.
Don't be sexual.

That should cover the basics.

 

Easier said than done. I'm sexual in a snow suit.

 

Another resource link I found today http://naked.wikia.com/wiki/Oregon

Yesterday I was talking to my wife about going to nude beach this summer! She says she will find someone or somebody else with whom I could go but she wouldn't go with me.... Had this happened to anyone?

 

Darned bathroom mirrors and their truth. I'm with you on this.

 

curiousbear... that sir, could be a golden opportunity! LOL plaese take that as the joke it was intended to be...

But seriously, My wife and i have been talkin about doing some things like that too, and i dont think she would let me go without her... for any number of reasons. its cool that your wife isnt slowing you down from experiencing it though!

 

very true... but I prefer doing every bit of naughty thing in life together with her...

 

i can certainly dig that, and am almost of the same mindset... but for me anything that isnt deceptive is good... I alwayswould rather have my her involved though...

 

Sometimes I wish we can do naughty things as a gang. Got great friends, but no naughty times though
I am not talking about orgy, I am talking about having a party at strip club or going to nude beaches, or watching porn, or openly sharing their sexual experiences
Tfp is the only place where I feel being comfortable/trusted and naughty at same time

 

yeah, personally thats kinda what im looking for too, only i wouldnt turn down the activities... wife is open to the idea, btu wants to move slow, so she is sure she is comfortable with it... we dont have many friends that i dont work with, so thats out... i'm really hoping i can either make soem out of work acquaintances either on or through the direction of this board... not the whole reason i joined , but a part of it...

 

FYI - Curious Bear. Being socially nude should not be viewed as something to do to be "naughty." If you are looking to be naked with your wife at a nude beach in order to spice up the love life...you may find yourself getting banned off the beach. In most cases that is something frowned upon greatly. A nudist does not go around being nude around other nude people because they like looking at naked people. They simply just enjoy experiencing life sans clothes. Nudism and being socially nude is the acceptance of the human body in all it's variable glory and the enjoyment found in experiencing life nude, that's it. It's not about looking or in some cases leering at other naked bodies.
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To answer the question asked - I'm a nudist, as is my wife. So we do everything in the nude, when it is acceptable. It's comfortable, it's relaxing and there's a lot less laundry to do on the weekend.

 

Out of everybody I know, I'm probably the person who cares least about what they look like. During the day, I wear a t-shirt and wooly sweat pants (extremely comfortable, but very unattractive). I dress up only for very special events, but I hate it. At night? I love nothing more than to lounge around in just boxers, then sleep the same way. For some reason, socks make my feet feel claustrophobic. Can't stand 'em without shoes.

 

I'm comfortable in my own skin, but I'm not going to offend anyone else. My soon to be exwife managed to suck all the romance out of nudity or skin. No appreciation for her body or how she might present it. If she was not leaving the house, pajamas all day. Not sexy pjs, just dumpy flannel types. I sleep nude, more comfortable that way. Over the years, ihave taken several women to a swinger club with a common pool and hot tubs, so I'm naked but so is everyone else. I wish my junk was bigger, but I know by the volume of women I've been with that its really not that important to many women. So I could go naked in public, but I'm not going to be discourteous to others. One woman I have seen recently never wears panties but doesn't like me to see her taking out her upper dentures. (I'm slumming with her, but she is really good in bed).

 

(I've shared this story elsewhere on TFP before, don't remember where/when.) Around age 6 I was playing in my backyard with my two best friends, twin boys my age that lived next door. It was a warm summer day and the three of us took our shirts off while playing, which seemed a completely natural option for me. My mom saw us through a second floor window in the house, opened it, and shouted down to me to put my shirt back on because I was being indecent. This early taste of gender roles and expectations came with the unwelcome lesson that girls, and women, aren't supposed to run around shirtless in normal, daily life. And that, to me, sucked.

My bedroom in the house I grew up in had a bunch of windows, and one faced the neighbor's house with clear view into their kitchen on the first floor and one of their bedrooms on the second. As a teenager, I routinely didn't bother closing the window shades while dressing and undressing, and over the years I'm sure the neighbors, when paying attention at the right time, got their fair share of free shows. The thought of them catching glimpses of me topless or pantsless—or both—never seemed to bother me.

I ended up topless in a hot tub the night before New Year’s Eve about ten years ago with my exwife and two coworker friends of hers. Had the elder of the two friends not been there, I think we might have rung in New Year’s Eve with a threesome.

I find myself more comfortable topless with bottoms of some sort on—usually shorts or underwear—as opposed to top with no bottoms. My preferred mode of cleaning my house is in gym shorts and no shirt. Most of the time I'm headed into the shower after I'm done anyway.

I don't know whether the links still work, but I've voluntarily shared a healthy number of nude or partially nude photos of myself in Members Exhibition. Privacy in the modern world is dead as far as I'm concerned, and I have no doubt there's at least a way for them to find their way into the greater world outside of our safe space here. This prospect, for whatever reason, doesn't seem to bother me all that much either. I'm not in as good physical shape now as I was when I posted those and would like to get that back, but I'm still comfortable enough in my own skin not to feel uncomfortable with the idea of being naked and being seen while naked.

I do not consider myself a nudist.

 

During the pandemic, I’ve been going outside on a private deck and sunbathing in the nude almost every day. It’s been great. It reminds me of our often naked times in St. Maarten last fall. We were to go back this October but was cancelled.

 

Now that we're empty-nesters, the wife and I are naked as often as possible in the house. She's topless at lot due to the hot flashes. I love it! I keep telling her we should retire to a nudist colony.