Couples and porn viewing

my wife really dosent care for anal in the movies. shes game for pretty much anything else

 

The thought of someone else turning me on doesn't sit well with my SO. So no,we don't.

 

We watched together like once. That too pictures. She can watch only girls and only softcore. I didn't push her. But it is one of my fantasies

 

We do, we both enjoy from time to time. Sometimes I'll suggest it, sometimes she will. She likes it most when it plays to her fantasies (she would like to be a younger woman with an older man) or when the woman is really into it. Also, this is something we did from time to time before we got married (I had an immense porn collection for a student pre-internet. Filled a footlocker.) and she likes pulling out the old tapes and watching her favorites off of those. Fortunately our fantasies intersect to some degree, and we've had some lovely and torrid times on the living room floor while the kids were away.

 

I've watched porn (who hasn't) and have done so with my ex, but it was only ever uncomfortable (more to do with the relationship than the porn, I suspect).

I'm sure I could watch porn with my current partner and we might get off on it, especially as we have similar tastes. However, we have no need to do so and I suspect that it might interfere rather than light a fire under us. Porn is also so .. predictable (and a little absurd), usually.

I guess I might be more interested in making a porn movie than in watching one (NOT for public consumption, though! ).

 

sounds like it´s time for someone to sit down and seriously consider their sexuality imho.

as for myself, we´ve discussed it but never done it but a couple of nights ago we gave up a couple of our secrets so i think i´ll pursue it and see what happens as i know she´s definitely interested.

 

Come to think about it, I can watch porn with a woman, but can't have sex during. I get too distracted, somehow... Is that odd?

 

well, we did it. i put her to task downloading something of her choice and she just downloaded something at random which turned out to be a 6hr marathon of some seriously used-by, silicone enhanced pornstars and anal which actually turned out more of a laugh for us than a turn on. turning to redtube we found something from x-art that at least both of us found visually pleasing so it was kinda successful. will definitely try again with a bit more focus and see if we can make something of it

 

go for it, good luck

 

My wife and I regularly go to swing clubs so porn is pretty boring. We do usually have it on during sex though....

 

im not sure mine would go for that

 

My wife will only watch the softcore porn. She just makes fun of anything hardcore. Doesn't like the language or the silicone. She does want there to be some kind of story and "romance". I do think it's interesting that watching any girl on girl action gets her off pretty quickly.

 

My wife may be progressing. She doesn't always avert her glance from sex scenes in movies any more. Porn is still not an option for her.

 

May I recommend you move to HBO-style porn?

 

She won't watch it, at all, if the movie is overtly about sex. If the scenes happen to be there, she seems ok with it. Believe me, this is progress.

 

Watched 4 episodes of the first season of "Black Tie Nights" last night. Very tastefully done. An ongoing story through the series with lots of nudity and sexual situations. So far - no silicone but beautiful bodies and pretty good acting. Worth seeing. Sure did it for my wife!

 

We watch it together once in a while. I tend to be picky about what we watch since the bad acting and poor quality of most just make me laugh. We do have fun making fun of bad pornos though haha

 

Atleast she's making progress.

 

This thread reminds me of a recent incident regarding my sister-in-law. On recent visit back to the US I visited my brother and we were discussing different shows we liked. He mentioned he was watching "Spartacus" via Netflix. I hadn't heard of it so he put on an episode. While watching his wife entered the room and sat down asking "what's this show." For 15-20 mintues we watched while one guy after another killed, gutted, beheaded etc... by another guy. The scene changed and suddenly Lucy Lawless (I think?) was sitting with one breast exposed while a slave girl gave her husband (?) a blow job to get him "ready" for her. All you really saw was one bare breast and an implied oral scene. My sister-in-law stood up and announced this "is complete trash and I won't watch it!' I told my brother "that took a while." He told me "oh she's fine with violence but any nudity or sex and off to write a letter." "You're kidding... right?" "Nope, remember the Superbowl and Janet Jackson's boob? She's one of the 128 people in the nation to write and complain." I still not sure if he was kidding about the letter writing but he was obviously dead on about the violence/nudity issue as she went on and on about it at diner. My standing with her didn't go up (probably couldn't have gone down... no pun intended) when I stated "You know people having sex and being nude is a natural thing... killing people, gutting them live and cutting off heads seems way less natural and normal to me." I got the "you're a douche" stare for the rest of the evening, something I've come to accept from her.

 

Its not something I do all of the time [except on my own] but I find watching porn together can be beneficial to the main event. Can't say I've managed to last through a whole movie as I tend to start screwing or eating or something and it ends up being just background. In most cases the woman gets off on it and organsms seem to come pretty quickly from them [and yes, I am a stud....]