Couples and porn viewing

Ditto.

 

Contrary to popular wisdom, women respond to erotic imagery identically to men.

 

That's a vague, shitty Pop Up Video blurb that doesn't really say a whole lot about the male/female thing.

Here's some more shitty articles:

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If by "partner" you me "myself". Than yes...

 

I'll be honest, if I'm watching porn with anyone else, I'm most likely making fun of it.

And, like others have mentioned, I'm really damn picky about my porn. Maybe one or two out of every fifteen-twenty that I watch actually gets me all hot and bothered.

In the past, I tried to get one partner to watch with me...he was definitely not into it. Another partner was into hardcore anal and facials, which turned me right off.

Now, I'm content to watch it on my own, and for him to watch it on his own, if we feel the need. I'm not against watching together, but it's also not something I'm panting to try.

 

This thread reminds me of the street scene in Annie Hall where Alfie (Woody) is talking to Annie (Diane) about her need to smoke pot to get off and they ask a passing elderly couple what they do to get off and the old man answers "we use a vibrating egg."

Now on topic, alone.... porn is ok never been a big "money shot" fan I think it is quite the turn off. I prefer female on female IF I need that type of arousal to make sure my parts work should there ever again be a situation where I am in the company of a willing woman. I am much much more into soft core and scenes that are part of a plotted movie. My first "manhood" movie was Looking for Mr. Goodbar. It was then I developed a weird sex drive for Diane Keaton. The first porn I truly enjoyed was the Devil in Ms. Jones (the original) it actually amazed me because there was a plot to it. My first weird "I'm a teen and will masturbate to anything movie", was Sodom and Gomorrah (something about the sin and just for me at that time it was hot), the second being Days of Wine and Roses.... loved seeing Lee Remick play the drunk Kirsten in that movie.

I also find that the printed word can stimulate me far more than porn. Read the sex in Looking for Mr. Goodbar... mmmmmm baby.

 

Smart ass response: Does my hand count as a partner?

Real answer: I've never had the need (nor been with someone long enough) for porn viewing to come up. I have dated a few women who like porn as much as I do so I imagine it would have entered the relationship at some point had it lasted longer.

 

I could have written this, so thanks for putting it so well.

 

Well I'm not seeing anyone at the moment but I've found most, if not all, the ladies here in Mexico enjoy porn. My last partner was amazed that the internet had free porn, she seemed to enjoy it a lot. Porn on the internet? Who knew? A couple observations about it... first, most do not want to see any F/F or lesbian actions. Straight, oral, anal, gang bangs, bondage, rape scenes... all ok. Just no girl on girl stuff. Two chicks start making out? "Is House on tonight? I like that show." I can only guess but I think this might have something to do with the large presence of the Catholic church here. Second... Not one lady I've dated has enjoyed any porn with any black people in it. Black man, black lady... doesn't seem to matter. Right back to "is House on?" Just doesn't rock their boats. I've found, and I have no idea why, many people seem to have a negative view of black people. I've talked to people who've never met a black person tell me they don't like them. Hell, I had one guy tell me, in a conversation about racism, that he didn't like racists people. Thought the whole idea of disliking someone based on their skin color was stupid and that the only people he didn't like were black people. So you don't like two kinds of people... racists and blacks... ok.

 

Did he just say Mexican Catholic women are okay with anal gangbangs but not lipstick lesbians?

 

Yep, he just said that. I don't get it. But I know I'm ok with girl on girl action and I've been involved with MFM situations. However MM or MMF would not interest me at all. If two guys started blowing each other I'd want to watch House and I hate that show.

I also find the black thing odd. I had that conversation with the guy who hated both racists and black people one day and about week later heard a comedian say he "only hated two types of people- racists and the Irish." When your thought process is someone's punchline you might want to think about your personal values a little longer.

 

the moral of the story..

different strokes and all that

FFM MFM I'm cool. Doesn't mean I'm gonna touch the sausage, but I'm not gonna freak if my toe touches his leg.

 

Pretty much the same with us. She likes the softcore and won't listen to bad language, but has to have something to cover up the sound of the vibrator. Also, distracting her from herself is key to multiple orgasms ... sometimes as many as 10 or 12. Without some sex to watch, even with a vibrator, she has trouble having one.

She claims to be unable to have an orgasm by masturbating alone. However, occasionally, I'll wake up to what sounds like her having an orgasm (wish I'd wake up sooner!) As soon as I'm awake, all movement stops and she "goes on sleeping".

 

we watch it. not enough to call it a habit (as stated earlier) we both enjoy it and it always ends up in sex. she used to not like it at all then slowly over the years she has grown more accustomed to it and seems to enjoy it.

 

Most of us were something else in another life, I suppose. But I think that humans have always been turned on by the visual representation of sex between other humans.

 

Yes. Women included. And I don't mean the romantic stuff. If I wanted that, I'd watch "The Notebook".

 

Watching blowjobs makes my better half gag. So only I watch porn...I watch a lot of porn.

 

wht does it make her gag??

 

My wife was a very sexually repressed person. She was a virgin when we got married and was very naive. She had not ever masturbated on her own when we got married. I don't know if this is related, but she has a hard time having an orgasm. We had been married about a year and we decided to rent an adult film. She was somewhat interested. It did not do a whole lot for her, but it did not turn her off either. Later, on we got a free movie when we purchased a vibrator from a catalog (pre internet days). We discovered something that she would never admit. When it got to the sex scene with 3 girls, she usually had an orgasm real quick. Only about one other scene would get her going but the girls set her off pretty quickly.
She still some times feels guilt about watching porn and goes through spells where she chooses not to watch. But, when we are fooling around and she just can't finish she asks me to pop in a movie and she has an O in about 20 seconds. Her favorite thing now is girls who squirt. This has become a regular part of our sex lives more as a necessity for her.

 

My GF and I have watched a great deal of porn together. We eventually figured out that our porn preferences are somewhat of a Venn diagram; there are things she likes but I don't, things I like but she doesn't, and the stuff in the middle involves amateurs and threesomes. Which is GREAT! We both love visual stimulation of some kind; there are 3 mirrors in our bedroom, and we've made more videos for each other and with each other that I've lost count. Fact is, we don't NEED porn to have a great time; but sometimes it's fun to have that extra stimulation...