Bigger penis.

I'm just roughly-average intelligence, possibly slightly above in terms of book-smarts and test-taking, but that's counteracted by being socially retarded - and I'd sacrifice an inch offa my junk to be an inch or two taller; being 5'7" is too goddamned short. Out in the world almost all women wear heels, which makes women even as short as 5'3" difficult to stand above (which is a fundamental requirement of most women, as I've come to understand), making meeting anyone a real bitch and a half. Height is a greatly valued aspect in our society (and almost every other as well), and if you're too short for 50-60% of women out there, it doesn't matter if your dick vibrates and has its own tongue mounted above it for simultaneous cunnilingus during sex - few women will be interested in getting that far. Same with working out as much as I do and maintaining a fit body - doesn't help if no one ever sees it. However, immediately obvious attractive physical features get your foot in the door and grant you a chance.

If I could take a year off the military and had about $15,000 to $25,000 to drop, I would so totally use the Illizarov Apparatus:

Ilizarov Apparatus Wiki

Make Me Taller.org

 

Based on the quality of your postings on TFP, I doubt that very much.

All true, and enormously unfair. And the issue extends far beyond romance, to business, politics, entertainment, etc.

Tall privilege, like white privilege, is practically invisible to those who benefit from it. Most tall guys have no idea about what life is like for men on the other side of the bell curve.

Height difference between ethnic groups has contributed to bitter enmity and bloodshead, for example between Serbs (short) and Croats (tall), or Hutus (short) and Tutsis (tall).

 

True, very true... Takes trust.

And... Where have you been finding these women..?
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I'm not sure about most people being kind when it comes to evaluating the sexual performance of sex partners. In general, and I do mean generally speaking, in groups, men brag (lie), while women tend to be more critical (honest). I'm convinced that women speak in code, they might not give specific dimensions (being kind), but they convey how a guy measures-up.

I'm curious re "BTDT." How did you handle it?
I was much younger, and her comment really got to me, esp that she would share with her group of friends. Word got around quickly. The strange part, in my young mind at the time, was she could never grasp why I was so pissed off at her; in her mind she didn't do or say anything wrong. Which just pissed me off even more.

Two good things developed from that situation.

I learned not to trust women who talk way too freely with their friends. Before anyone breaks out the flamethrower, "way too freely" is very subjective, and some men are total loudmouths about their sex lives.

One of her female friends confided to me that she found intercourse with most guys painful, but never said anything. We hooked-up several times, and enjoyed very vigorous sex.

I'm of average height, and have never been comfortable making small talk with people I don't know well, esp women.

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HalX (former TFP admin), who is generously endowed, posted a comment that women seemed hesitant to initiate oral when they saw his size.

 

I've always assumed that my wife had tried out a few before we started dating and found mine acceptable.

 

I'm too small for some women, just right for others, and too big for some. This is why its not good to get too hung up on it. Generally there is a match out there.

 

I'm 5'7" myself, and probably missed out on tons of opportunities for similar reasons, but I try to see the silver lining in all this:

 

funny how guys say their length size when really i think the width is the better size to have big. a boy at highschool was longer but could fit the first time no problem. my bf has shorter but cannot fit unless i'm very ready.

 

It's not size of your pencil, it's your penmanship.

 

do guys ever get sore from using it?
i guess its different to most body parts as its big when used and then shrinks to something totally different.
maybe it can't get sore?

 

I think that HalX's comment was suggesting that women are concerned about the expectation of deepthroating (which is just one of many unrealistic fantasies that I blame on porn, but that would be another thread).

I agree. You do your best under the circumstances as you read them. I don't know that she was being a brat, perhaps so. She just seemed totally clueless that her compliment was also an insult.

I think that earlier in this thread I posted a link to the sticky (ha, ha) thread in TFP 4. If I didn't, I meant to.

Yes, the penis can get sore from vaginal intercourse.

The obvious factors are how vigorous, for how long, & how often. Combined with his size and her size. As this thread points out, one size doesn't fit all be it the penis or the vagina.

If the woman is dry, or semi-dry/barely secreting lube.

Even if she's really wet, sometimes the tightness is a bit much. In spite of all the pro comments about "tight pussy," forcing the penis in, and out, during clamp down can lead to the glans feeling bruised. I sometimes tell my wife, "Don't tear it off, I need it." Not that I'm complaining .

 

I don't. Maybe that's a small advantage of being small.

 

I can't wait until may...

 

And May is special because?

 

A poem?
A goddamned fucking poem?