Bigger penis.

A thought has crossed my mind several times, probably worth a thread on its own:

Given that many women question why guys are so concerned about penis size,
what if a woman's vaginal tightness (with all other aspects of her sexuality unknown) could be guesstimated at a quick glance, much the same way a guy's size can be guesstimated by his bulge when clothed?

I use guesstimate very intentially. I'm sure that some guys erections don't measure up to what their flacid bulge might indicate, and vice versa.

And I'm not suggesting that vaginal tightness is 'everything' in good sex, the way penis size isn't everything.

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Edit: The measuring myth should be the thumb & forefinger, not the pinky.

 

A foot? That would be telling.

 

Best way to give the impression you are bigger than what you actually are is to shave your plums thus giving the female the false illusion that you are bigger ,also helps avoid organic dental floss

 

I really shouldn't revive this thread, but I found the following sad story on Reddit:

My wife's comment on this woman's situation: "That's the risk she took by sleeping with someone else."

 

I've asked a lot of women about this over the years, and the answer is almost always length does matter, but not as much as guys think, GIRTH on the other hand matters more.

Can't say I've ever heard of pubic liposuction but I did come into the thread to mention the weight loss thing and I see its already done. I lost maybe 60 lbs of fat while gaining about 20 in muscle over the last 4 years and Mr. Happy is functionally bigger for sure. I've heard this from a lot of guys in various fitness forums as well. So if you got a gut, lose it if you are worried about your penis size.

 

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This thread lives

 

The thought that sometimes goes through the minds of most guys who are 'smaller.'

I can only hope that her case is the (rare) exception rather than the rule.

 

Wow, well my situation is nowhere near as extreme as yours, I'm only about 7". Still, I had an encounter with a tourist from Canada a few weeks back - she was 5'3" and 100% ethnic Philippino, so in other words, just small all over. We really got along well as two people, we had good chemistry, but her bottoming out at about 5" deep was insanely frustrating - she had to lay with her legs held together and sort of buffer me from getting too close/deep. Doggy style did not work very well either, and I kept accidentally bumping her cervix. It felt sort of awkward and stilted most of the time, and it sort of put a damper on what should have been stellar sex because of our chemistry.

My ex-wife, a good-sized white girl who was also my height at 5'7", could take all of it unless I put her legs up over her head and went deep, and then she'd complain, too. The extra inch or two is really just sort of an unneeded nuisance TBH - and I'm only slightly above "average." I wouldn't want to be any bigger, I think. Plus, convincing anyone to do butt-sex is a serious problem, which really bums me out, no pun intended

When I was younger and a fucking idiot, and correlated my ego to my dick size, I thought it was super-duper, but as I get older it's just another fairly meaningless physical aspect that is problematic at times. I really think 5-6 inches and some girth is the sweet spot.

 

Being able to go balls deep with great enthusiasm in positions that maximize penetration without causing my wife any pain is great.

Not being able to achieve penetration/adequate penetration or maintain satisfactory intercourse in certain positions sucks.

I alluded to it in this thread...I posted it in TFP 4...I'm 4.5"-5" long, not especially thick, with a pronounced corona. I've never received any complaints (I firmly believe that most women are kind), but have received some backhanded compliments. One woman told me, "That was a lot better than I expected." Another reported to her friends (an act that led me to end our relationship), "He's really good, even though he has a small dick." She couldn't understand why I was pissed off at her.

 

Yes, there's surely a point of diminishing returns. But being far below average in length and girth can be a pretty severe disadvantage, especially in relationships with women who have enjoyed larger ones.

Most people are kind.

BTDT.

My measurements are about the same, and girth is especially lacking. But as I wrote earlier in this thread: I'm not exactly a loser in the genome lottery. Being very tall and smart are tremendous unearned advantages, and I'd rather be me than anyone else.

 

It's human nature to discount our strengths and obsess about our liabilities. That cuts both ways.

In my experience, it didn't take any convincing, indeed, usually the woman brought it up.

That might be taken as commentary on PIV inadequacy, but on the other hand, anal sex is surely higher on the intimacy scale.