Bigger penis.

Um, didn't I say exactly that? Just a few lines down, in the same posting.

As to that aspect of human nature I mentioned -- yet another webcomic:

 

Well to be fair, there is not much else to say about a penis really in a picture unless it is big. "Yep thats a dick" is pretty much most womens reactions. If it is really big they may comment on the size, but that doesn't mean they want to have it inside them either. Its just not something that has the impact on most women that say boobs do on guys. I do say most women, there are "size queens" out there of course but honestly not too many.

I remember my wifes reaction to a HUGE one online some guy had on cam on a swingers site. She did comment on the size in a "holy shit" sort of voice, if she were a forum person she'd prob post something about it being huge but being my slightly bigger than average one bottoms out and can hurt her in certain positions, I know she wouldn't want to go near it sexually speaking.

 

What you say is true. I never said women preferred the larger penis for actual sex , although apparantly trying one is a common fantasy with some women who haven't experienced one. My point is the the larger number of responses, and more enthusiastic responses, give the impression that the guy with the larger penis has an advantage in being more sexually attractive to women. The ladies who posted the "OMG!", "Holy shit!", "Oh yes!!!", etc. responses didn't qualify them with "...but I wouldn't actually want a penis that large for intercourse." Much the way guys panting over large breasts give the impression that smaller breasts make a woman less desirable (speaking for myself that is a total falsehood).

You do the best that you can with what you have. Sometimes sex is great, sometimes so-so, and sometimes lousy.

I don't think that being above average or large will necessarily make a guy more confident and more sexually aggressive (not in the negative sense), but being below average or small certainly won't help a guys confidence. Of course some guys on the small side might pursue many conquests to prove their manliness, while some guys on the large size might actually be shy about being overendowed.

 

[never mind]

 

One thing I did realize though, I haven't measured myself in years, turns out I was doing it wrong. This thread and some comments made me decide to remeasure.

 

Odd thoughts going through my head at an orgy, this came to the surface.

5 guys. Three were 6.5-7.5, two were maybe around 4-4.5.

 

do the women react differently?

 

stop smoking cigarettes and you'll gain at least a centimeter

 

Me, too.

 

damn I like the smell of booze and cigarettes on a woman

 

What Ralphie asked.

One formerly very active TFP member was (is?) a swinger. He wrote that in his swinging experience the men with larger penises were the first to be approcahed, with the guys on the smaller side being the last. The question of what motivated the ladies choices came up (pun), he wrote part curosity and part 'Why go for a penis size that I can get anytime when something bigger is available?'.

 

This is not our experience at all. Hell by the time my wife has seen your penis, we are already basically committed

Everyone was getting equal "action" so to speak, and having a generally good time.

We swing for variety and friends. Hell if you think of it that way, why should a guy swing at all, as a all vaginas are close to the same.

 

It sounds like your swinging experiences are a lot of fun. I have no idea why the experiences would differ.

 

Growing up and watch porn to a small extent I was convinced I had a small penis and was always very insecure and missed out on A LOT of sexual encounters with women growing up... Flash forward 4 years ago my ex ex ex wanted to know exactly what my pecker was. So she popped out the tape measure got me hard and it measured 6.75 inches long and just under 5 inches in diameter. It was a little thinner that what I had figured but when i started saying that number outloud i realized that im actually packing some decent heat. After i ended things with her i went on a little run with 5 girls over a 6 month span and 3 out of 5 commented that my penis was big one even went as far as to saying it scared her (true story).

 

My dimensions are far less than yours, and I've heard the same comment. If a girl has never seen one before in person, even a very small one looks huge and frightening.