Bigger penis.

Actually, after watching a comedy routine of Louie C.K....I agree with him.

Women have a difficulty...they don't get much choice in the matter before hand.
Because by the time you usually see it, you're already in the middle of it.
And most aren't cruel enough to say anything. (or as a very polite & positive young lady said it, ...after a time together, you get a "nice surprise"...)

He says, perhaps you should just get it out of the way quick...be allowed to whip it out, have a review, then put it back...get back to it later.
Then the date can go on.

But I say, this can be true for gay men too.
Or even men or lesbians...they need to know also.
So, on a first date, wear a skirt...a quick flash for a review, then you can go for dinner.

All's fair. Everything counts.

Hey, I'm all for trend analysis.
Keeping it real.

 

As someone who's an open swinger, perhaps you've seen your fair share, except I don't know the typical dynamic of how swingers get together,
or how you do your own. So you may not have.

Could you say, you have been able to make an evaluation with a trend over time?
And the reactions by partners to them that you've seen over time?? Good, bad, meh, etc...

Perhaps you've noted this already in the thread, but I couldn't find it...

Sorry, I found it...just had to be a bit more diligent.
But perhaps you can expand on it?

 

(**yes, I know it's a joke...)

And again, just like a penis...you cannot just whip it out.
Well, you can...but it's just not done often...and it's looked at with some attention.

And just like a man may get unnerved by being asked his size...a woman wouldn't likely approve of the question either.

So most if not all "testing" is done by trial & error.
And people aren't the best at judging or reacting at this time.
Emotions & ego...Oi Vey.

Too bad you can't exchange stats beforehand.
Or you could...it just wouldn't likely be taken well.

BTW...if you do stats...make sure it includes not just size info...need rigidity (men), wetness (women), intercourse avg time, orgasm volume & time.
and STDs ...and ability to have a baby...
If we're going to knock out one ambiguity...we should knock them all out.

 

This lady must have a huge vagina. The idea that everyone needs a huge penis is ludicrous.

Personally, I trend towards the smaller size. I've had sex with penises all over that size range, and I can't say I ever noticed a real difference in pleasure between the guy that was 5" and the guy that was 8". The absence of pain with the smaller guy was nice, and yes, he could give me that "epicenter" orgasm she goes on about later in the article in doggy. I'm very familiar with so-called "A-spot" orgasms (see Vaginal fornix - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia), as they're what I usually have during intercourse. In my current relationship, we can rarely do doggy and reverse cowgirl is an impossibility.

 

In the end...you simply have to find the lock that fits the key.

If you don't, you may not get the full treasure.

Just because you have a bigger key, doesn't mean you are guaranteed to open it. (hey, it may jam...)
Just because you have a smaller key, doesn't mean you don't have a good booty to unlock.

And you don't know if the key fits and works until you try the lock...

/Ghostbusters ref.

 

Oh, the irony is profound.
So basically, you better watch out...you might get what you wish for.

Folks...in all seriousness, what has to happen is this.

• Be with someone who's compatible with you...including sexually.
• Communicate - extensively and deep, both before and during your relationship.

Make sure you're in touch with yourself and your SO...and not in denial.
TALK...talk about EVERYTHING...in detail.
Make sure everyone is having a good time during sex. No one should be in unwanted pain or discomfort.
Because if you don't...it may lead to a disconnect...and likely resentment. (or selfish people may find alternatives without consent, not 100% but it's there.)

You should know if your SO is in pain or not having pleasure. And your SO should not deny what they feel...and should discuss it.
This goes before the relationship...this goes for DURING the relationship.
You should test, play, explore and more...and talk about it.

In the end, it is this.
A big dick...just is.
A medium dick...just is.
A small dick...just is.
And a pussy...for whatever it is...just is.

But people want what they want when they want it.
And sex can be a VERY personal thing...a thing that someone may make decisions on.
You cannot discount it.
So...just like ANYTHING in a relationship...where more than one person is involved...you have to talk it out. ALWAYS...

A person's body, ability and desire are just a part of MANY factors that come into play.
Everything counts.
And it may change...

Your dick size...you got what you have, period.
Use it...have fun with it...find someone who appreciates it.

 

What I've learned from this thread:

1. Smaller than 5" and bigger than 7" makes you a potential liability.
2. I'm comfortably in the middle.
3. Many, many bitches'll dig my deep-dicking.

 

And I respectfully disagree...what I've learned is that it doesn't matter...and it does.
That no matter what size or ability you have...it may be a factor or it may not...and this may even change.

And I do hope that many enjoy your deep-dicking...but this is not guaranteed...and again, this may change.

Because I've known small dicked men...who are profoundly successful in bed. With both singular significant relationships and/or many conquests.
And I myself, who is larger...have found those who profoundly loved my skills, body, dick and then some...then strangely turned away after awhile.
This can be fairly soon...or after years. Either way.

In the end, simply enjoy yourself...and enjoy who you're with.
That's all you can control.

May everyone have LOTS of sex.
May the Force be with you...

 

It's most likely true, statistically speaking.

 

Agreed in full.

And that characteristic, while it "may" be a factor, "at that time", is not likely the full reason as to why or why not a relationship fluxes as it does.
And you may never figure it out. There may be no rational reason.

There are MANY variables involved in the interaction of two people,
especially over a good length of time
and even more so if you've decided to bring your lives and home together.

There is no rule.
Only attempting your best to communicate and get results.
I'd say, being aware is the first criteria.
Making an effort is the second.
Even then...no guarantees.