Bigger penis.

Bullshit. Unless you mean plastic or latex extenders and such. None of which work very well, in my experience.

Whoa, a lot to unpack here, and I disagree with all of it.

(1) I think a man with a larger cock has a larger cock. Period.

(2) It's been discussed above that such a guy doesn't always "know" he has one.

(3) Being "more sexual" (higher libido?) probably has more to do with hormone levels than any other bodily characteristics.

(4) I doubt that penis size has anything to do with one's inclination to "play with it" or "practice." I'm way below average, started early and often, and never let up.

I'm that second guy. Nice to meet you.

I do appreciate your honesty. You're supporting what I wrote earlier in this thread: average is better than tiny.

 

Thanks, it might not be popular, but I am honest. It's not a pleasant operation for making the cock larger, but there are options. I am all about making changes to ones self, but as far and plastic surgery this is a serious one and unless you are 4 inches , one I would not recommend.
Only my opinion, but I have found men with larger cocks very good in bed, and very kinky, and more open minded. I say this , and men with really large cocks have been a disappointment. I mean 9 plus inches or width that is like a circus show. They have been very bad in bed.
The average 6 inches, it depends on the man and foreplay skills. Any man is a great lover who focuses on the woman , and learns how to take their time, and it's not all about him. That is a given. I am sorry that I am an asshole in this regard, but it's like men who want to do only women under 27, I prefer a large cock and really only want to marry one. If I am going to spend the rest of my life with a cock I would like for it to be above average in width mostly, and 7 inches or more. I have found anything bigger than that they just think they can lay there and do nothing. If a man tells me it's not about the size of the ship , but the motion in the ocean...I pass.

 

I have heard of the surgery. It doesn't work very well at all. It does not translate to "a lot of options".

As a guy, you have what you have -- better get used to it.

No, you are not. I think you are completely normal.

I roll my eyes when I hear that line.

 

I don't know...I guess should be happy men have a couple of issues...hair loss, and penis size. God knows we have a few we worry about. I really do think there is a study that should be done on men with above average cocks and sexuality.

 

Men have more issues than that. You mentioned height. But no question, heterosexual women have it worse: men are far more apt to judge (and reject) women based solely on bodily characteristics than women are to judge men that way.

I bet such a study would show no correlation with sexuality. But I'm guessing that guys you're more comfortable with are more comfortable with you.

 

I think she's making a distinction between "above average" and "huge".

 

Becauseican is saying something that I, and a few others, have said:
A large(r) penis a matter of preference for some women.

If that is their main focus, in that they automatically assume a small(er) penis won't be as good, they're setting themselves up to be disappointed. A preference is one thing, a 'requirement' is something else.

If a woman is wanting a LTR where sex is important (it usually is, and should be, although a strict focus only on sex isn't a good thing), and she requires at least a certain size, she has every right to go for what she needs. With that said, IMO she should be totally upfront with any potential partner, although having a woman state her penis size requirements would surprise many guys. I would choose the chance to walk away over hearing "Oh, I need a cock bigger than yours" once things got heavy.

I'm also going to give a big negative to the success of the surgeries. I've never known anyone who has actually undergone any of the surgical enhancements, but the before-and-after images have not impressed me. Even when they've clearly been chosen, and many times staged, to show the enhancement is the best possible light.

If what I've read here at TFP, on other sites, and in many surveys & reports is accurate, penis size has little to do with sexuality. A guy can great, or totally inept, or anywhere in between regardless of his penis size.
A guy who leaves a woman needing more one time might be a stud for her another time.
What one woman considers boring might be just what another woman craves.
What one woman considers a turn-on might be a total turn-off for another woman.
All of the above can change depending on the circumstances. Of course there are people who want their sex just one way, but I'm guessing that they're in the minority.

 

I was speaking of a woman stating very clearly directly to the potential partner her preference/requirement, before anything got started. Of course there would be no guarantee that he would be honest, or even know that he doesn't "measure up."

Her choosing a guy who "measures up" would be no guarantee of good sex.

 

I will catch hell for this...but I can tell by just looking at a man if he is average, above average, small, wide, narrow...you get the point. It is a blessing and a curse. lol I have never been wrong, and would help friends out with my skills.

There are obviously way more important things than this, and your partner obviously has to have more than a large cock. I just personally do not want to spend my life with someone with a small one. I have also found, only my thoughts that anyone who has in my eyes, a huge cock to be horrible in bed. Granted, my sample size for this study is three, but of the three they were all horrible. My thoughts of a huge cock are over 8 inches and wide as hell , so they have both size and girth.

I have found men with larger cocks that I personally love to be above average in bed, and will be more open minded. Have I dated men with below average cocks...yes, and they would make up for it with other skills.

I think it's about balance. You can't be ugly, and mean. You can't be large and obnoxious. If you have a small penis (sorry I call them penis's when they are smaller) you can't be bad at going down on someone, or unwilling to use toys.

 

please explain

 

I can tell from certain body types. As an example and not a rule depending on the body type, but discussing general ideas..a soccer player body type big legs shorter men have a good size. Also football players usually the type 6 feet larger and flesh type of body do not. Also there is a thin type that is huge cock, and a thin type that has a small one. Very hard to articulate the particular skill, but as an example Brad Pitt large one, Bradley Cooper small one. Blake Shelton average at best, and Adam Levine large as hell.

 

I have very serious doubts that certain body types dictates penis size.

I will not name the TFP ladies who have posted about experiencing a wide variety of men, but it would be interesting to hear from them.

 

Maybe then it's just a blessing. Chris, Who said I have a wide variety of men. lol
There are other clues, and it's hard to express all the subtle hints, as well that leads me to my final analysis. I promise you for real, I have this skill, and I have tested it with not just my own dating experience, but of friends when I was younger. Woman are ruthless when talking about men, much worse that men! It is amazing the details we discuss.
I am not in that environment anymore and around women , and I am not really into having girlfriends, but this amazing skill was developed awhile ago. I know it does not sound believable, but I have put it to test many times for people, and I am not saying every person who was a soccer player in their youth has a big cock, there are many factors. The funny thing the more I type about this, the more I sound like I am out of my mind. (laughing) but I am being serious.
I digress, and got off topic, but this is just a conversation I am passionate about.
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Sorry did not not mention Rogue49 said something that is another sign of a large cock. If someone is willing to send you a picture of his member, and offers this I always thought of this as a good sign. I would never let them, because it's not my thing unless I was going to be with that person, but the offer alone means he is confident, and it's a nice size. There are signs men give you that you know it's above average.

 

I always find this interesting.
Over all you have what you have, and you cannot do anything feasible about it. But I do in fact think that size can matter in some ways. I think a smaller guy or even an average guy that is very insecure about his size is going to suffer in pleasing a woman. Not as much because of his size, but because of how he has already started out inferrer. I think the thing I find most funny is how many guys think they have an 8" cock. The ones that think they have an 8" and don't are usually the ones that seem to disappoint the wife (we have played some with others). The wife was married once before and has shared with me almost too much, how small her ex was (She has stated around 4"). But she also has said while married to him she knew of nothing different. She was more unsatisfied because of his selfishness than his size. When we played with a couple recently she said to see her other partners penis was disappointing at first, but she runs the show and we have been with them several times now. I have watched him maker her cum like crazy.
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becauseican6872
Your inbox may just be overflowing in moments! LOL
No mine will not be one of them.

 

I thought that was in direct correlation with your cock? No? I think we should start another thread. You might be on to something. lol