Bf is on the small side, will sexual intercourse suck?

That happens a lot here....but eventually it comes around.

Moral of the story....if you go in thinking it will suck, it will probably suck.

Size seriously does NOT matter. Yes, you have to do different moves to accommodate different people, but that happens no matter the size. Iif you like this guy, you two will find your rhythm. Just don't think about it. Have fun and enjoy your partner.

 

All I got from this thread was something something something...hobbits and liking tiny dicks.
Should I be worried?

 

I honestly have no idea if I have a big unit or not. That's probably because I don't care - don't think that I ever have, now that I think about it - mainly because I can't change it. It is what it is, and I have to figure out the best way to use it.

Having been a spectacularly ugly and awkward teenager that grew into a less-than-confident but not-hideously-deformed adult, I've adopted the "I have to try harder" attitude and tried to make it my own. I push myself hard in bed in terms of my own physical discomfort - if doing X is working for her, I'm going to fight through cramps and pain to keep doing X for as long as I physically can. While I may not last forever - although sometimes I do - I have a quick recovery time, and I'm generally ready to go again after a couple of minutes. And I'm open-minded enough to try just about anything once.

To answer the question you first posed, I have no idea if it's going to suck or not and I think it's impossible for anyone here to give you any sort of definitive answer. If they do, they're full of shit. And if you base your decision on anything anyone here says beyond "I'm going to give him a try", then he doesn't deserve you, even if he's an axe murderer.

 

Dudes have a hard enough (shutup jazz) time dealing with sex and women. Most men tend to overthink the whole sex thing instead of just letting it happen and enjoying the ride. (shutup jazz) You not being as receptive towards the idea of intercourse because you're comparing swords doesn't just translate via words..body language tells the story too. Just fuhgetaboutit and see how you feel after you cum.

 

Well, ride the damn thing first and you can answer your own question.

Advice has been given. If you like this dude, you should be banging.

 

Maybe she's worried about the Hotdog/Hallway Syndrome. Or there's some dude in there looking for his Firebird keys so that he can drive out.

 

this is why there is buttsex and lube.

 

Snowy had the best and most truthful response. She is totally right!!

And never compare one man to another, ever. Esp. telling Lover B about Lover A. - - - Unless you want to be "manless' for the rest of your life.

Just sayin'....

 

I'm sorry, chelle. I do hope you got something useful out of this thread.

/exit, stage left

 

I didn't respond at first because I didn't want to talk about my hallway and felt my response would have headed this direction.

Whoa...off topic again.

Do men worry about big vaginas as much as women worry about small penises? It's gotta be social stigma either way.

 

Damn, try to give a guy some morale support...

 

we like all vajayjays.. even zombie ones.

 

Not that it was an issue with your last bf, but if this guy ends up being a little on the small side for your tastes, you could learn to kegel, which will help him feel you more and help you feel him more, and pretty soon you won't even think about it. I am definitely not the most endowed guy on the planet, but when my wife squeezes hard, it gets insanely tight in there. She'd probably be able to feel a toothpick.

 

Never met one I didn't like.

On topic, take it for a test drive. You're never going to find out any other way.

 

Exactly.
Stop with the analysis already.
It's like asking if you will like chocolate ice cream. How are we supposed to know? Just try it. You'll probably like it.

 

Hi Chelle

Good to see you. Are you and he getting to the point where you would be OK to have sex with him, and he with you?
I mean, apart from the concern you have expressed in this topic, do You feel Ready?

If so, then I really reckon that going ahead and making love with him is the best course of action.
You've taken a good long time getting to know him, and you know I'm rooting for you.

Now, this situation is not like your 'conversation' thread, where you had already had a lot of opportunities to try it, get it right or wrong, then try it again differently. This is really new territory between you and him, though it sounds like the two of you have been getting pretty dang close.

Go ahead, then, if need be, present feedback here.

Take care
Zenda from the old forum.

 

You can do it!!!!

 

Chelle, you've got it all wrong. Sexual pleasure comes from the relationship, not the actual sex. I've been with a woman who was VERY loose (MANY years ago ).
I really liked her, and we managed to have great sex. I've been with a woman who was so tight it seemed to take forever to get it in. It was pretty ho-hum. BUT... the pleasure from the sex WASN'T ever from her equipment... it was from us, being together, enjoying making each other feel good however we could.

If this guy's size is important to you, then I suggest you dump him immediately; you're not ready for a relationship, and you're doing him a disservice by tying him up and making him think you are.

 

No I wouldn't dump him cuz of his size... I do like him. I just hope it'll be fine. I wasn't asking if I would enjoy it, I was more so asking for other people's experience with smaller penises.

Zen! Hi, thanks for everything lol.