Bf is on the small side, will sexual intercourse suck?

I've had my cervix slammed numerous times doggy style even when fully aroused. I must have a shallow vagina. If I was a man I'd probably have a little dick.

Explains why I often get "Does that hurt, baby?" with a big grin on face.

What I googled were obviously walking around sizes for most women. To me, they sounded about right.

 

Hah, and now I'm going to demand my current partner add "Oh, baby, I'm so deep for you..." to her dirty talk repertoire.

I reckon I've backwalled every woman I've been with. It's clear that problem is that their vagina isn't big enough for me.

 

Or they aren't sufficiently aroused ...

 

Pfft, I don't see why not... they're usually thinking about their exboyfriends.

Ya know, kinda like what Chelle is doing. Except with actual sex involved.

 

Hahahaha! I genuinely laughed out loud!

 

Thank you, thank you! I'm here 'til Sunday. Tip your waitress.



Please stop laughing at my life.

 

It took TFP 5.0 for Plan9 to grow a penis from that smooth spot.

"TFP 5.0 - if it can grow a penis, what can it do for you?"

 

Ahem...

 

If you guys must know, I did do it last night Unfortunately, it was very disappointing and unsatisfying. I don't think it's size though, but a whole different problem. Literally 3 pumps and then he came...tried again the next morning...same thing. He was really embarrassed. =\

He's only had one other partner which was a year ago. He said that he didn't have this issue and he don't know why it's doing this. I'm hoping maybe it'll get better? When I first did oral on him he came way too fast and now he doesn't.

For some reason it wasn't as hard as other times either... he knows it was unsatisfying...after only 2-3 pumps how could you not know? Damn this sucks. I do like him still and not going to dump him. It just really sucks for me.

 

My guess is that it's been a long time since he's had sex. Have him do oral on you to compensate until he's able to last long enough to satisfy. Give it time, sex isn't everything. I wouldn't ruin good chemistry because of a few bumps in the bed. Be open about it with him and tell him what you want him to do, as well as the other way around.

 

Well the thing is I don't like oral really. It does nothing for me when I'm receiving for some reason.. I must be weird. Fingering is better, but definitely not as good as intercourse.....

 

It's probably that he's really into you, really excited and wants to do well. Lots of pressure. Maybe try giving him a blowjob or handjob to completion THEN the sex.

 

Yes. Most people last longer during round 2.

And maybe whack off more.

 

Chelle, what you have now is a problem, one that both yourself and your partner can have a lot of fun trying to solve.

 

Hi Chelle

Yup - there's been a small but enthusiastic crowd gathering round this thread. Some have even brought blankets and thermos flasks.

First may I congratulate the two of you; also to express relief that there was no major size problem after all, merely a functional glitch. Admittedly, disappointing for you, and embarrassing for him.

I want to check something with you: You started this thread specifically regarding possible size incompatibility. That has been sorted. Now ... it is good to hear how things have progressed ... and I want to know: is this latest development something you want to discuss in this thread, or do you want to work through it privately for a while? your call ... and I prefer to check than simply assume one way or the other.

Though I can't resist mentioning that I Am with Mick on this one ... and I reckon that Lots of Practice will transform this problem before this month has finished and the Wynter Moon doth Ryze'.

Take care, Chelle

 

Gee, you demoralize the guy and then blue ball him for weeks, and wonder why he blows his load after three seconds? Did you think about, oh, I don't know, waiting a few minutes, arousing him, and trying it again? Granted, that may have been awkward while you both lay there crying.

 

Gonna have to agree here, try for a round two, as others too have said. If you use condoms, make him wear two. Not a long-term solution though.

 

Oooh Python, FWIW, double condoming results in greater risk that the condoms will break. I'd reccomend some sort of desensitizing lube first.

 

Yeah, double condoms can break. And to the person that said I gave him blue balls . That's an excuse. I've been with a guy for 2 years without having sex when I was a teen and he lasted long. I think my guy is very sensitive because one reason...him only beating off once or twice a month Lmao can u believe that? He thought doing it often was unhealthy, but now knows it isn't when I explained. I hope maybe if he does it more, he gets used to the feeling? Not having sex for a year, jerking off about once a month, and being uncircumcised (head not being exposed) makes it even more difficult right? Omg, I just hope that he can last and be satisfying.

I also hope he gets harder. It felt like nothing when he was about to have sex. Before we found this problem, he had no issue with his ex doing it in different positions, bangin and switchin to oral and bangin again, so it seems to be this isn't always the case (coming too fast in sex).

He is super sensitive though. When we first made out he exploded lol. Gradually built up and was able to hold it in when I gave him head. Although it's hard for him to try and not come. Hopefully things get better.
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I also want to mention it's hard for me to be in the mood when he finishes fast. It's like we're done. I guess the way I've done it for many years has been work at it until the guy cums and then you're done.

 

That's the beauty of two! Seriously though, like I said it's not a long term solution; but something that can be tried.

Or desensitizing lube like you suggested. Tried a condom once with that kinda stuff greased into it. It worked, in making me too soft to effectively be able to do it. Never used it again. I was about to suggest it myself in my last post, but I wasn't 100% sure about the spelling (though apparently it was correct). Yeah, I'm like that.