Are you Gay if. . . . .?

Hi, SolitaryMan

May I add my welcome to that of the others.

Regarding shemales and sexual/gender identity/preference of the observer, I remember coming across some futanari a few months ago. I can't find a link to the vids, but here's a wiki article:

Futanari - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

It does not answer your question, but I reckon it may provide useful jumping-off grounds for further exploration.

My own starting point when I do, see, respond to something and I say "Does this mean I am X", is to say "Well, it COULD do, but sure as heck, it could mean MANY other things, too, instead of or as well as X ... let's ponder awhile and lay them on the table."
My next point is to ask "Is this meaning I'm inquiring into about Me thinking about Me, or is it about ME thinking about Others thinking about me?" There will be some blurring, since all this is happening in my own head, but like in Alistair's "Penile Pulchritude" thread, with that magnificent set of pictures of others' responses, we CAN get a feeling for others seeing us .... accurately, inaccurately or anywhere between.
My next point is to feel confused and come to the interim conclusion that I prefer this place of multiple possibilities to the old place of "Am I this Or Not".

And what's the use of being in this place? What's the basis for my preference?
Well ... your relationship with the shemale content is just one mark in your history. Other events in your life, past, present, future, may or may not be relevant to this shemale content. If relevant, they will serve to make some possibilities more likely, and some less. Further events will, cumulatively, refine your sense of trends and likelihoods among those possibilities; and you add infinite richness to your exploration.


Meanwhile, as you let that process in the back of your mind, please enjoy my "WELCOME TO THIS FORUM" gift to you: One of my favourite shemale/transvestite adverts of all time. I could not find it in the original English, so I'll mention that at 0:30, when he says "good bum", it gets translated as "Bonzer". This is incorrect. He really IS saying "Good Bum", which translates into American as "Nice Ass"


At the time it came out .. 1999, I think it made good foundation to conversations that needed to happen.

Best wishes

 

Agreed.

Now that the serious answers have been given, it's time to cut loose!

 

I honestly doubt I can offer any input that hasn't been covered already--damn, I hate coming late to the party, especially such a groovy topic as this. But I'm always happy to drop in a little extra encouragement. By now, you've learned that pretty much the entire spectrum of tastes and preferences is covered in this crowd. There are those who don't mind a little sweet talk and missionary-position sex, and there are the tri-sexuals ("I'll TRY anything once, and do it again if I like it). If it gets you off, go for it. Damn the labels, damn the opinions of the world at large. You've got a freak flag. Fly it, my friend. Fly it high, fly it proud!
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Off-topic, but I have to say Huzzah for giant dildos, and for those who appreciate them!

 

O.K. I can understand no color posts, but my font size was to big ? I am a little surprised that this thread is up to page 4 ! Hope this size is O. K. ? (#3 ) and "Long Live Newhalf "

 

Are you insinuating that a larger font size contributed to 4 pages of comments? (or at least didn't hinder response?) Seems that you are. People here don't care how big your font is. People responded because it's an interesting topic.

I must say though, you now have me wondering what it is you're trying to compensate for. Is a #3 necessary? Is there something wrong with the font size the rest of us use?

 

You live in the UK now.

We're merely worthless plebs in the eyes of the beholder.

 

interesting thread...

allow me to write down some thoughts... might be based on personal experiences ;-)

• You like girls (not gay!)
• you like having sex with girls (not gay!)
• One day a girl put her finger in your ass to stimulate your prostate, you climaxe like you've never climaxed before and you love it... (not gay!)
• You want to take this one step further, and you ask the girl to fuck you in the ass with a strap-on... (not gay!?)
• Suddenly you wonder if it would be hot to get fucked in the ass by a real dick, but only with a shemale... (not gay?)

 

This is exactly what I mean. Shemales are feminine in every way a woman is so I don't see why that has to move in the gay direction or even register as bi.

 

And the coffee hits the screen.

Female sexuality may be tied to secondary sex characteristics, clothing, etc., but the male side? It's all cock, all the time. Presence of and use.

I'm an incredibly boring heterosexual whose most twisted fantasies involve two chicks, so I'm hardly an expert here... but logic would dictate that the primary reason why tranny porn is popular with the weenie gazing crowd isn't specifically because the he/shes are found physically attractive... it's because they have that different plumbing. That's the real focus, amiright? These guys/gals (?) wanna see the dick, not just the chick part.

The "I'm okay, you're okay, is this gay?" crap aside, of course.

 

I never knew you had a thing for Asians:

 

It's kind of funny, also, that given a choice between maybe liking men and maybe liking fairies, the modern male would almost always choose the fairies.

 

Me? I'm more old-fashioned, but this is what lads from the 80s onwards crave, or so I understand ...

 

Hi Mr Solitary Man

Fairies
This is where I do my 6-monthly mention of my crush, since 1962, on Tinkerbell.

And share something a friend told me years ago: "If a cat has kittens in an oven, that does not make them biscuits (cookies)"

And a thought that popped into my head last night: "are you goy if ... you like watching gentile porn?"

And I'll get my coat

 

I must say ive been in that position where ive seen what i thought was a female and thought "whooaah, how hot is she?", only to have her broad shoulders give it away that it was a she-male.

So yes, i think hetro males can be attracted to she-males in the simplest sense without endangering their masculinity and heterosexual-ness. The question is, if i still thought she was hot after i realised that she had a cock, have i then jumped the fence? I think not.. I hope not. I mean she is still beautiful..except for the cock bit.

 

I hope not. Because so far, I haven't found any alternatives.

 

The only thing negative dude is that your using a huge font-size. Smaller is better (in THIS case) LOL! ~Unless you have really bad eyes, then we all forgive you.