Are women looking at adult material??

I like a kind of femdom lite... female submission, not so much. Somewhat about the cock, but mostly about the cock's reaction to the... ministrations of the woman. And the man's reaction to being done by the woman.

Physical beauty is hard to define, but attractive to me is a man that is trim and fit, not too tall, with the body and muscles of a gymnast, not anything resembling the size or shape of an NFL lineman. And I like the girl/woman to be agile, fit, and trim with ample, not huge, natural breasts and a compact butt. Like me when I was a dancer fifteen years ago.

If the actress/model is skilled, I can absolutely imagine myself in her shoes, whether she is wearing any or not. I enjoy watching, and fantasizing about, what I like to do in my own sex life. That cock may be attached to him, but it belongs to me. Some guys don't like like that, don't like to cum that way, there's too much vulnerability and lack of being in control of his own orgasm. That is, I guess, definitely about female empowerment.

But I also like being fucked doggie style, so what the hell, there's some submission.

Tomorrow morning will be lots of fun.

 

I don't think it's about the details of what one likes...obviously, if it exists...there is a market for it. (amateur vs pro or both..."real" or setup...or both, etc)
At least in a male context, because the current large volume of that sex watching it...Market & style goes where the desire is.
No matter what one may state or allowed to be revealed.
My instinct says there's more watchers out there NOT saying anything, for fear of being judged, both men & women.

But I'm more interested in the emerging market focusing on females...and what they focus on when they see what's existing.
Similar to when the film industry finally figured out there was a huge market dedicated to women...and what formats out there are focused on females' desires and dynamic.

@Lindy and @Snowy has been kind enough share, but they are just two of many...and their likes and dislikes are specific to them.
And they are much more comfortable intellectualizing & stating their sexual preferences than many, for either men or women. (and I love this, I wish more would feel comfortable doing so)
The greater volume and trends, may differ...or they may not, who knows?

In addition, following what I said above, they are bold and brave enough to state what they like.
I find this is the exception to the rule, at least in public.
But then again, I find that men too will only allow for certain things to be said about their own desires. Even to other men...it is rare, when you get the truth.

Sex is still a very private thing...if not a very "judged" thing. (people don't want to be thought of as "ew, that's gross"...even if it isn't.)
Peer pressure is still a VERY overwhelming stigma.
As those in the Porn Industry say, "One hand pointing, the other hand getting off..." There IS often a contradiction.

This is why, I'm wondering what the trends are for females, what are their inclinations...now they can express themselves privately and individually.
And what female focused adult markets will emerge...IF they can figure out what women want...AND they can make money on it.

Personally, I'm like @Lindy ...I like the femdom scenes...one where the women takes control, not S&M, but that she "knows" what she wants and does something about it.
I know why women like being courted...makes YOU feel desired. It's nice to know someone WANTS you. Does the ego good.
Besides, it's nice to have someone else take over...you just enjoy the ride.

 

I love adult material so much that I'm putting together a collection of my favorite panels from BL manga. It's not to everyone's tastes, but it is to mine, and I like the highlights.

 

Boys' love. Dudes banging dudes.

 

Yaoi.

 

See my blog.

To add more nuance to what's posted on there--yaoi/BL is a subset of manga (Japanese comic); traditionally, manga have been divided up by the demographic group they appeal to (shojo is girls, shonen boys, josei women, seinen men). However, BL crosses demographic groups, appealing to both girls and women, by and large. It is known for embracing many tropes specific to its genre; for example, the top is known as the seme, and the bottom is known as the uke. There are particularities that go along with each, such as it's rare to see the seme naked, and the seme is the one who does oral--rarely the other way around. Generally, there is a sensitivity to the relationships and a level of romance that would be unusual between men in general, so it's unrealistic. Additionally, there is a tendency for everyone in these manga to "turn gay," which is statistically impossible.

 

Interesting, my Ex-wife liked watching that too.
I wonder if other women like it, like many men often enjoy watching lesbian sex?

 

According to what I've seen in the wilds of Tumblr, reddit, and general fandom, yes. It's more than that, though. There are different levels of material in the BL world. If it weren't widely popular, there wouldn't be entry level stuff like Free! (an anime featuring an all-male swim team and strong undertones) and Hetalia (another anime with undertones). Places like Fanfiction.net and Archive of Our Own are dominated by yaoi stories in certain fandoms.

 

Ahem. Johnlock.

 

All the time, but they are now on collection sites like Cliphunter or XNXX...unless you want to fork out money for them. (which is against my own rule, no money for play)
And it depends on your tastes, which vary from person to person. Frankly, I like amateur/live for solo females, but I hate it for sex/couples...I prefer the professional fare for that. (But that's me, I'm into HighDef/HD stuff now)

And I'm sure women's tastes vary too, as noted by the few kind enough to share here.
We see that they definitely have an interest in mass, in the success of even soft fare, such as 50 Shades.

I always wondered if it's biological or social as to their desires...likely a bit of both, what they are drawn to or feel comfortable with.
But at least now, they get the volume and discretion of the Internet. And society standards have been more accepting of those who do enjoy it.

There's three ways of getting around that and helping prevent viruses.

• First, create a new "guest" user on your system, lock it down...use this for any internet searching that may be "unknown", even if not porn. It shouldn't be your normal user profile.
• Second, use a browser that most don't write for or support, like Opera, most pages will work well...but because hackers don't write for it, it's less likely they'll be able to manipulate it. Not guaranteed, but it helps.
  • Have your browser set to minimal security, don't accept cookies from other than the site you're on, automatically clear your cache and cookies after each use.
  • Download and setup an ad-blocker.
• Ask around from friends (or even here) for "safe" sites, those that are well established and known for not being virus havens.

I'd suggest this for even Tumblr, because even pics glanced at can have embedded code. Not likely, but still better to be safe than sorry.
My alternate profile is used exclusively for my adult web-time. Sure it's a brief inconvenience to switch (logout/login and back) but I it helps prevent damage.

You've got the whole web to wander, why worry?
Think of it as self-defense for your online "nights out"

 

Sorry, I thought you were asking for professional stuff...not pure amateur. ("real porn"...what does this mean??)
I know AFF, but it wasn't productive for me. Most stable single women aren't looking for men there, even for just a "fuck buddy".

There are live ones, done by pros and amateurs. Sometimes they're looking for "tips", sometimes purely for free. The newer couples or models are "effectively" as amateur, since they haven't gotten jaded or standard yet. (ex. MFC or Chaturbate)
Or there are sites, dedicated to random non-pro Webcams/Chats that allow more "colorful" activities...or there are sites that are dedicated to exhibitionists/voyeur ...or to adult reading material.

Depends on your preferences and desires. (man or woman)
And more women are diving into this everyday...just not in the volume or speed that men are yet. (hey...the more, the merrier, IMHO )

I wonder if the dynamics of men/women interactions will trend more from relationship -> sex ...to sex -> relationship??
But you'd have to completely eliminated unwanted pregnancy and STDs to to this, I'd think.
And will the pervasive usage and options of the web promote this?