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44yr old mom takes 5yr old daughter tanning, gets herself arrested.

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by Borla, May 2, 2012.

  1. Ayashe

    Ayashe Getting Tilted

    Of course I wouldn't profile excessive tanners. The young girl came in with a sunburn and stated she went tanning with her mother. In absence of the girl's statement I can't imagine coming to the same conclusion. My bad, I wasn't very clear on that.

    I was not the teacher, I didn't hear the conversation, in what manner the girl happened to bring up the matter etc.. it is mere conjecture.
     
  2. Plan9

    Plan9 Rock 'n Roll

    Location:
    Earth
    I wouldn't call it "profiling," but if I saw a woman that looked like that during the course of an investigation, I'd definitely hit up the background info.

    If it looks like a freak, it's worth another look. Rumor has it that's what we pay law enforcement to do: look into suspicious shit.
     
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  3. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    But her skin has such a healthy glow. :rolleyes:

    Fortunately, stupid actions or hobbies are not a basis for getting your kids taken away.
    Otherwise most of the population would forfit their kids.

    Yes, you have to question her taste. I'll leave it to the officials to check up on her parenting capabilities.
    If I was her, I wouldn't be so cheerful about getting my mug in the media looking like that...but then again, she likely considers herself looking good.

    This is a lesson learned,
    if you don't want the government knocking on your door, avoid the spotlight...or in this case tanning bed light.
     
  4. KirStang

    KirStang Something Patriotic.

    I think the evidence in this case is flimsy as hell:
    1.) Sunburns (and how burnt does the child look in the videos? Not at all, imo).
    2.) A young child's statements (in my experience young children can be lead to say anything.)
    3.) A mom who obviously likes tanning.

    So this is their probable cause for arrest?
     
  5. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    It had been at least two weeks since the kid got the burn. That kid's a ginger, so she has two speeds: pallid and burnt. She could have peeled and healed since then.

    Also, as snowy noted: It's the teacher's duty to report these kinds of things. Look at it this way: The teacher, the school, the other parents, etc., probably know this mom. They probably know her as being severely tanorexic. It's a condition that poses serious health problems, as the dangers of tanning are well known, but it's also a psychological problem. The physiological dangers are why there are laws barring the use of tanning beds among those of a certain age.

    Also, I'm getting mixed reports on what the tanning salon states about the kid being at the salon.

    So you have this mother who clearly has a problem, and you have a young child who says she "went tanning Mom" or whatever, and the kid is severely burnt. What does the salon say?

    Probable cause for arrest? You tell me. If she did indeed take her kid tanning, does that constitute abuse knowing what tanning for this mother entails?

    If not an arrest, then should there not at least be an investigation by child services?

    I'm not sure how these things work. Did the police not investigate before making an arrest?
     
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  6. Chicago news had reports last night from when the mother lived in Cary IL, a suburb of Chicago. Neighbors interviewed said she was strange. She used to tan nude in her backyard. meh

    In the video of her that I've seen most often it almost looks like she is in blackface. It does not look natural. Plus she looks 'greasy' I wonder if she applied make up so that she would look darker?
     
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  7. the_jazz

    the_jazz Accused old lady puncher

    I thought exactly the same thing. I didn't see the news report but saw something online today to the same effect. She look disturbed, to be honest. I can't imagine anyone in their 40's willfully looking that way when they're not trying to make some sort of statement (i.e. punks, goths, etc.).
     
  8. Freetofly

    Freetofly Diving deep into the abyss

    If anything comes out of this, I hope it is help for an addiction.
     
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  9. cynthetiq

    cynthetiq Administrator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    New York City
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  10. KirStang

    KirStang Something Patriotic.

    This is NJ, so it's different from FL. But in FL, when an allegation like this arises, Child Protective Services ("CPIS") is called in (principal usually contacts the police). CPIS is accompanied by a law enforcement officer to investigate. Based on their investigation, CPIS will either open a case, or dismiss it as unfounded, and Law Enforcement will do the same.

    I have no idea how NJ works when it comes to schools and mandatory reporting, but here's the deal: with all due respect Baraka, if you focus on your post, it seems like a lot of it is directed to problems that Mom has. Mom might have a tanning problem. It doesn't necessarily follow that Mom is a child abuser who dragged the kid in to a tanning bed with her (initially i heard it was a stand-up tan machine, but I don't know).

    And if the child was crispy enough to raise concerns about child abuse, I hope to see some pictures (but most childrens' cases are not a matter of public record, pictures should exist if the case is founded, though).

    Probable Cause = Reliable Facts which would lead a reasonable person to conclude that criminal activity is afoot.

    Known facts:
    1.) Mom loves to tan.
    2.) Child had sunburn.

    A child's statement is not really "reliable" since I've lead kids involved in child abuse cases to say the darndest things.

    So....Uber tan mom. Sun burn. Criminal activity afoot? I certainly don't think so. But reasonable minds can always disagree.
     
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  11. Strange Famous

    Strange Famous it depends on who is looking...

    Location:
    Ipswich, UK
    Its certainly reasonable that social services visit and check up on the child's safety.

    But arresting this lady (and the media making fun of her) doesnt seem helpful.

    Just look at her. As stated above, nobody would do that to themselves unless they are mentally ill or they are deliberately self harming (which is also a sign of needing help.)

    We come down hard on cigarettes because they cause cancer... shouldn't we be taking the same kind of approach to tanning salons? Im not saying criminalise them, but tax it heavily and try to ease them out of existence. They can do no good to anyone, but only harm.
     
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  12. the_jazz

    the_jazz Accused old lady puncher

    KirStang, you're ignoring the volunteered statement by the kid that she "went tanning with mom". That the kid said it isn't up for debate - the statement sparked the whole thing. The question is what was meant - she just accompanied mom to the salon or whether or not she got in the booth. And that's the question none of us can answer.

    Let's assume for a second that the worst case has happened here - mom has been habitually taking the girl into the booth with her, disregarding the law. Does that constitute abuse? In my mind, yes, it's a willful disregard for the safety of her daughter. When the industry itself has rules regulating ages for the use of its product, that's willful disregard. Now maybe this was the first time and maybe it wasn't. Regardless, the statement the girl made implicated the mom in some way. Otherwise there wouldn't have been an arrest - unless of course you're going to maintain that the cop wasn't reasonable, which is an entirely different discussion and one I think is impossible to have at this point.

    As far as a child's statement being reliable or not, I'd say it depends on the kid and the circumstance.
     
  13. KirStang

    KirStang Something Patriotic.

    We're going to have to see if the child was actually in a tanning machine. The statement is ambiguous enough to mean she went to thw beach with mom.
     
  14. the_jazz

    the_jazz Accused old lady puncher

    I agree completely. The arrest makes me think that we're going to find out that she's been inside, but that's my guess and is no more or less valid than anyone else's. Except for Edward Palamar 's guess, obviously.
     
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  15. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    Do I smell a TFP meme in the making?
     
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  16. Tully Mars

    Tully Mars Very Tilted

    Location:
    Yucatan, Mexico
    Why would the salon let her enter? I have no idea about NJ laws but in Oregon you have to be 18 or 16 with a parental sign off. Doesn't make a lot of sense to me but there's plenty in the world that fits that bill.

    I do think if the police made an arrest there must be info not public yet or there will be heads rolling.
    --- merged: May 3, 2012 at 6:25 PM ---

    You might be surprised. Many folks retire down here, mostly 55+ and once here spend day in and day out soaking up the sun (and drinking daily.) Within a short time their skin looks like a leather bag, a dark leather bag. I know of at least 3 people who've contracted skin cancer in the last 2 yrs. Doesn't even phase the sun worship crowd. I had one lady tell me she does it for vitamin D. She's been here less then 18 months and looks like she's aged 8-10 years. Me I'm sticking to my pasty white skin and regular use of SPF 100.
     
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  17. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    Ernest Hemingway loved to drink.

    Kenneth Lay loved to make money.

    Saddam Hussein loved to rule.

    the_jazz has already extended on the line of thinking I had regarding the feasibility of a case. However, I wanted to comment on the fact that this mother doesn't have a healthy love of tanning.

    It's not like we say, "Wow, she looks great," and someone replies, "Well, that's because she loves to tan." No. We say, "Holy fuck! Look at her! WTF is wrong with her face?! Is that real?" and someone replies, "Tanning fried her brain, dawg! LOL!"

    The woman clearly has a problem. Is arresting her and putting her on trial the best way to find out whether she has gone beyond self-harm? Probably not. However, if she is indeed foisting her problem on her child, someone needs to get to the bottom of it. She's not into tanning for that bronzed look. She's gone full out to rust. Something's wrong here.

    Ah, ignorance is remiss.

    In a place like that, white folks will max out their daily vitamin D synthesis in under an hour. An adequate level would synthesize in under 15 minutes.
     
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  18. Joniemack

    Joniemack Beta brainwaves in session

    Location:
    Reading, UK
    I don't believe I have ever disagreed with anything you've posted, until now.

    As far as I know she was not arrested as a means of determining whether or not she's a Tanorexic (God, I love that!)

    Every one of your above statements suggests that, because she's voluntarily fucking up her appearance (which is not in dispute) is reason enough to suspect and arrest her. None of us have any information about the investigation or how it was conducted. None of knows whether or not her child's comment about going tanning with mommy means she went in the tanning salon with her or in the tanning room with her, or in the tanning bed/booth with her. None of us have a clue as to what the salon has had to say about this.

    Without anything more to go on you seriously appear to condone at least her arrest, and from what I can gather it's because she's hideous looking, obviously crazy, and even if she's not guilty of the crime she's being accused of, she surely must be guilty of something. It's not supposed to work that way.
     
  19. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    This is why I said arresting her probably wasn't the best idea. I don't know enough details of the case. Her tanning habit is alarming in and of itself. Yet her burnt daughter said she went tanning with her mother. Everything else at this point is conjecture.

    I really don't know. My point is that this isn't just a woman who frequents the tanning salon. This is a woman who takes it too far. Way too far.

    At this point, it's up to the courts to find out.
     
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  20. cynthetiq

    cynthetiq Administrator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    New York City
    apparently... she's hot stuff.

    [​IMG]
     
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