does he want to date or not?
 

ok, so I met this guy through this website that my school has. I asked him over for a movie, and at the end of the date i made the move to kiss him on the cheek. I didn't see him for a couple of days, but when halloween started to creep up, i asked him to go see the rocky horror picture show at a local theater. he said yes, but the night he was supposed to call to tell me where to meet him he sent me this email saying that he really liked me, but he didn't think we should go any further. he said that he had been seeing this other girl a week or two before i contacted him. i still thought he was a cool guy, and i appreciated that he was at least honest, but he has since told me a couple of times that he still likes me, and that he wishes that we had met a little sooner. I feel like I'm getting some mixed messages from him, but I really can't tell. What do you guys think? Ok, quick update: I'm not even sure that he is still seeing this girl, so would it be too foward of me to ask him if he is? I still really like him, and I don't want to scare him off if there still may be a chance.
Thanks a bunch :)

keep looking. If he really liked you he would date you. IMO hes keeping you along incase the other one doesn't work out.

My suggestion is to cut your losses, chances are you're worth a lot more than that anyways.

I agree with ruggerp11, he's just dragging you along as a back up plan. If it was nothing serious or worth keeping with this other girl then he would have dropped her in fast. Tell him if he really wants a relationship with you then he has to leave the other girl or the current relationship is going to go no where.

stringing you along is not a nice thing to do. From my previous experience, run. He's not worth it and will probably cause you heartache.

Aye, agree with the above. You're a fall-back, a back-up if it doesn't work out with this other girl.

Continue on, enjoy life, and find the right guy :)

Sammy

If you're single, date around. It's fine to go out with more than one personat a time - as longas you make it clear to the other person you are doing so.

There are only benefits to this: 1. youhave more fun. 2. you get to experience whats out there better. 3. you are moreappealing to other guys because they know you're in demand.

Tell him, it's ok to see other people, I encourage it... It's not like we're married or any thing.

Don't go on what he says, go on how he acts. I guess that's as simple as it can be put...

Go out with me instead.

But really, it depends on whether or not you like playing second string. If that's your kind of thing, then have fun. If it isn't, run, don't walk away.

If he really liked you that much, he would have dumped her (or the prospect of) to be w/you. Might as well step away now, instead of investing anymore time into it.

he likes you, and he keeps telling you that so you'll still be avail when the other relationship takes a crap

brief and blunt. that's awesome.

He does like you, he just likes the other girl. And atm he has his cake and eats your as well (wasn't intended as a pun.. I promise).

Simply tell him you like him, however you wont be his play thing. Tell him to drop his other girl to be with you or just dont bother. His decision might not be what you want it to be, but you'll cease being the girl on the side and can find someone who truely appreciates you.