Havent seen my girl for a month, am seeing her next friday... - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

RCR · 10-07-2005, 11:11 AM

I was wondering, as i am not going to be the only one on here who is in a long distance relationship.

But does anyone have any happy stories they want to share about seeing your partner after a while away.

Im going for the whole weekend, and i cant wait

best,

BigBen · 10-07-2005, 11:24 AM

There is nothing better than coming home to a SO who loves, misses and needs you.

Any happy stories about coming back from a long absence? Yes. Many. But as Tom Hanks said in Saving Private Ryan, those stories are just for me. I don't share those ones.

You are lucky. Remember, the weekend you are about to spend will be with you for the rest of your life. How many times can you say that?

Ustwo · 10-07-2005, 12:09 PM

My wife and I were in a LDR while dating for 3 years.

Since I'm not into writing erotic stories, not much I can share about those get togethers.

Powderedmaggot · 10-07-2005, 12:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigBen931

There is nothing better than coming home to a SO who loves, misses and needs you.

You forgot lusts you.

abaya · 10-07-2005, 12:24 PM

Some of the best memories/moments I have of my relationship w/ktspktsp are from reunions after a separation. There's really nothing better than that first kiss, and all-grabbing hug.

and what comes after...

And yes, this even applies to reunions every weekend, after just 4-5 days apart!

As much as long-distance relationships suck, one nice thing about them is the reunions... the anticipation, and the renewal it brings each time. I think it really is refreshing to the relationship.

Beanie · 10-07-2005, 01:16 PM

i am in a long distance relationship, and tomorrow i am finally going to get to see my gf for the first time since i left town. She is picking me up at the airport and everything too haha. It is not too bad doing the long distance thing. You forget about the physical relationship you had, which in many ways can cheapen a relationship.

Ill see how the reunion goes!

RCR · 10-08-2005, 07:52 AM

Yeah shes picking me up, 6 days and counting lol

shesus · 10-08-2005, 09:10 AM

The best thing about a ldr is seeing each other for the first time after a period of time apart. I can't explain the feeling that I felt just seeing the person. You feel as if your heart is going to explode and the electricity that is between the 2 people is intense. It is almost as if it the first time with that person all over again. One word...incredible

abaya · 10-08-2005, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by ohh_shesus

It is almost as if it the first time with that person all over again.

Yep, that's what I love about it!! I think that whenever you need a jump-start on your relationship, spend some time away from each other and experience that feeling of newness again... it's wonderful.

nefarious · 10-09-2005, 09:12 AM

next month i will be seeing my girlfriend for the first time in almost a year. in december of last year we were released for 3 days to visit home.

after only one month, our lovemaking was gargantuously energetic and raw. we boffed like rabbits. i can only imagine what it's going to be like now.

i must admit, absence does make the heart grow fonder. it just really sucks when the absence means you're in iraq and have to wait almost a year!

ruggerp11 · 10-09-2005, 12:57 PM

Shit, I have a counter on my desktop at home and at work counting down the time until I get to see Julie again (45 days 7 hours and 19 minutes until her plane lands). I feel complete when shes around, and at peace with the world. Nothing can go wrong and every problem that I may have at the time is extremely insignificant. Its amazing. Tell us how it goes!

1010011010 · 10-09-2005, 01:11 PM

I got back from deployment about three weeks ago. It's been interesting.

RCR · 10-11-2005, 02:48 PM

Thanks guys, i wont be graphic, but i think it will be as 1010011010 said, "interesting"

all the best,

fightnight · 10-13-2005, 12:12 PM

It'll be great. We used to do the LDR thing, and it's hard, but those were some fun weekends, although we didn't get out much.

Poppinjay · 10-13-2005, 12:20 PM

Yeah, we cancel a lot of plams and turn down alot of invites.

Two more hateful weeks......

Then, what then? Happiness. I will try to always remember our LDR time together when I get into one of those walk out the door moods.

sailor · 10-14-2005, 05:00 AM

I literally just got back to Germany after visiting my GF back in the States for a week. Like others said, it's a great feeling--that first hug... Total happiness. Of course, then you have to deal with leaving again, which is quite hard, as I'm finding out

ruggerp11 · 10-14-2005, 09:29 AM

I don't cry, but I did when she left last time

(40 days 10 hours and 47 minutes)

cierah · 10-14-2005, 09:42 AM

My boy (who I haven't seen for a little more than a month) is coming to see me this weekend! I'm really excited about it and so is he. He's a tool though because he's driving 15 hours to see me and then 15 hours back and with my work and all we aren't sure how much actually time we will have together. But he misses me so he's coming! I hate how sometimes it literally physically hurts when you miss someone so much and all you want in the world is for that person to be in the same room as you but they aren't. They are a world away.

abaya · 10-14-2005, 10:04 AM

Cierah--15 hours, jesus, why doesn't he just fly? (esp w/the cost of gas these days!)

ruggerp11 · 10-14-2005, 10:49 AM

She probably doesn't drive for the same reason I am not able to every weekend. The cost from MN to Montreal is damn near criminal

cierah · 10-15-2005, 03:29 PM

I think he did do the math and driving was cheaper. He also wants a car when he's out here. The funniest thing in the world is we went on a radom road trip and ended up in Gander, Newfoundland - when gas was $1.50. I laughed.

10-07-2005, 11:11 AM	#1 (permalink)
RCR Crazy	Havent seen my girl for a month, am seeing her next friday... I was wondering, as i am not going to be the only one on here who is in a long distance relationship. But does anyone have any happy stories they want to share about seeing your partner after a while away. Im going for the whole weekend, and i cant wait best,

10-07-2005, 11:24 AM	#2 (permalink)
BigBen Comedian Location: Use the search button	There is nothing better than coming home to a SO who loves, misses and needs you. Any happy stories about coming back from a long absence? Yes. Many. But as Tom Hanks said in Saving Private Ryan, those stories are just for me. I don't share those ones. You are lucky. Remember, the weekend you are about to spend will be with you for the rest of your life. How many times can you say that? __________________ 3.141592654 Hey, if you are impressed with my memorizing pi to 10 digits, you should see the size of my penis.

10-07-2005, 12:09 PM	#3 (permalink)
Ustwo Pissing in the cornflakes	My wife and I were in a LDR while dating for 3 years. Since I'm not into writing erotic stories, not much I can share about those get togethers. __________________ Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps.

10-07-2005, 12:24 PM	#5 (permalink)
abaya Location: Iceland	Some of the best memories/moments I have of my relationship w/ktspktsp are from reunions after a separation. There's really nothing better than that first kiss, and all-grabbing hug. and what comes after... And yes, this even applies to reunions every weekend, after just 4-5 days apart! As much as long-distance relationships suck, one nice thing about them is the reunions... the anticipation, and the renewal it brings each time. I think it really is refreshing to the relationship. __________________ And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran

10-08-2005, 09:10 AM	#8 (permalink)
shesus Fancy Location: Chicago	The best thing about a ldr is seeing each other for the first time after a period of time apart. I can't explain the feeling that I felt just seeing the person. You feel as if your heart is going to explode and the electricity that is between the 2 people is intense. It is almost as if it the first time with that person all over again. One word...incredible __________________ Whatever did happen to your soul? I heard you sold it Choose Heaven for the weather and Hell for the company

10-07-2005, 01:16 PM	#6 (permalink)
Beanie Upright	i am in a long distance relationship, and tomorrow i am finally going to get to see my gf for the first time since i left town. She is picking me up at the airport and everything too haha. It is not too bad doing the long distance thing. You forget about the physical relationship you had, which in many ways can cheapen a relationship. Ill see how the reunion goes!

10-08-2005, 07:52 AM	#7 (permalink)
RCR Crazy	Yeah shes picking me up, 6 days and counting lol

10-09-2005, 09:12 AM	#10 (permalink)
nefarious Insane Location: Tucson, AZ	next month i will be seeing my girlfriend for the first time in almost a year. in december of last year we were released for 3 days to visit home. after only one month, our lovemaking was gargantuously energetic and raw. we boffed like rabbits. i can only imagine what it's going to be like now. i must admit, absence does make the heart grow fonder. it just really sucks when the absence means you're in iraq and have to wait almost a year! __________________ Si vis pacem, para bellum. - Vegetius "Do Re Mil.3, Prol.

10-09-2005, 12:57 PM	#11 (permalink)
ruggerp11 Cautiously soaring Location: exploring my new home in SF	Shit, I have a counter on my desktop at home and at work counting down the time until I get to see Julie again (45 days 7 hours and 19 minutes until her plane lands). I feel complete when shes around, and at peace with the world. Nothing can go wrong and every problem that I may have at the time is extremely insignificant. Its amazing. Tell us how it goes! __________________ Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it. --Mark Twain Do What makes you happy --Me BUT! "Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu

10-09-2005, 01:11 PM	#12 (permalink)
1010011010 Psycho Location: Virginia Beach, VA	I got back from deployment about three weeks ago. It's been interesting. __________________ *Simple Machines in Higher Dimensions*

10-11-2005, 02:48 PM	#13 (permalink)
RCR Crazy	Thanks guys, i wont be graphic, but i think it will be as 1010011010 said, "interesting" all the best,

10-13-2005, 12:12 PM	#14 (permalink)
fightnight Insane Location: The lovely Northeast	It'll be great. We used to do the LDR thing, and it's hard, but those were some fun weekends, although we didn't get out much.

10-13-2005, 12:20 PM	#15 (permalink)
Poppinjay You had me at hello Location: DC/Coastal VA	Yeah, we cancel a lot of plams and turn down alot of invites. Two more hateful weeks...... Then, what then? Happiness. I will try to always remember our LDR time together when I get into one of those walk out the door moods. __________________ I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet

10-14-2005, 05:00 AM	#16 (permalink)
sailor beauty in the breakdown Location: Chapel Hill, NC	I literally just got back to Germany after visiting my GF back in the States for a week. Like others said, it's a great feeling--that first hug... Total happiness. Of course, then you have to deal with leaving again, which is quite hard, as I'm finding out __________________ "Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws." --Plato

10-14-2005, 09:29 AM	#17 (permalink)
ruggerp11 Cautiously soaring Location: exploring my new home in SF	I don't cry, but I did when she left last time (40 days 10 hours and 47 minutes) __________________ Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it. --Mark Twain Do What makes you happy --Me BUT! "Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu

10-14-2005, 09:42 AM	#18 (permalink)
cierah Crazy Location: Canada	My boy (who I haven't seen for a little more than a month) is coming to see me this weekend! I'm really excited about it and so is he. He's a tool though because he's driving 15 hours to see me and then 15 hours back and with my work and all we aren't sure how much actually time we will have together. But he misses me so he's coming! I hate how sometimes it literally physically hurts when you miss someone so much and all you want in the world is for that person to be in the same room as you but they aren't. They are a world away. __________________ "You can close your eyes to reality but not to memories" -Stainslaw J. Lec

10-14-2005, 10:04 AM	#19 (permalink)
abaya Location: Iceland	Cierah--15 hours, jesus, why doesn't he just fly? (esp w/the cost of gas these days!) __________________ And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran

10-14-2005, 10:49 AM	#20 (permalink)
ruggerp11 Cautiously soaring Location: exploring my new home in SF	She probably doesn't drive for the same reason I am not able to every weekend. The cost from MN to Montreal is damn near criminal __________________ Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it. --Mark Twain Do What makes you happy --Me BUT! "Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu

10-15-2005, 03:29 PM	#21 (permalink)
cierah Crazy Location: Canada	I think he did do the math and driving was cheaper. He also wants a car when he's out here. The funniest thing in the world is we went on a radom road trip and ended up in Gander, Newfoundland - when gas was $1.50. I laughed. __________________ "You can close your eyes to reality but not to memories" -Stainslaw J. Lec