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Munku · 08-22-2005, 08:18 PM

What does everyone reccommend for anal lube? Toys and such. I have KY Warming gelly and it has a sort of burning sensation when I use it, that I'm guessing is from the warming portion of it, making it too uncomfortable to use. What does everyone reccommend for anal play?

cmc · 08-22-2005, 08:42 PM

Probably more important than the lube is the attitude of the luber and the lubee ...
For effective ( meaning getting the results of pleasure that you want, in such a way that you can get similar enjoyable results over, and over again ) anal erotic play, trust, patience, more trust, MORE patience AND combined with lots and lots of 'KY Ultra Gel' ( avail @ Walmarts ect ) works very well in my experience. Enjoy, and Remember ... slow - easy does it.

Devoid · 08-22-2005, 08:55 PM

The KY liquid works great for us. Much better than a gel, or any of that goopy stuff.

shazbotus · 08-22-2005, 08:59 PM

You're telling me KY Jelly isn't just for co-ed wrestling matches?!?!?!

Martel · 08-22-2005, 09:06 PM

Sage and I have recently discovered that the Astroglide gel formulation is reeeally nice for anal.

anti fishstick · 08-22-2005, 10:25 PM

I have some weird thing we got at a sex shop called Penthouse Heavy Duty Anal Lube..

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg...27321?v=glance

we've had no problems with it :-D

but if you live with parents, this bottle has NO shame, so be careful.

surfi3 · 08-23-2005, 01:05 PM

haha that doesn't hide much at all does it. My girlfriend has the lube we use (Don't know the name of it) in her bag so her Mum won't see it. Comes in handy when feeling frisky when out and about aswell

chicometal · 08-23-2005, 10:57 PM

http://www.cheaplubes.com/index.asp?...S&Category=417

lindseylatch · 08-24-2005, 12:13 AM

i use ID for regular sex...I like it WAAAAAAY better than KY or AstroGlide. Although it seems to be not as good once you get down to the last bit...like maybe it dries out and gets sticky or something.

Are you using a condom? If not, you could use an oil based lube, which might be better than a water based (Like KY and Astro and ID).

Xazy · 08-24-2005, 03:41 AM

Got to go with Astro Glide as well.

SiN · 08-24-2005, 05:07 AM

I don't like Asstroglide.

Used to, and I'd use it in a pinch for sure ...

but I've heard good things about silicon based lubes. (afaik condom-safe, but not silicon-toy safe, am i wrong? )

I suspect that the glycerin in Astrogl. and other common lubes is cause for more of a 'burning' sensation.

Not sure tho, haven't tested my theory.
That requires some assistance.

hahaa, assistance.

er, nevermind

zanda · 08-24-2005, 07:53 AM

LOL all you have to do is assk SiN

Charlatan · 08-24-2005, 08:12 AM

I've been using Slippery Stuff and find it's long lasting...

http://www.comeasyouare.com/index.cf...age=LubesAndSS

crvtec · 08-24-2005, 09:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Devoid

The KY liquid works great for us. Much better than a gel, or any of that goopy stuff.

We use the KY liquid as well. Alot better than the gels

Munku · 08-24-2005, 09:53 AM

Hah thanks for the replies and a bit of comedy guys :-D

MexicanOnABike · 08-24-2005, 12:07 PM

what would you suggest for just for regular sex? some of the condoms dont have enough lube... and if we switch position in the middle, the lube dries off... so what's the best?

wolf · 08-26-2005, 07:53 AM

Funny, no one has reviewed the lube on Amazon's site.

Martel · 08-26-2005, 08:06 AM

Our favorite lube for regular sex is O'My. It's also our favorite for masturbating (hers and mine). It's just so soft and smooth and doesn't dry out or get sticky and you don't have to use a ton. We've tried allll kinds of lube and we agree that it is by far the best.

On the topic of funny lube bottle stories, the first time Sage and I ever had anyone over to our apartment we had to make kind of a mad dash to clean up all of our sex stuff... We got all of the big things but missed the tiny sample bottle of Doc Johnson's Anal Lube that came with a buttplug we had just bought. It was just right out on the counter, and of course it only took our friend a few minutes to see it. We were pretty well mortified until he confessed that he and his girlfriend were into that sort of thing as well.

justjt · 08-26-2005, 08:09 PM

KY is way to tacky for me when it dries....

Hustler "Liquid Sex" is good...

Lubes that you can re-activate with your own saliva are my favorite...

silvertiger · 08-26-2005, 08:18 PM

Wife and I used KY for a bit.. but its sticky and annoying.. we now use EROS , and it works well .. very well.

legolas · 08-27-2005, 12:00 PM

astroglide.

kel · 08-27-2005, 01:39 PM

Eros Gel. Accept no substitutes. Stays put and lasts forever.

Acetylene · 08-27-2005, 02:34 PM

Eros gel is worth every penny

Thorny · 08-29-2005, 02:58 PM

Astroglide gets sticky too fast--turns ya into a glue stick. Liquid silk is a personal favorite. Tried a little sampler once, and it far exceeded anything else in the pack, (which was most major brands including Eros).

For anal, I'd want something a little thicker. To be honest, I'd look for something marketed to gay guys. Elbow Grease is great stuff, but it's oil based, so it eats latex.

rmarshall · 08-30-2005, 11:27 AM

This thread reminded me of this photo. I had to post it.

MSD · 08-30-2005, 07:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SiN

but I've heard good things about silicon based lubes. (afaik condom-safe, but not silicon-toy safe, am i wrong? )

Correct. You end up with stained, melted, deformed stuff if you use silicone lube on silicone toys.

Phant84 · 08-30-2005, 08:02 PM

wd-40 and 30 or 40 weight oil

thePopularOne · 08-31-2005, 10:56 AM

Take it from a gay guy... KY Jelly is probably the worst you can use... Cuz it'll get too warm and dry up and defeat the purpose for anal.

Try something like "Wet and Wild." That's the brand that a lot of gay guys in NY use. (Trust me. I know from experience)

Sweetpea · 08-31-2005, 11:07 AM

well, Astroglide is good.

Contrary to what some have said on here, we mostly use Kyjelly, i like the feel of the kyjelly better than other products. And with anal, making sure the girl is comfortable is very important

I suggest you try a couple different products and see which ones you both like and prefer. With lube, everyone is different.

Sweetpea

doncalypso · 09-15-2005, 06:11 AM

Astroglide... you can't go wrong with astroglide.

Nancy · 09-16-2005, 01:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SiN

I suspect that the glycerin in Astrogl. and other common lubes is cause for more of a 'burning' sensation.

Not sure tho, haven't tested my theory.
That requires some assistance.

hahaa, assistance.

er, nevermind

I get that burning sensation too. Whether it's due to the glycering I don't know but it sure is annoying! Thus we just use either spit or ordinary water-based lube

fightnight · 09-16-2005, 05:53 AM

We go astroglide all the way... don't really have problems with it getting sticky and if it does, a little spit lubes things back up again.

air45 · 09-16-2005, 06:39 AM

now i tell you my secret weapon for anal sexing -- it is johnson & johnson baby oil! this is slippery and the penis moves right inside the anal hole so easy! you will be surprise and amaze!

wow!

basmoq · 09-17-2005, 03:05 PM

My wife and I considered anal play, but a little research in her medical books cut that idea short. The thought of wearing depends @50 just didn't appeal, not to mention the increased risk of hemoroids...

Food for thought, didn't mean to burst anyone's bubbles.

5757 · 09-17-2005, 03:32 PM

Whats wrong with the traditional 'vaseline'??? It works well for me.

Click on the link below to see what NOT to do with it though. I mean know it works well, but geez don't get this carried away!

http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/0518041motel1.html

foxycop4u · 09-28-2005, 11:07 AM

well, after reading this thread, i HAD to respond. Being that I am into anal, the best way I have found to numb thepain for entry is... believeit or not... oragel. try it. it has a 20% base of benzocaine... and is a good numbing agent... and let me tell you, once you get in there, its all on cause you are some what numbed and cant feel thepressurre on entry!

Uncle Pony · 09-28-2005, 07:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by foxycop4u

well, after reading this thread, i HAD to respond. Being that I am into anal, the best way I have found to numb thepain for entry is... believeit or not... oragel. try it. it has a 20% base of benzocaine... and is a good numbing agent... and let me tell you, once you get in there, its all on cause you are some what numbed and cant feel thepressurre on entry!

Yeah, but make sure your partner wears a condom. I used this stuff from Adam & Eve once called Anal Ease on the wife. I didn't use a condom and lost feeling. I rode her like a drunken sailor in a Phillipino whore house before I got tired and quit.

We now use a lube called WET for all of our sexual (mis)adventures. That stuff works well.

Ganggreen · 10-02-2005, 08:58 PM

How about something all nat-tur-el. Lots of saliva from a very eager tongue.

5757 · 10-03-2005, 11:33 AM

Hmm. I wonder if you've ^^ had anal before....

???? I think not.

When you do try, I hope you don't spit on the girls ass and hope that that will help the easing in.

mirevolver · 10-03-2005, 12:09 PM

A friend of mine once used Cocunut Suave Shampoo for anal lube. He does not recommend using it if anything else is availble.

I myself have no experience on this matter.

08-22-2005, 08:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
Munku Lost Location: Florida	Anal lube? What does everyone reccommend for anal lube? Toys and such. I have KY Warming gelly and it has a sort of burning sensation when I use it, that I'm guessing is from the warming portion of it, making it too uncomfortable to use. What does everyone reccommend for anal play?

08-22-2005, 08:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
cmc Crazy Location: usa	Probably more important than the lube is the attitude of the luber and the lubee ... For effective ( meaning getting the results of pleasure that you want, in such a way that you can get similar enjoyable results over, and over again ) anal erotic play, trust, patience, more trust, MORE patience AND combined with lots and lots of 'KY Ultra Gel' ( avail @ Walmarts ect ) works very well in my experience. Enjoy, and Remember ... slow - easy does it. Last edited by cmc; 08-22-2005 at 08:47 PM..

08-22-2005, 08:55 PM	#3 (permalink)
Devoid Psycho Location: Floating amongst the ether	The KY liquid works great for us. Much better than a gel, or any of that goopy stuff. __________________ We're here to steal your pornography, and sodomize our vast imaginations. - Inignot

08-22-2005, 09:06 PM	#5 (permalink)
Martel Insane Location: Sage's bed	Sage and I have recently discovered that the Astroglide gel formulation is reeeally nice for anal. __________________ Anamnesis

08-22-2005, 10:25 PM	#6 (permalink)
anti fishstick Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash Location: oregon	I have some weird thing we got at a sex shop called Penthouse Heavy Duty Anal Lube.. http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg...27321?v=glance we've had no problems with it :-D but if you live with parents, this bottle has NO shame, so be careful. __________________ And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anais Nin

08-22-2005, 08:59 PM	#4 (permalink)
shazbotus Tilted Location: Orlando, FL	You're telling me KY Jelly isn't just for co-ed wrestling matches?!?!?!

08-23-2005, 01:05 PM	#7 (permalink)
surfi3 Upright Location: Perth, Australia	haha that doesn't hide much at all does it. My girlfriend has the lube we use (Don't know the name of it) in her bag so her Mum won't see it. Comes in handy when feeling frisky when out and about aswell __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember. We are eternal. All this pain is an illusion. Tool - Parabola

08-23-2005, 10:57 PM	#8 (permalink)
chicometal Upright	http://www.cheaplubes.com/index.asp?...S&Category=417

08-24-2005, 12:13 AM	#9 (permalink)
lindseylatch Addict Location: Seattle, WA	i use ID for regular sex...I like it WAAAAAAY better than KY or AstroGlide. Although it seems to be not as good once you get down to the last bit...like maybe it dries out and gets sticky or something. Are you using a condom? If not, you could use an oil based lube, which might be better than a water based (Like KY and Astro and ID). __________________ "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities" "If God did not exist, it would be necessary to invent him." "It is dangerous to be right when the government is wrong." -Voltaire

08-24-2005, 03:41 AM	#10 (permalink)
Xazy People in masks cannot be trusted Location: NYC	Got to go with Astro Glide as well.

08-24-2005, 05:07 AM	#11 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	I don't like Asstroglide. Used to, and I'd use it in a pinch for sure ... but I've heard good things about silicon based lubes. (afaik condom-safe, but not silicon-toy safe, am i wrong? ) I suspect that the glycerin in Astrogl. and other common lubes is cause for more of a 'burning' sensation. Not sure tho, haven't tested my theory. That requires some assistance. hahaa, assistance. er, nevermind __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach

08-24-2005, 07:53 AM	#12 (permalink)
zanda Upright Location: Aussie	LOL all you have to do is assk SiN

08-24-2005, 08:12 AM	#13 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	I've been using Slippery Stuff and find it's long lasting... http://www.comeasyouare.com/index.cf...age=LubesAndSS __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

08-24-2005, 09:53 AM	#15 (permalink)
Munku Lost Location: Florida	Hah thanks for the replies and a bit of comedy guys :-D

08-24-2005, 12:07 PM	#16 (permalink)
MexicanOnABike Location: up north	what would you suggest for just for regular sex? some of the condoms dont have enough lube... and if we switch position in the middle, the lube dries off... so what's the best? __________________ - Movie Reviews - Ratings-

08-26-2005, 07:53 AM	#17 (permalink)
wolf Ravenous Location: Right Behind You	Funny, no one has reviewed the lube on Amazon's site. __________________ Thousands of years ago, cats were worshipped as Gods. Cats have never forgotten this.

08-27-2005, 12:00 PM	#21 (permalink)
legolas shit faced cockmaster Location: CT	astroglide. __________________ "To alcohol! The cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems."

08-30-2005, 08:02 PM	#27 (permalink)
Phant84 Insane Location: aqui	wd-40 and 30 or 40 weight oil __________________ Phant Irrationality is the square root of all evil

08-26-2005, 08:06 AM	#18 (permalink)
Martel Insane Location: Sage's bed	Our favorite lube for regular sex is O'My. It's also our favorite for masturbating (hers and mine). It's just so soft and smooth and doesn't dry out or get sticky and you don't have to use a ton. We've tried allll kinds of lube and we agree that it is by far the best. On the topic of funny lube bottle stories, the first time Sage and I ever had anyone over to our apartment we had to make kind of a mad dash to clean up all of our sex stuff... We got all of the big things but missed the tiny sample bottle of Doc Johnson's Anal Lube that came with a buttplug we had just bought. It was just right out on the counter, and of course it only took our friend a few minutes to see it. We were pretty well mortified until he confessed that he and his girlfriend were into that sort of thing as well. __________________ Anamnesis

08-26-2005, 08:09 PM	#19 (permalink)
justjt Tilted Location: O.C. California	lube rules! KY is way to tacky for me when it dries.... Hustler "Liquid Sex" is good... Lubes that you can re-activate with your own saliva are my favorite...

08-26-2005, 08:18 PM	#20 (permalink)
silvertiger Tilted Location: Denver	Wife and I used KY for a bit.. but its sticky and annoying.. we now use EROS , and it works well .. very well.

08-27-2005, 01:39 PM	#22 (permalink)
kel WARNING: FLAMMABLE Location: Ask Acetylene	Eros Gel. Accept no substitutes. Stays put and lasts forever. __________________ "It better be funny"

08-27-2005, 02:34 PM	#23 (permalink)
Acetylene Addict Location: under a rock	Eros gel is worth every penny __________________ There's no justice. There's just us.

08-29-2005, 02:58 PM	#24 (permalink)
Thorny Upright Location: Ohio	Astroglide gets sticky too fast--turns ya into a glue stick. Liquid silk is a personal favorite. Tried a little sampler once, and it far exceeded anything else in the pack, (which was most major brands including Eros). For anal, I'd want something a little thicker. To be honest, I'd look for something marketed to gay guys. Elbow Grease is great stuff, but it's oil based, so it eats latex.

08-30-2005, 11:27 AM	#25 (permalink)
rmarshall Addict Location: Kingston,Ontario	This thread reminded me of this photo. I had to post it.

08-31-2005, 10:56 AM	#28 (permalink)
thePopularOne Upright Location: New York, NY	Take it from a gay guy... KY Jelly is probably the worst you can use... Cuz it'll get too warm and dry up and defeat the purpose for anal. Try something like "Wet and Wild." That's the brand that a lot of gay guys in NY use. (Trust me. I know from experience) __________________ New York is my pulse... without it, I die.

08-31-2005, 11:07 AM	#29 (permalink)
Sweetpea Fade out Location: in love	well, Astroglide is good. Contrary to what some have said on here, we mostly use Kyjelly, i like the feel of the kyjelly better than other products. And with anal, making sure the girl is comfortable is very important I suggest you try a couple different products and see which ones you both like and prefer. With lube, everyone is different. Sweetpea __________________ Having a Pet Will Change Your Life! Looking for a great pet?! Click Here! "I am the Type of Person Who Can Get Away With A lot, Simply Because I Don't Ask Permission for the Privilege of Being Myself"

09-15-2005, 06:11 AM	#30 (permalink)
doncalypso TFP Mad Scientist Location: Philadelphia, PA	Astroglide... you can't go wrong with astroglide. __________________ Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation

09-16-2005, 05:53 AM	#32 (permalink)
fightnight Insane Location: The lovely Northeast	We go astroglide all the way... don't really have problems with it getting sticky and if it does, a little spit lubes things back up again.

09-16-2005, 06:39 AM	#33 (permalink)
air45 Loser Location: Midwest	now i tell you my secret weapon for anal sexing -- it is johnson & johnson baby oil! this is slippery and the penis moves right inside the anal hole so easy! you will be surprise and amaze! wow!

09-17-2005, 03:05 PM	#34 (permalink)
basmoq It's a girly girl! Location: OH, USA	My wife and I considered anal play, but a little research in her medical books cut that idea short. The thought of wearing depends @50 just didn't appeal, not to mention the increased risk of hemoroids... Food for thought, didn't mean to burst anyone's bubbles. __________________ "There's someone out there for everyone - even if you need a pickaxe, a compass, and night goggles to find them."

09-17-2005, 03:32 PM	#35 (permalink)
5757 Insane Location: Vegas!!	... Whats wrong with the traditional 'vaseline'??? It works well for me. Click on the link below to see what NOT to do with it though. I mean know it works well, but geez don't get this carried away! http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/0518041motel1.html __________________ Hey! Wait! I've got a new complaint, Forever in debt to ((your)) priceless advice. - Nirvana

09-28-2005, 11:07 AM	#36 (permalink)
foxycop4u Upright Location: South East United States	well, after reading this thread, i HAD to respond. Being that I am into anal, the best way I have found to numb thepain for entry is... believeit or not... oragel. try it. it has a 20% base of benzocaine... and is a good numbing agent... and let me tell you, once you get in there, its all on cause you are some what numbed and cant feel thepressurre on entry! __________________ Be Safe, PLay Safe, And Live Safe!

10-02-2005, 08:58 PM	#38 (permalink)
Ganggreen Tilted	How about something all nat-tur-el. Lots of saliva from a very eager tongue.

10-03-2005, 11:33 AM	#39 (permalink)
5757 Insane Location: Vegas!!	... Hmm. I wonder if you've ^^ had anal before.... ???? I think not. When you do try, I hope you don't spit on the girls ass and hope that that will help the easing in. __________________ Hey! Wait! I've got a new complaint, Forever in debt to ((your)) priceless advice. - Nirvana

10-03-2005, 12:09 PM	#40 (permalink)
mirevolver Inspired by the mind's eye. Location: Between the darkness and the light.	A friend of mine once used Cocunut Suave Shampoo for anal lube. He does not recommend using it if anything else is availble. I myself have no experience on this matter. __________________ Aside from my great plans to become the future dictator of the moon, I have little interest in political discussions.