08-12-2005, 10:39 PM | #2 (permalink) |
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Location: Oregon
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Before my current partner I would have agreed with the above statement. But we've discussed it and anal sex is definitely a possibility in the future.
I would never let him cum somewhere besides my mouth or coochie. I don't like getting cum on me, and prefer not to have it in me (not paranoid about pregnancy--I just don't like the ensuing mess...I'm wet enough already). Any man who ever tries to give me a facial without my previous permission is going to end leaving wearing his scrotum like a hat with his testicles for a pompom. Besides, doing so, in my mind, is a perfectly good waste of excellent cum.
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08-13-2005, 12:09 AM | #3 (permalink) |
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Nothing I wouldn't try if it was discussed.
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08-13-2005, 01:12 AM | #7 (permalink) |
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Location: Southern England
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Another man in our bed.....
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08-13-2005, 06:39 AM | #9 (permalink) |
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Wow, there isn't a lot we haven't tried, or wouldn't try... I mean, having someone else in our bed is something we fantasize about, but at this point I doubt we'd actually do it.
Both of us have tried anal, and I must say even though it doesn't feel good on me, I love giving it to him. I have come to love being rimmed. In my opinion, fear of the anal area is something that inhibits people from at least trying something cool... personally, our whole sexual repoirtoire has doubled since trying anal stuff. Oh, I guess we probably wouldn't get into hard-core BDSM stuff, though we like light bondage and blindfolds (or at least, I'm looking forward to getting into it). We wouldn't do anything that causes either of us to be in pain or uncomfortable, I guess.
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08-13-2005, 06:54 AM | #11 (permalink) |
Location: Iceland
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HA! Mal has an excellent point. I'd forgotten the non-sexual things (seeing as this is the Sexuality forum, not Living.)
But I'll just quickly add that I will not clean up his mess. This is something we're gonna have to deal with when we live together again, but I just won't do it (and he wouldn't let me, I think). We have taken turns surprising each other by cleaning up various little areas (e.g. bathtub, laundry, etc), but those things are reciprocal. Actual living space is something else. That's just something you have to learn how to do on an individual basis before living with someone (and I am working on my own living space, too, by the way).
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08-13-2005, 07:47 AM | #14 (permalink) |
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Location: Toronto
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tickle torture - That's just mean!
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08-13-2005, 07:49 AM | #15 (permalink) | |
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08-13-2005, 07:50 AM | #16 (permalink) | |
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08-13-2005, 09:13 AM | #18 (permalink) |
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There isn't much I won't try.
I don't like the cum in the mouth or near the face, though anywhere else is okay. One thing I will never, ever be tempted to try is the bodily fluids/functions thing. Keep that in the toilet. Oh yeah, and I would never wipe my partner's ass, so he better hope that as he gets older he does not need sponge baths or diapers. Then again, I won't even change my niece's diapers.
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08-13-2005, 01:18 PM | #21 (permalink) |
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As an overall rule... I can't think of anything I'm particularly opposed to my partner doing. Though, I'm not about to try anal sex anytime soon.
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08-13-2005, 01:58 PM | #22 (permalink) |
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Location: ...more here than there...
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hm ... dependant on the partner of course ..
but I suppose with the right person, not much I wouldn't do/try. No scat, probably no pee, no weird diaper/infant fetish things, no extreme pain .. all i can think of atm. all the 'usual' things - buttsex, light-medium bdsm, 3ormore-somes ... either have done and like or would be more than happy to try
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08-14-2005, 01:57 AM | #26 (permalink) |
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Location: Massachusetts (Redneck, white boy town. I hate it here.)
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Ok, being a guy, I got to say, anything near my ass makes me feel very uncomfortable. There is no reason for a women to go near my asshole! No tougue, no fingers. Gross!
I have a huge fetish with a womans foot. I love them. I worship a womans foot. My feet don't touch! Don't even look at them! Stay away. Its just as bad as my asshole! I don't feel comfortable with my feet. I will do anything for a woman sexually. Anything, except peeing or shitting on them. I think thats it. Oh yeah don't piss and shit on me. I forgot that one. Ok maybe just a little pee.....he he. Kidding.
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08-14-2005, 08:12 AM | #27 (permalink) |
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There's not much I'm not willing to try, as long as the lines of communication are open.
Well, no extreme pain / unhealthy stuff / illegal & immoral stuff (ex: animals/children). Of course, after trying something, I/we may not like it, but I would do my best to try it once at least before I make such a call. |
08-14-2005, 10:59 AM | #29 (permalink) |
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Location: Canada
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I wouldn't stick my dick in a girls ass
She wouldn't stick anything in my ass Other than that, I'm open to pretty much anything..Well, Except for some of that really bizzare stuff like scat and shit like that.
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08-14-2005, 12:24 PM | #30 (permalink) | |
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i get that ALL the time, and im too much of a weakling to have any effective defense. and i don't think i'd be up for anything ridiculously unsanitary or immoral.
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08-14-2005, 12:47 PM | #31 (permalink) |
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For me, I think anything involving pain, torture, rape scenarios, or fear play wouldn't work for me. We've tried anal and while I like getting it, she isn't able to incorporate anything thicker than a mini vibrator...and she loves that. She enjoys getting rimmed though fully tossing the salad I think is out for now or at least until I loosen my inhibitions about that. She stays pretty clean back there (I think women tend to be better about that than men, but that might just be an ignorant stereotype) so things could change.
As for non-sexual I don't clean bathrooms...but then she hates vacuuming. We both don't mind doing what the other hates doing, so it works out just fine. |
08-14-2005, 03:45 PM | #32 (permalink) |
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lolol @anti ass category...me too ill stroke my partners (when i have one)'s ass but that is it!!i wudnt do anthng i felt mucky or unsafe with
non sexual..i wuoldnt support a man financially or sacrifice any part of myself (again)
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08-14-2005, 07:09 PM | #33 (permalink) |
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I wouldn't do anything with a greater-than-usual chance of hurting us or making us sick. That means, anal sex is ok, but scat is not--too many germs. Bondage is ok, actual beating and sadomasochism is not. Etc.
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08-14-2005, 07:58 PM | #34 (permalink) | |
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I would have to say, permenantly move to another country where I don't speak the language. And enemas.
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08-15-2005, 06:01 AM | #35 (permalink) | |
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My wife is just slightly more conservative sexually than me. I do anything she asks. I'd like her to go for anal play, but she's not interested in receiving. She'll finger me, however. She also says "absolutely no" to sharing, but I'm fine with that; I don't think it would work well for me, no matter how fun the fantasy is.
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08-15-2005, 08:25 AM | #37 (permalink) | |
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08-16-2005, 12:44 AM | #39 (permalink) | |
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