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RCR · 08-08-2005, 12:13 AM

Just wondering if anyone has done this before,

how do you approach your GF to ask if she would like to shave her pussy?

SiN · 08-08-2005, 12:52 AM

Shave yourself first.

If you're already shaved ... why not simply ask her if she's ever thought of shaving before ... ?

777 · 08-08-2005, 01:09 AM

hmmm... you could say that you'd be more comfortable going down on her... more often... longer... better...

Just be sure to deliver on that

abaya · 08-08-2005, 01:38 AM

Yep, definitely shave yourself first so that she knows how nice it feels, and so that things are equal between you two. Also, put no pressure on her whatsoever. Love her pussy the way it is, but say that it might be fun to shave and see how it feels.

RCR · 08-08-2005, 01:43 AM

It is a beautiful pussy indeed,

I think a good angle is that it would be fun for both of us.

thanks for the advice. Much appreciated.

jwoody · 08-08-2005, 01:50 AM

Ask her if you can do it for her.

bad jane · 08-08-2005, 06:13 AM

i'm with jwoody. ask if you can do it, if she balks at the thought of anyone getting that close to a sensitive area with a razor, ask if she'd be willing to do it for you.

xxSquirtxx · 08-08-2005, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by jwoody

Ask her if you can do it for her.

I agree! It was a huge turn-on for my husband when he shaved me.

astrahl · 08-08-2005, 07:57 AM

make sure the blade is new - a dull blade = OUCH!

saut · 08-08-2005, 08:08 AM

She doesn't even need to shave. Just, the next time you're -- you know, down there -- start ripping it out with your teeth! She'll get the idea.

Seriously, don't do that.

Seaver · 08-08-2005, 08:28 AM

Just tell her how much of a turn on it'd be for you. And that you'd return the favor by going down on her for a very long time in return.

Redlemon · 08-08-2005, 08:31 AM

Are you looking for shaved entirely bare, or just cleaning off the "working areas"? That's an important distinction, and you should be clear about it.

bobillydylan · 08-08-2005, 09:44 AM

I would say just ask and see what she says, my ex shaved all the time it was a real turn on going down.... how smooth ahhhh..

astrahl · 08-08-2005, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by bobillydylan

I would say just ask and see what she says, my ex shaved all the time it was a real turn on going down.... how smooth ahhhh..

Yeah, for a day...ever had stubble down there? Yeesh!
I have a sparse area and it is still a pain. I think I would prefer hair removal cream or waxing.

Suave · 08-08-2005, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by astrahl

Yeah, for a day...ever had stubble down there? Yeesh!
I have a sparse area and it is still a pain. I think I would prefer hair removal cream or waxing.

Nair would probably destroy the functionality of your genitalia.

Minx · 08-08-2005, 01:20 PM

I was asked once by my honey if I had ever thought of shaving down there. I just simply asked if he would like that - the answer was yes so *voila* shaved pussy!

So the answer to your questions is "Just ask her"

If she wants to - she will. If not, she'll let you know that also.

Samalie · 08-08-2005, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Suave

Nair would probably destroy the functionality of your genitalia.

Actually, there's a product out there (I believe in the NAIR line, but I could be wrong) designed specifically for the "bikini" area.

Wifey uses it all the time, no adverse effects.

Sammy

BCD · 08-08-2005, 01:55 PM

I have found that the best time to ask these things (and to ensure that you get the answer you want

) is to ask while you are pleasing her and she is really worked up.

cellophanedeity · 08-08-2005, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by BCD

I have found that the best time to ask these things (and to ensure that you get the answer you want

) is to ask while you are pleasing her and she is really worked up.

hmm... I don't know.

If my love asked me about my pubes when I was all worked up, I don't think he'd get much of an answer at all.

Perhaps after the workage.

World's King · 08-08-2005, 04:47 PM

Ask her how she would feel if she had to suck your dick if it was hairy all the way to the tip.

Acetylene · 08-08-2005, 05:29 PM

Get her in the shower, then ask if you can shave it yourself. Buy a razor specially designed for this ahead of time so you don't risk giving her razor burn and use a clear shaving gel so you can see what you're doing. Do a good job on her, rinse her off, and MAKE HER CUM! You'll have a convert in no time.

chelsea_9 · 08-08-2005, 09:27 PM

i was politely asked if i'd be open to trying it out.
i was taken back, just because im naieve like that. but i don't mind trying new things... so i said sure.

so from experience, just be polite. maybe a bit inconspicuous... so not to completely freak/creep her out. and just give your reasons why you'd prefer it.

Suave · 08-08-2005, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Samalie

Actually, there's a product out there (I believe in the NAIR line, but I could be wrong) designed specifically for the "bikini" area.

Wifey uses it all the time, no adverse effects.

Sammy

Way to kill my buzz, I was having fun slamming Nair.

I believe ya though.

RCR · 08-09-2005, 05:05 AM

Yeah she is not too hairy actually, it is really nice. But i do have a preference for "shaven havens"

Thanks guys,

Ustwo · 08-09-2005, 05:22 AM

Asking her to shave her pussy is easy.

Asking her if she wants a FMF takes skill

billwood · 08-09-2005, 06:47 AM

Just hand her the razor and send her to the bath tub
Bald bever is the best......

bobillydylan · 08-09-2005, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by astrahl

Yeah, for a day...ever had stubble down there? Yeesh!
I have a sparse area and it is still a pain. I think I would prefer hair removal cream or waxing.

But she always kept it shaved so no there wasnt any stubble.
I would be careful with the waxing (brazillian wax) i think its called, read an artical about a girl who wanted to supprise her boyfriend, she went to have a wax and when the woman pulled the tape off it ripped part of the labia off!!

also after shaving always remember to wipe front to back when going for a pee, if not this can cause Follicitus! this can be a very serious infection!!!!

SiN · 08-09-2005, 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by bobillydylan

she went to have a wax and when the woman pulled the tape off it ripped part of the labia off!!

hahaa ...

er, sorry.

anyways, yeah.
as always, be smart, kids.

when you're putting sharp or very sticky things in delicate areas ...

oh, and one should wipe front to back regardless of if shaved or not.

tenchi069 · 08-09-2005, 10:34 AM

Shave yourself, ask how she likes it. ask her if she has ever thought about doing it herself, and then ask her if she would. My wife doesn't like to shave everything smooth as the stubble hurts if she doesn't shave every day, so she just keeps it as short as possible without the stubble. I do the same. Nothing worse than running with feeling like you have your nuts wrapped in sandpaper.

qweds · 08-09-2005, 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by tenchi069

Nothing worse than running with feeling like you have your nuts wrapped in sandpaper.

well i can't speak from experience, but i'll give it to you on principle. ouch.

spincycle0 · 08-10-2005, 11:08 PM

if you're gonna ask her to do anything, ask her to get a brazillian wax...so nice

qtpye4u84 · 08-11-2005, 12:14 AM

Look at a playboy with her.
a lot of shaven/waxed girl's to look at.
Point that out.
Tell her she would look sexy.
Tell her that it would be a big turn on for you!!!!
The landing strip is my fave, a line of hair down the middle.

bermuDa · 08-11-2005, 12:25 AM

I remember something from the vagina monologues when I went to see it; it went something like "you can't love a vagina without loving hair..." and hearing this made me feel a bit bad because I don't really care for a thick carpet. My recommendation is to learn to love the hair, and then ask. if she turns you down, you've lost nothing.

found the quote, bless the internet

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You cannot love a vagina unless you love hair. Many people do not love hair. My first and only husband hated hair. He said it was cluttered and dirty. He made me shave my vagina. It looked puffy and exposed and like a little girl. This excited him. When he made love to me, my vagina felt the way a beard must feel. It felt good to rub it, and painful. Like scratching a mosquito bite. It felt like it was on fire. There were screaming red bumps. I refused to shave it again. Then my husband had an affair. When we went to marital therapy, he said he screwed around because I wouldn't
please him sexually. I wouldn't shave my vagina. The therapist had a thick German accent and gasped between sentences to show her empathy. She asked me why I didn't want to please my husband. I told her I thought it was weird. I felt little when my hair was gone down there, and I couldn't help talking in a baby voice, and the skin got irritated and even calamine lotion wouldn't help it. She told me marriage was a compromise. I asked her if shaving my vagina would stop him from screwing around. I asked her if she'd had many cases like this before. She said that questions diluted the process. I needed to jump in. She was sure it was a good beginning.

This time, when we got home, he got to shave my vagina. It was like a therapy bonus prize. He clipped it a few times, and there was a little blood in the bathtub. He didn't even notice it, 'cause he was so happy shaving me. Then, later, when my husband was pressing against me, I could feel his spiky sharpness sticking into me, my naked puffy vagina. There was no protection. There was no fluff.

I realized then that hair is there for a reason-it's the leaf around the flower, the lawn around the house. You have to love hair in order to love the vagina. You can't pick the parts you want. And besides, my husband never stopped screwing around.

bobillydylan · 08-11-2005, 01:40 AM

RCR have you asked? and if so what did she say?

08-08-2005, 12:13 AM	#1 (permalink)
RCR Crazy	How to ask the girlfriend... Just wondering if anyone has done this before, how do you approach your GF to ask if she would like to shave her pussy?

08-08-2005, 12:52 AM	#2 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	Shave yourself first. If you're already shaved ... why not simply ask her if she's ever thought of shaving before ... ? __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach

08-08-2005, 01:09 AM	#3 (permalink)
777 drawn and redrawn Location: Some where in Southern California	hmmm... you could say that you'd be more comfortable going down on her... more often... longer... better... Just be sure to deliver on that __________________ "I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip." Roger Zelazny

08-08-2005, 01:38 AM	#4 (permalink)
abaya Location: Iceland	Yep, definitely shave yourself first so that she knows how nice it feels, and so that things are equal between you two. Also, put no pressure on her whatsoever. Love her pussy the way it is, but say that it might be fun to shave and see how it feels. __________________ And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran

08-08-2005, 07:57 AM	#9 (permalink)
astrahl Insane Location: You don't want to live here	make sure the blade is new - a dull blade = OUCH! __________________ Maybe it was over when she chucked me out the Rover at full speed. Maybe Maybe... ~a-Ha

08-08-2005, 01:43 AM	#5 (permalink)
RCR Crazy	It is a beautiful pussy indeed, I think a good angle is that it would be fun for both of us. thanks for the advice. Much appreciated.

08-08-2005, 01:50 AM	#6 (permalink)
jwoody Shackle Me Not Location: Newcastle - England.	Ask her if you can do it for her.

08-08-2005, 06:13 AM	#7 (permalink)
bad jane Insane	i'm with jwoody. ask if you can do it, if she balks at the thought of anyone getting that close to a sensitive area with a razor, ask if she'd be willing to do it for you.

08-08-2005, 08:08 AM	#10 (permalink)
saut Registered User Location: Pittsburgh	She doesn't even need to shave. Just, the next time you're -- you know, down there -- start ripping it out with your teeth! She'll get the idea. Seriously, don't do that.

08-08-2005, 08:28 AM	#11 (permalink)
Seaver Junkie Location: Fort Worth, TX	Just tell her how much of a turn on it'd be for you. And that you'd return the favor by going down on her for a very long time in return.

08-08-2005, 08:31 AM	#12 (permalink)
Redlemon Devoted Donor Location: New England	Are you looking for shaved entirely bare, or just cleaning off the "working areas"? That's an important distinction, and you should be clear about it. __________________ I can't read your signature. Sorry.

08-08-2005, 09:44 AM	#13 (permalink)
bobillydylan Tilted Location: uk	I would say just ask and see what she says, my ex shaved all the time it was a real turn on going down.... how smooth ahhhh.. __________________ Yes and only if my own true love was waiting, And i could hear her heart a softly pounding, Yes and only if she was lying by me! Then i would lie in my bed once again.

08-08-2005, 01:20 PM	#16 (permalink)
Minx Junkie Location: Up yonder	I was asked once by my honey if I had ever thought of shaving down there. I just simply asked if he would like that - the answer was yes so voila shaved pussy! So the answer to your questions is "Just ask her" If she wants to - she will. If not, she'll let you know that also. __________________ You've been a naughty boy....go to my room!

08-08-2005, 01:55 PM	#18 (permalink)
BCD Insane Location: Charlotte, NC	I have found that the best time to ask these things (and to ensure that you get the answer you want) is to ask while you are pleasing her and she is really worked up.

08-08-2005, 04:47 PM	#20 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	Ask her how she would feel if she had to suck your dick if it was hairy all the way to the tip. __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

08-09-2005, 05:22 AM	#25 (permalink)
Ustwo Pissing in the cornflakes	Asking her to shave her pussy is easy. Asking her if she wants a FMF takes skill __________________ Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps.

08-08-2005, 05:29 PM	#21 (permalink)
Acetylene Addict Location: under a rock	Get her in the shower, then ask if you can shave it yourself. Buy a razor specially designed for this ahead of time so you don't risk giving her razor burn and use a clear shaving gel so you can see what you're doing. Do a good job on her, rinse her off, and MAKE HER CUM! You'll have a convert in no time. __________________ There's no justice. There's just us.

08-08-2005, 09:27 PM	#22 (permalink)
chelsea_9 Crazy Location: somewhere i intend to leave	i was politely asked if i'd be open to trying it out. i was taken back, just because im naieve like that. but i don't mind trying new things... so i said sure. so from experience, just be polite. maybe a bit inconspicuous... so not to completely freak/creep her out. and just give your reasons why you'd prefer it. __________________ all good dreamers pass this way some day hiding behind bottles in dark cafes

08-09-2005, 05:05 AM	#24 (permalink)
RCR Crazy	Yeah she is not too hairy actually, it is really nice. But i do have a preference for "shaven havens" Thanks guys,

08-09-2005, 06:47 AM	#26 (permalink)
billwood Upright	Just hand her the razor and send her to the bath tub Bald bever is the best...... __________________ "Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out,shouting",,,HOLY CRAP...WHAT A RIDE!".

08-09-2005, 10:34 AM	#29 (permalink)
tenchi069 Lost Location: One step closer to the padded cell...	Shave yourself, ask how she likes it. ask her if she has ever thought about doing it herself, and then ask her if she would. My wife doesn't like to shave everything smooth as the stubble hurts if she doesn't shave every day, so she just keeps it as short as possible without the stubble. I do the same. Nothing worse than running with feeling like you have your nuts wrapped in sandpaper. __________________ ERROR- PLBSAK Problem Lies Between Seat and Keyboard.

08-10-2005, 11:08 PM	#31 (permalink)
spincycle0 Upright	if you're gonna ask her to do anything, ask her to get a brazillian wax...so nice

08-11-2005, 12:14 AM	#32 (permalink)
qtpye4u84 Flavor+noodles Location: oregon	Look at a playboy with her. a lot of shaven/waxed girl's to look at. Point that out. Tell her she would look sexy. Tell her that it would be a big turn on for you!!!! The landing strip is my fave, a line of hair down the middle. __________________ The QTpie

08-11-2005, 01:40 AM	#34 (permalink)
bobillydylan Tilted Location: uk	RCR have you asked? and if so what did she say? __________________ Yes and only if my own true love was waiting, And i could hear her heart a softly pounding, Yes and only if she was lying by me! Then i would lie in my bed once again.