What 'type' do you attract. - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

almostaugust · 06-11-2005, 04:29 PM

I was thinking about this recently. It occured to me that the type of girls i attract usually are of a similar kind. I dont mean to categorise here, but just make some sense of it all.
The type that usually go for me are 'nice' girls, never 'bad' girls. These girls are quietly interesting and are generally pretty wholesome in character.
I dont attract psychos often, and nor the type of girl who cheats on her boyfriend and has sex with the whole football team. This is what i have noticed.

Irishsean · 06-11-2005, 04:48 PM

As a rule, I tend to attract girls with emotional problems. I am the type of person that feels best when people around me are happy, and I work really hard to make that happen. I don't know why, but it seems like every girl I've gotten into a serious relationship with has told me later that she was abused or raped and I made them feel safe and comfortable. It kinda makes me feel good that anyone can be comfortable around me, but none of these relationships have worked out, and its usually because of their emotional difficulties.

anti fishstick · 06-11-2005, 05:52 PM

i tend to attract people that are emotionally abusive and manipulative. i'm out of that cycle now though.

Seeker · 06-11-2005, 06:02 PM

I've attracted guys that seem to want to 'take care of me', but to the extent that I could no longer be independant. Thankfully I seem to have overcome this now

Squishor · 06-11-2005, 06:17 PM

I seem to attract intelligent, unconventional guys who have tons of respect for me but don't do a lot of caretaking or gift-giving. I guess they like the idea of being with an independent woman but I'd like just a little bit of the mushy stuff every now and then...

Oh, and they like cats. If they didn't when we met, they are cat fans by the time I get through with them.

kramus · 06-11-2005, 06:18 PM

Imaginary women

Maybe when I get out more . . .

but when younger I only noticed the interest of those who were unattractive to me - and those times were few. There were 2 notable exceptions to this rule; the one I married, the other bedded me for my first time

in the past 20 odd years since the only 2 times I really noticed an interest were at dances - I went home with the wife and within a few months each of those ladies left their spouses. I'm not sure of what to make of that fact

I am pretty sure that I am oblivious to the obvious in some ways. I wonder if I just don't know how to read the "signals" unless the ladie basicly presses herself to my thigh

maleficent · 06-11-2005, 06:22 PM

Let's see-- inthe past 15 years --it's all been whiney types who haven't cut the apron strings to momma.

kramus · 06-11-2005, 06:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by maleficent

Let's see-- inthe past 15 years --it's all been whiney types who haven't cut the apron strings to momma.

ooooh

so I'd better be careful if I feel the urge to wink at women in airports

rhaevyn · 06-11-2005, 06:29 PM

I haven't attract many people thusfar, but the few I have attracted (and this could include friends, as well) tended to be people who never had time for me or who couldn't be bothered to try and spend time with me. I was the only one who made an effort to keep the "relationship"/friendship going.

StormBerlin · 06-11-2005, 06:33 PM

I tend to attract all types of men, except for meatheads. I don't try to attract those

Lately, I've been on a computer nerd kick. I think it's because of where I work.

kinsaj · 06-11-2005, 07:04 PM

i tend to attract those who are emotionally "clingy" or tend to have some similar problems

K-Wise · 06-11-2005, 07:30 PM

I honestly attract all types. Most common would probably young girls who are most of the time immature, on top of being too young for me. Been a few that haven't been. I also seem to attract girls who are taken as well. Why I do not know. Thats annoying. Thus I wander alone. Oh well.

Asta!!

Czernobog · 06-11-2005, 07:55 PM

I attract....um....er....*searching...*

Okay not very many people, but the few that I do are usually at least semi-emotionaly unstable. Of course, then after I help them with whatever it is, they suddenly have other things to do...or maybe I'm just bitter.

ngdawg · 06-11-2005, 07:56 PM

Protectors who want me like a child wants a kitten.

TexanAvenger · 06-11-2005, 08:14 PM

I used to attract women who felt they could 'control' me. I've since grown enough of a backbone that I, generally, tend to keep those away now. Actually, it's kind of strange... Now I don't know what kind of women I attract.

However, I pretty consistantly attract all manner of guys. That's pretty cool for meeting new people, for good and bad.

tecoyah · 06-11-2005, 08:14 PM

Witches....they all seem to be witches

TexanAvenger · 06-11-2005, 08:22 PM

Prefer the term 'Warlock,' pal.

Lead543 · 06-11-2005, 08:23 PM

I attract all types because I am irresistable.

All of my ex's except for one were/haved turned into drug dealers. I guess that's the type I attract.

Beware (streak_56)

streak_56 · 06-11-2005, 08:25 PM

I've attracted many different types of people... .so I'll go with what was attracted to me and at what stages....

At first it was just abused people, mentally, emotionally, physically, sexually. I don't know what it was about me that attracted them but it happened. Never really got with anyone like that. I needed someone who was strong.

Next it was people who made me feel better about myself. This was at a time that I felt like crap and I needed that boost of self esteem. As selfish as that sounds, it happened and this was probably the worst that has happened to me.

And last, it was girls who would abuse me. Take advantage of me, take all I had and then just lie. Basically it was just kicking me all around, everyday. It hurt not just physically but emotionally as well. But it made me a strong person, made me fight for myself.

Alas my end, I 'attracted' someone because of my blue eyes. It started from there and blossomed. It's a beautiful friendship, love and person that I love right now. And I couldn't be happier with where I have started and where I am going....

Bustello · 06-11-2005, 08:53 PM

I think I attract girls who spend a lot of time in the library and make all their homework on time. I believe that because that's how I am...

Sugar&Spice · 06-11-2005, 09:07 PM

I find that I attract much older men. And by older I mean at least 30 years older than myself. I don't know why this is. I want guys my age to find me attractive!! I'm sure they do, but the older men seem to convey what they think while the others remain silent.

I also used to attract guys who were manipulative, controlling, jealous and emotionally unstable. I felt that I could help them. I have given up on these types and found a computer nerd.

joemc91 · 06-11-2005, 09:22 PM

I don't really know what types I attact. As far as I know, and I'm pretty thick (as in I can't tell when a girl is interested, just ask my gf), only 6 girls have been interested in me. In fact, I didn't even know one of them was interested in me at all until she confessed after I got together with my current gf. All of them have been smart and independent. I just wish I had a clue as to when the ladies were interested.

K-Wise · 06-11-2005, 09:29 PM

^ Man can I relate to that. I would have had so many girlfriends right now if they'd just let me know how they feel. I've only ever had one

Asta!!

eMOTIONal20 · 06-11-2005, 11:07 PM

I have attracted many different types... but all seem to have had one wonderful personality trait in common-- immaturity.

I think it has to do with the fact that I wasn't necessarily on my way to "growing up" either, but when I finally was, ugh... I'm glad I left them to their trivial lives.

That sounds as though I had many at one time. I really didn't.

Fortunately, I am with someone now who even surpasses my maturity level.
I am a lucky woman, finally.

snowy · 06-11-2005, 11:37 PM

I attract all different kinds of folks. Depends on who's into a girl with a pin-up body and sexual confidence. I've gotten just about every kind of guy you can imagine asking me for a date.

Squishor · 06-12-2005, 12:37 AM

Well as far as being asked out on a date, being asked for my phone number, being asked for my name, a smile, or to show someone my tits, being asked to marry someone or being asked for a blow job, yeah - all kinds. Whether they want to stick around after making my acquaintance is another matter.

K-Wise · 06-12-2005, 12:44 AM

^ I'd stick around!

Asta!!

highthief · 06-12-2005, 01:43 AM

No idea why, but the MILFs seems to be stalking me!

Vincentt · 06-12-2005, 04:51 AM

Crazy women.
I am being truthful, unless the women is crazy, she doesn't see me.

It is something I am doing, or...
I am starting to think, all women are crazy.

Tophat665 · 06-12-2005, 05:12 AM

It's kind of odd, but I have noticed that I tend to get mildly neurotic women whose dads are a bit on the heavyset side. Every one of them that I have met has made me say to myself, "me in 30 years." Fortunately, the women have all been ever so slightly kinky, and signifiantly horny.

StanT · 06-12-2005, 05:39 AM

You're supposed to attract them?

I'm pretty oblivious to any attraction other than my own. My wife tells me me she had to practicly whack me over the head to get my attention.

Jesus Pimp · 06-12-2005, 06:12 AM

I attract insecure girls who seem leave after years of therapy and guidence from me. I have never had a short term relationship. On the other hand I'm attracted to girls who have their shit together but would rather be with some meathead asshole.

Axiom_e · 06-13-2005, 04:23 AM

Earlier in my life. I attract extremely religous girls. This caused problems later on with me being a spritualist and them wanting me to be more Christian. That was most of my previous girlfriends.

My last GF was the type of girl that I am attracted too, but that went sour after a year.

Now, I don't attract anything. I think I might have turned off my sexuality or something.

guthmund · 06-13-2005, 05:22 AM

I attract the girls who need me to 'save' them.

Usually it's 'save' me from this horrible, horrible boyfriend and the subsequent horrible, horrible relationship, but that's not always the case. A girl in high school wanted to move in with me to get away from her parents. A girl I used to work with blamed me for her lapsing faith when confronted by her dad. He actually came to my apartment and accused me of being 'sinful.' He also threatened to whoop my ass if I didn't keep away from his daughter. Another woman I had been seeing off and on wanted to 'take the relationship to a new level' (move in together) after she got kicked out of her apartment by her roommate. Kicked out for...wait for it....blowing all her money on stupid shit and leaving none for the bills.

Ahhh, L'Amour

Daoust · 06-13-2005, 05:35 AM

I attract girls with self confidence issues. Ones that feel they aren't worth much, so they lowball when it comes to date and mate selection. I'm only half joking.

st33lr4t · 06-13-2005, 06:43 AM

i attrack girls that think i have potential. girls seem to think im a lost little boy waiting for them to show me direction. little do they know im a pot smoking beach hippy who is set im his simple ways.

my current girl says i was doing ok before her but now im doing great....lol...ok.

Ustwo · 06-13-2005, 06:49 AM

I'm pretty lucky in this reguard.

I tend to attract independent yet willing to let the man lead types.

They also tend to be super horny and sexually adventureous.

win, win, win.

kangaeru · 06-13-2005, 04:47 PM

I attract any kind of girl I see that I decide I want to....

it's always in your hands, not in theirs.

iamabanana · 06-13-2005, 06:04 PM

All types. Geeky, shy, self-confident, insecure, etc.

Siege · 06-13-2005, 06:50 PM

Somehow, I manage to attract every girl that I am not interested in.

06-11-2005, 04:29 PM	#1 (permalink)
almostaugust Junkie Location: Oz	What 'type' do you attract. I was thinking about this recently. It occured to me that the type of girls i attract usually are of a similar kind. I dont mean to categorise here, but just make some sense of it all. The type that usually go for me are 'nice' girls, never 'bad' girls. These girls are quietly interesting and are generally pretty wholesome in character. I dont attract psychos often, and nor the type of girl who cheats on her boyfriend and has sex with the whole football team. This is what i have noticed. __________________ 'And it's been a long December and there's reason to believe Maybe this year will be better than the last I can't remember all the times I tried to tell my myself To hold on to these moments as they pass'

06-11-2005, 04:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
Irishsean edited for content Location: Austin, TX	As a rule, I tend to attract girls with emotional problems. I am the type of person that feels best when people around me are happy, and I work really hard to make that happen. I don't know why, but it seems like every girl I've gotten into a serious relationship with has told me later that she was abused or raped and I made them feel safe and comfortable. It kinda makes me feel good that anyone can be comfortable around me, but none of these relationships have worked out, and its usually because of their emotional difficulties. __________________ There are no absolute rules of conduct, either in peace or war. Everything depends on circumstances. Leon Trotsky

06-11-2005, 05:52 PM	#3 (permalink)
anti fishstick Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash Location: oregon	i tend to attract people that are emotionally abusive and manipulative. i'm out of that cycle now though. __________________ And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anais Nin

06-11-2005, 06:02 PM	#4 (permalink)
Seeker Getting Clearer Location: with spirit	I've attracted guys that seem to want to 'take care of me', but to the extent that I could no longer be independant. Thankfully I seem to have overcome this now __________________ *To those who wander but who are not lost...* ~ Knowledge is not something you acquire, it is something you open yourself to.

06-11-2005, 06:18 PM	#6 (permalink)
kramus loving the curves Location: my Lady's manor	Imaginary women Maybe when I get out more . . . but when younger I only noticed the interest of those who were unattractive to me - and those times were few. There were 2 notable exceptions to this rule; the one I married, the other bedded me for my first time in the past 20 odd years since the only 2 times I really noticed an interest were at dances - I went home with the wife and within a few months each of those ladies left their spouses. I'm not sure of what to make of that fact I am pretty sure that I am oblivious to the obvious in some ways. I wonder if I just don't know how to read the "signals" unless the ladie basicly presses herself to my thigh __________________ And now to disengage the clutch of the forebrain ... I'm going with this - if you like artwork visit http://markfineart.ca

06-11-2005, 06:17 PM	#5 (permalink)
Squishor Frontal Lobe Location: California	I seem to attract intelligent, unconventional guys who have tons of respect for me but don't do a lot of caretaking or gift-giving. I guess they like the idea of being with an independent woman but I'd like just a little bit of the mushy stuff every now and then... Oh, and they like cats. If they didn't when we met, they are cat fans by the time I get through with them.

06-11-2005, 06:22 PM	#7 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	Let's see-- inthe past 15 years --it's all been whiney types who haven't cut the apron strings to momma. __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

06-11-2005, 06:29 PM	#9 (permalink)
rhaevyn Insane Location: Pittsburgh, PA	I haven't attract many people thusfar, but the few I have attracted (and this could include friends, as well) tended to be people who never had time for me or who couldn't be bothered to try and spend time with me. I was the only one who made an effort to keep the "relationship"/friendship going. __________________ ~Alex~ You've come far, and though you're far from the end, you don't mind where you are, 'cause you know where you've been.

06-11-2005, 06:33 PM	#10 (permalink)
StormBerlin Happy as a hippo Location: Southern California	I tend to attract all types of men, except for meatheads. I don't try to attract those Lately, I've been on a computer nerd kick. I think it's because of where I work. __________________ "if anal sex could get a girl pregnant i'd be tits deep in child support" Arcane

06-11-2005, 07:04 PM	#11 (permalink)
kinsaj Psycho Location: somewhere out there	i tend to attract those who are emotionally "clingy" or tend to have some similar problems __________________ boom

06-11-2005, 07:30 PM	#12 (permalink)
K-Wise It's All About The Ass!! Location: In a pool of mayonnaise!!	I honestly attract all types. Most common would probably young girls who are most of the time immature, on top of being too young for me. Been a few that haven't been. I also seem to attract girls who are taken as well. Why I do not know. Thats annoying. Thus I wander alone. Oh well. Asta!! __________________ "I love music and it's my parents fault (closing statement)." - Me..quoting myself...from when I said that...On TFP..thats here...Tilted Forum Project *It ain't goodbye, it's see ya later! I'll miss you guys!* - Asta!!

06-11-2005, 07:55 PM	#13 (permalink)
Czernobog Insane Location: NJ	I attract....um....er....searching... Okay not very many people, but the few that I do are usually at least semi-emotionaly unstable. Of course, then after I help them with whatever it is, they suddenly have other things to do...or maybe I'm just bitter. __________________ Embrace the flame

06-11-2005, 07:56 PM	#14 (permalink)
ngdawg peekaboo Location: on the back, bitch	Protectors who want me like a child wants a kitten. __________________ Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.

06-11-2005, 08:14 PM	#15 (permalink)
TexanAvenger Born-Again New Guy Location: Unfound.	I used to attract women who felt they could 'control' me. I've since grown enough of a backbone that I, generally, tend to keep those away now. Actually, it's kind of strange... Now I don't know what kind of women I attract. However, I pretty consistantly attract all manner of guys. That's pretty cool for meeting new people, for good and bad.

06-11-2005, 08:14 PM	#16 (permalink)
tecoyah Illusionary	Witches....they all seem to be witches __________________ Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha

06-11-2005, 08:22 PM	#17 (permalink)
TexanAvenger Born-Again New Guy Location: Unfound.	Prefer the term 'Warlock,' pal.

06-11-2005, 08:23 PM	#18 (permalink)
Lead543 Registered User Location: Calgary	I attract all types because I am irresistable. All of my ex's except for one were/haved turned into drug dealers. I guess that's the type I attract. Beware (streak_56)

06-11-2005, 08:25 PM	#19 (permalink)
streak_56 who ever said streaking was a bad thing? Location: Calgary	I've attracted many different types of people... .so I'll go with what was attracted to me and at what stages.... At first it was just abused people, mentally, emotionally, physically, sexually. I don't know what it was about me that attracted them but it happened. Never really got with anyone like that. I needed someone who was strong. Next it was people who made me feel better about myself. This was at a time that I felt like crap and I needed that boost of self esteem. As selfish as that sounds, it happened and this was probably the worst that has happened to me. And last, it was girls who would abuse me. Take advantage of me, take all I had and then just lie. Basically it was just kicking me all around, everyday. It hurt not just physically but emotionally as well. But it made me a strong person, made me fight for myself. Alas my end, I 'attracted' someone because of my blue eyes. It started from there and blossomed. It's a beautiful friendship, love and person that I love right now. And I couldn't be happier with where I have started and where I am going....

06-11-2005, 08:53 PM	#20 (permalink)
Bustello Upright	I think I attract girls who spend a lot of time in the library and make all their homework on time. I believe that because that's how I am...

06-11-2005, 09:07 PM	#21 (permalink)
Sugar&Spice Psycho	I find that I attract much older men. And by older I mean at least 30 years older than myself. I don't know why this is. I want guys my age to find me attractive!! I'm sure they do, but the older men seem to convey what they think while the others remain silent. I also used to attract guys who were manipulative, controlling, jealous and emotionally unstable. I felt that I could help them. I have given up on these types and found a computer nerd. __________________ -Speak your mind even if your voice shakes

06-11-2005, 09:22 PM	#22 (permalink)
joemc91 Insane Location: Chicago	I don't really know what types I attact. As far as I know, and I'm pretty thick (as in I can't tell when a girl is interested, just ask my gf), only 6 girls have been interested in me. In fact, I didn't even know one of them was interested in me at all until she confessed after I got together with my current gf. All of them have been smart and independent. I just wish I had a clue as to when the ladies were interested.

06-11-2005, 09:29 PM	#23 (permalink)
K-Wise It's All About The Ass!! Location: In a pool of mayonnaise!!	^ Man can I relate to that. I would have had so many girlfriends right now if they'd just let me know how they feel. I've only ever had one Asta!! __________________ "I love music and it's my parents fault (closing statement)." - Me..quoting myself...from when I said that...On TFP..thats here...Tilted Forum Project *It ain't goodbye, it's see ya later! I'll miss you guys!* - Asta!!

06-11-2005, 11:07 PM	#24 (permalink)
eMOTIONal20 Crazy Location: Colorado Springs, Colorado	I have attracted many different types... but all seem to have had one wonderful personality trait in common-- immaturity. I think it has to do with the fact that I wasn't necessarily on my way to "growing up" either, but when I finally was, ugh... I'm glad I left them to their trivial lives. That sounds as though I had many at one time. I really didn't. Fortunately, I am with someone now who even surpasses my maturity level. I am a lucky woman, finally. __________________ "You must be the change you wish to see in the world." - Gandhi

06-11-2005, 11:37 PM	#25 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	I attract all different kinds of folks. Depends on who's into a girl with a pin-up body and sexual confidence. I've gotten just about every kind of guy you can imagine asking me for a date. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

06-12-2005, 12:37 AM	#26 (permalink)
Squishor Frontal Lobe Location: California	Well as far as being asked out on a date, being asked for my phone number, being asked for my name, a smile, or to show someone my tits, being asked to marry someone or being asked for a blow job, yeah - all kinds. Whether they want to stick around after making my acquaintance is another matter.

06-12-2005, 12:44 AM	#27 (permalink)
K-Wise It's All About The Ass!! Location: In a pool of mayonnaise!!	^ I'd stick around! Asta!! __________________ "I love music and it's my parents fault (closing statement)." - Me..quoting myself...from when I said that...On TFP..thats here...Tilted Forum Project *It ain't goodbye, it's see ya later! I'll miss you guys!* - Asta!!

06-12-2005, 01:43 AM	#28 (permalink)
highthief Junkie Location: Ontario, Canada	No idea why, but the MILFs seems to be stalking me! __________________ Si vis pacem parabellum.

06-12-2005, 04:51 AM	#29 (permalink)
Vincentt Addict Location: Tokyo, Japan	Crazy women. I am being truthful, unless the women is crazy, she doesn't see me. It is something I am doing, or... I am starting to think, all women are crazy. __________________ .

06-12-2005, 05:12 AM	#30 (permalink)
Tophat665 Minion of the scaléd ones Location: Northeast Jesusland	It's kind of odd, but I have noticed that I tend to get mildly neurotic women whose dads are a bit on the heavyset side. Every one of them that I have met has made me say to myself, "me in 30 years." Fortunately, the women have all been ever so slightly kinky, and signifiantly horny. __________________ Light a man a fire, and he will be warm while it burns. Set a man on fire, and he will be warm for the rest of his life.

06-12-2005, 05:39 AM	#31 (permalink)
StanT © Location: Colorado	You're supposed to attract them? I'm pretty oblivious to any attraction other than my own. My wife tells me me she had to practicly whack me over the head to get my attention.

06-12-2005, 06:12 AM	#32 (permalink)
Jesus Pimp The Original JizzSmacka	I attract insecure girls who seem leave after years of therapy and guidence from me. I have never had a short term relationship. On the other hand I'm attracted to girls who have their shit together but would rather be with some meathead asshole. __________________ Never date anyone who doesn't make your dick hard.

06-13-2005, 04:23 AM	#33 (permalink)
Axiom_e Tilted Location: United States, East Coast, New Jersey	Earlier in my life. I attract extremely religous girls. This caused problems later on with me being a spritualist and them wanting me to be more Christian. That was most of my previous girlfriends. My last GF was the type of girl that I am attracted too, but that went sour after a year. Now, I don't attract anything. I think I might have turned off my sexuality or something. __________________ Life is meaningless. How awesome is that? Rock On! Now I can do whatever the hell I want and give my own life meaning to myself.

06-13-2005, 05:22 AM	#34 (permalink)
guthmund big damn hero	I attract the girls who need me to 'save' them. Usually it's 'save' me from this horrible, horrible boyfriend and the subsequent horrible, horrible relationship, but that's not always the case. A girl in high school wanted to move in with me to get away from her parents. A girl I used to work with blamed me for her lapsing faith when confronted by her dad. He actually came to my apartment and accused me of being 'sinful.' He also threatened to whoop my ass if I didn't keep away from his daughter. Another woman I had been seeing off and on wanted to 'take the relationship to a new level' (move in together) after she got kicked out of her apartment by her roommate. Kicked out for...wait for it....blowing all her money on stupid shit and leaving none for the bills. Ahhh, L'Amour __________________ No signature. None. Seriously.

06-13-2005, 05:35 AM	#35 (permalink)
Daoust "I'm sorry. What was the question?" Location: Paradise Regained	I attract girls with self confidence issues. Ones that feel they aren't worth much, so they lowball when it comes to date and mate selection. I'm only half joking. __________________ I have faith in a few things - divinity and grace But even when I'm on my knees I know the devil preys

06-13-2005, 06:43 AM	#36 (permalink)
st33lr4t Psycho Location: Dallas, Tx	i attrack girls that think i have potential. girls seem to think im a lost little boy waiting for them to show me direction. little do they know im a pot smoking beach hippy who is set im his simple ways. my current girl says i was doing ok before her but now im doing great....lol...ok.