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iamabanana · 06-20-2005, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

Frequency

Yup, that's about it. My husband works 4 days on, 4 days off at 12 hour shifts each. During those 4 days he's usually worn out and I don't have the heart to bug him about it. I treat him, though. He's spoiled like that.

Hash_Browns · 06-21-2005, 08:39 AM

Lets see! RIght now we are having issues because I'm pregnant, which is only temporary so we are dealing with it as it goes along.
As for everyday issues outside of frequency and my pretty much being the decision maker (cuz he's always up for it and I'm not always capable) there are a few.
We are in a comfort zone weight wise. So he's a heavier guy now that we've been together for 7 years, and that's sometimes hard to accomidate, which makes it hard for me to 'enjoy' myself fully because my being on top is what really does it for me. I've been losing weight andhe's going to the gym again soon, so hopefully this will be a temp. problem

I am spoiled, I don't do a lot of the touchy feely stuff that he does for me, and sometimes I feel bad for that.
I have a hang up about giving oral because I have to be 'in the mood' to deal with the 'yucky' factor. There are very few times a year that I am ready and willing to handle the squisy factor, but when I do, I never get complaints...hehe. I just wish I could find out what makes it more dealable at those times because he's worth it and deserves more frequency I think.

He was a virgin when we got together, so he's been molded to my likings which is kinda cool, but I wasn't ALL that experienced to begin with, so I wish there was a way for us to learn more together. We've also thought about the whole swinging thing and have talked about it for what seems like years. We've had one experience and it was pretty awesome, no penetration, just playing around. But that caused some issues with the people we were hanging out with at the time (long story). Now it's being discussed again on the 'down low' but it kinda gets annoying just 'talking' about it all the time.

Anyways I'm rambling, so I will stop now, but those are the few things I deal with when it comes to sex and what limits my abilities to enjoy it.

Mantus · 06-21-2005, 08:06 PM

- ah never mind -

::runs::

Druidess · 06-22-2005, 05:55 AM

I would say the most common problem is that I cannot find someone I like enough to do it more than once with them.

BenChuy · 06-22-2005, 03:08 PM

problems with sex: I have been raised to respect women. The common ideals of women in popular culture are those which conflict with the way I have been made to think about women. If it is uncomfortable (ask any woman, sex leaves you walking funny), I feel guilty. If she does not have an orgasam, I feel selfish. I still do not feel comfortable with recieving oral sex.
Currently I am married to a women who has been raped and molested when she was younger, so her first sexual experience was being molested and her first experience of intercourse with a man was being raped. So, we now have two people who have misgivings about sex, even if it is with each other.

And you thought you had problems...

Just to clarify, we talk a lot about it and so we have been able to have some mind-blowing sex, better than I thought possible. But the nagging issues.

06-21-2005, 08:39 AM	#42 (permalink)
Hash_Browns Psycho Location: Right behind you...BOO!	Lets see! RIght now we are having issues because I'm pregnant, which is only temporary so we are dealing with it as it goes along. As for everyday issues outside of frequency and my pretty much being the decision maker (cuz he's always up for it and I'm not always capable) there are a few. We are in a comfort zone weight wise. So he's a heavier guy now that we've been together for 7 years, and that's sometimes hard to accomidate, which makes it hard for me to 'enjoy' myself fully because my being on top is what really does it for me. I've been losing weight andhe's going to the gym again soon, so hopefully this will be a temp. problem I am spoiled, I don't do a lot of the touchy feely stuff that he does for me, and sometimes I feel bad for that. I have a hang up about giving oral because I have to be 'in the mood' to deal with the 'yucky' factor. There are very few times a year that I am ready and willing to handle the squisy factor, but when I do, I never get complaints...hehe. I just wish I could find out what makes it more dealable at those times because he's worth it and deserves more frequency I think. He was a virgin when we got together, so he's been molded to my likings which is kinda cool, but I wasn't ALL that experienced to begin with, so I wish there was a way for us to learn more together. We've also thought about the whole swinging thing and have talked about it for what seems like years. We've had one experience and it was pretty awesome, no penetration, just playing around. But that caused some issues with the people we were hanging out with at the time (long story). Now it's being discussed again on the 'down low' but it kinda gets annoying just 'talking' about it all the time. Anyways I'm rambling, so I will stop now, but those are the few things I deal with when it comes to sex and what limits my abilities to enjoy it. __________________ Smile It makes people wonder what you're up too!

06-22-2005, 05:55 AM	#44 (permalink)
Druidess Upright Location: The Edges of Twilight	I would say the most common problem is that I cannot find someone I like enough to do it more than once with them. __________________ Around the pyre, cirlce of 13... Throughout these woods, ecstatic screams... I look deeply into your eyes... I smell your hair, caress your thighs...

06-21-2005, 08:06 PM	#43 (permalink)
Mantus lascivious	- ah never mind - ::runs::

06-22-2005, 03:08 PM	#45 (permalink)
BenChuy Insane Location: About 70 pixals above this...	problems with sex: I have been raised to respect women. The common ideals of women in popular culture are those which conflict with the way I have been made to think about women. If it is uncomfortable (ask any woman, sex leaves you walking funny), I feel guilty. If she does not have an orgasam, I feel selfish. I still do not feel comfortable with recieving oral sex. Currently I am married to a women who has been raped and molested when she was younger, so her first sexual experience was being molested and her first experience of intercourse with a man was being raped. So, we now have two people who have misgivings about sex, even if it is with each other. And you thought you had problems... Just to clarify, we talk a lot about it and so we have been able to have some mind-blowing sex, better than I thought possible. But the nagging issues.