1337haxor

Forgive me but this is llllooooonnnnnggggg
Just a quick story of what happened to me.

Over the weekend I went to a driving school track event.

So I get to the inn everyone was staying at. I was alittle early so I walked around trying to see if anyone else arrived. I see a BMW M3 and I thought to myself, "Nice car, looks like the one my buddy Chris has". Then I see this cute girl come out and I think to myself "cute girl". I then see her unlock the M3 and my jaw just drops! Cute girl + M3 == hotness ;-) So I went up to her to introduce myself and to say hi. Turns out shes doesn't live far from my location. After a quick chit chat she heads to her room and I head back to my room to take a quick nap.

Later, more people start to arrive. Three guys in their early 20's show up while I'm chatting with the instructors. Everyone introduces themselves. The girl goes to get something from her car and one of the instructor mentions the girl is also a student. The three guys start drooling and ogling at her like dogs to a peice of meat. I guess this is now a bunch of immature guys act. Of course I comment on their ogling. I wouldn't do that since I think its just disrepectful and impolite, specially since it is behind her back.

So when more people started arriving, it was time for inspection of vehicles and helmets. I volunteered so I had to inspect everyone's helmets and cars. I'm busy inspecting and after the girl's equipement checked out okay, the three guys started flirting and hitting on her. It was pretty funny seeing them agree and pretending to be interested in everything she was saying. The funniest part was when he asked if she wanted to head out to a bar later, and she says she doesn't drink, then the guy says he doesnt drink either...... (o_O)

After I was done, I went over to talk to some of the other guys. I over heard that the girl went to the school right next to mind so I asked her if that was really the case. We made some small talk all the while one of the three guys, I think he was the ring leader, tries to butt in inbetween everyone of my sentences.

Then out of nowhere, a Lamborghini Gallardo pulls up to our inn! Everyone starts drooling. The girl and I were the first to run over to it to check it out. We had a quick chat with the owner who was really cool and gave us some words to live by. I knew that there was a Lamborghini track day so all of them had to be in the area. I suggested we go out and look for the hotel they are staying at so we can check out some more hot cars. I said that I could check which hotels they were staying at if I had a cell phone with internet access to hook up to my laptop. The girl that excitedly said she brought her laptop and has internet access on her phone. My jaw drops again! The only type of person I know who would have a cell phone with internet access and laptop with them all the time is a computer nerd. She even admitted to being a computer nerd when I asked if she really had her laptop and internet cellphone.

So her and I run up to her room, ditching the other guys, to grab her laptop. We then get in my car and start looking for the hotels with the internet and punching the location into my GPS. The other guys were coming along in their car, but the ring leader guy sits in my car in the back. Probably to be with the girl. So we then drive around town for almost an hour and couldn't find the hotels the Lamborghinis were staying in. The guy in the back seat and his friends in their car gets tired of the search and wanted to head back. But the girl and I are still anxious about finding the Lamborghinis. We then basically kick the kid out to his friend's car so they could head back.

So it was just me and her driving around town looking for quarter million dollar cars. We talked the whole time and had a great time even though we couldn't find them. During our drive around town she got a phone call from some guy she knows back home. All I could tell about the first part of the call was that he asked her out and she said she wouldn't go out with him or be his girlfriend. I guess the guy on the phone then asks her what she was doing and she tells him she's with a guy she met at driving school, refering to me of course. A few more sentences later she turns to me and asks if I had a girlfriend which kind of caught me off guard. I told her no. She then talks on the phone a bit more then hangs up with the guy. I'm not exactly sure what they were yapping about except for what I typed above.

It started to get late and we just couldn't find them. We decided we would try again the next day and started to head back to the inn. We just talked some more on the way back and almost got pulled over by a cop for speeding. We get back to the inn and I drive her up to her part of the inn and that was it for the night.

The next morning I headed down to the track first without her since I am an early birth and she wasn't ready. I'm down at the track and did some more inspections on people's cars. She calls me to ask where I was and I told her I was at the track already and gave her directions to the place. She then arrives and we went to the classroom session together. After the classroom session, we had to do final checks on our cars individually before heading into the track. She had a full compliment of mechanics tools in her trunk, but forgot a torque wrench with the proper settings so I let her use mine. Throughout the day we shared tools and parked next to each other after each track session.

During our lunch break, we found out where the Lamborghini's were. The guy from last night also wanted to go so I offered to drive him there with us. We get there and boy where there a lot of expensive cars. The girl and I went our seperate ways there since she was checking out the Ferrari F430 and I went over to look at the Lamboghini's and Ferrari 360 Modena's. The guy tried to follow her everywhere she went before we had to head back to the track. At the end of the day, the guy had to head back home and said his goodbyes to everyone. The girl and I still had another track day the next day so we weren't leaving yet. I asked her what she was doing and she wanted to stay and watch the bike races that were going on in the track next to ours. I told her that I was tired and was going to head back to the inn to sleep. She said that she was going to call me tomorrow so I was "okay cool"

Next morning, I get there early again and park my car where we parked the day before. She calls and asked if I was there yet and if there was going to be a classroom session again, which there was. When she arrives, she parks on the farther side of the parking area even though it was blatantly obvious the spot she parked at next to me the day before was open. I didn't understand why since it was much further away from the classroom and the track. When class started, she sat down on the other side of the class from me. Maybe she didn't see me? When class was over she goes and sets up her tools at her inconvenient parking spot. At this point I'm like "okay.... what just happened?" Throughout that day, I was only able to have real quick exchanges with her before she had to go somewhere or do something. Almost like she was trying to avoid me.

Then when it came to our skidding exercise, she was in my group so this would be a real test to see if she was avoiding me since our group was pretty small. Throughout the skidding exercise, she didnt' say a word to me and just talked to other people. At this point I know she's avoiding me so I'm alittle ticked off but also thought to myself that I wouldn't try to get upset over it since I was there to have fun.

It was finally our last track session. Up until then she was always passing me since A. she had a faster car, B. she was driving a stick shift, and C. she had some prior experience. At that point in driving school, I knew what the limit of my car was and I was extremely confident in my abilities on that specific track so I gave it my best and was much more agressive in speeds through the turns. The girl started from the line 2 cars ahead of me, but at the end I was half a track in front of her. Boy that felt good :-D

At the end of the day when people started to pack up and leave, people where giving goodbyes and such. She was leaving and said goodbye to afew people, but completely ignored me. She said goodbye to someone who was standing 10 ft from me and didn't even say a thing to me. I was even in her line of site. After she left I gave her a call to say goodbye and she said her goodbye and said she would call me later to give me her email address. I somehow doubt she'll call, but who knows.

So I'm a little confused as to what happened. She seemed pretty cool and friendly for a day then changed completely the last day. Oh well, I guess if thats how she really is, I'd rather not associate myself with her.

Thanks for listening to my story.

-1337haxor

Coppertop

Sounds like one of the other guys got ahold of her ear sometime after you left her at the lamborghinis. That or perhaps her ex called her that night and she's taking him back.

Who knows the reasons women do the things they do? Not me.

Lead543

Ahhh...I used to do that, back in the day. So I'll give you my reasoning for it. I'd find a guy who was nice and sweet, talk to him, flirt, etc. but then someone who I thought was better would come along so I'd ditch. OR I'd feel the guy I was flirting with was being too clingy. Her reasoning may be entirely different. Although, I think the underlying cause of girls leading guys on in any way (friendship, love or sex-wise) is immaturity. Sorry to hear this happened though, no one deserves to be treated like that.

1337haxor

Insteading of making a new thread I'll just update this one.

Cliffnotes of orignal post: I meet a girl at driving school and we get along great and hung out for two days. On the third day she was avoiding me and completely blew me off.


It's been almost 2 months since my original post. I haven't heard a peep from this girl. Then out of nowhere she text messages me to see if there any upcoming BMW events that we can hang out at We messaged each other back and forward a few times just chatting about upcoming events and during each conversation she says how she really wants to go to one and see me.

I asked a female friend of mine and she told me that this girl is crazy and probably just messing with my head and I should return the favor. My friend wants me to invite her to an event, but mention I'm going with or just show up with a female friend pretending to be my girlfriend to make her feel jealous. Now, I don't like playing games with anyone. I think it's just wrong and I won't stupe down to that level. But it did cross my mind

Could she be messing with me? Even thought she was a complete bitch to me that last day, it's hard seeing someone be so evil and cruel. Should I just give her a chance, but be prepared for anything? I just find it kinda weird that each conversation involves her really wanting to see me.

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FngKestrel

Tread carefully man. Not that I have a singly inkling about how women think, but as long as you maintain your maturity, independence, and sense of self, you'll be in much better shape throughout this.

Is it just you two? Or is she bringing someone along? This could be more mind games. Who knows.

MSD

When people fuck with you like that, the only proper response is to fuck back, fuck hard, and hopefully actually end up fucking.

Marvelous Marv

I'm not a chick, but it seems to me that the most likely explanation is that her boyfriend called and offered her the moon after your second day together.

Now, two months later, they've split again. I say go for it, and behave with class, like you thought you should. If I'm right, she'll probably tell you the explanation for her behavior, especially if you tell her something like, "I was really disappointed not to see more of you after we had such a good time awhile back."

Summary: Maintain your cool, behave in a classy way, and see where it leads.

Good luck, and let us know how it works out.

Ustwo

That was my thought, I had a girl like that once too.

You might end up getting laid, but my experiance with women who play these games is that they won't stop playing them after they hook up with you. Short term fun, long term nightmares.

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tiltedbc

Don't do this with a girl who you're trying to impress. You're gonna send her off alone to do what? Find another guy or call her boyfriend? At least you should've offered to give her a drink in your room. Even if they say no or act suprised, a girl will expect you to be sexual in some way towards them.

Two months and YOU didn't get in touch with her? Why didn't you get her alone after the chill at the end of driving classes? Getting the cold shoulder like that is one of the ways a girl will get you to come and talk. All it might have taken is to send her a red rose to her hotel room with a note saying something funny that relates to what you experienced together.

Sounds like you're in friendzone now. You've got a lot in common, so I'd be a good friend towards her and leave it at that. Chances are she's a moody person, so maybe it's good to "just be friends" and talk about cars.

Axiom_e

IMO It is marvelous mary that has spoken the most wisdom. The dude tried to get back in her life and fucked her over again.

People are confused you can't hold that against them. You can only listen to them when they make a decision and back it up with actions.

Do not expect anything.

Ask aobut her life.

If the things look positive.
Be slightly sexual. I think that is a mistake that the nice guys make. They forget to be sexual. I am not saying be an animal. Hell if you have to go back to kindergarten (do play boxing.) It is physical contact. Physical contact is good.

Don't play games. And if she plays games call her on it.

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