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curiousGEORGE · 02-14-2005, 04:39 PM

my girl got 2 small cuts on the walls of vaginal walls. they look like paper cuts. this occured during intercourse. the only akward thing i remember happening before she started bleeding was her slipping off me in a tough manner. does anyone have any answers to what could have occured and if this is normal? any help would be appreciated

firestormo · 02-14-2005, 04:46 PM

not enough lube or rough sex could have caused it.. My GF had the same issue some time ago.. but the cuts healed and its all good..

curiousGEORGE · 02-14-2005, 04:47 PM

thanks, anybody else have an opinion?

la petite moi · 02-14-2005, 04:51 PM

Yeah, just try more lube, calm down with the sex for awhile, and try new positions, perhaps.
If it gets really painful for your girlfriend, or there is an infection: GET TO THE DOCTOR.

ratbastid · 02-14-2005, 06:50 PM

Fairly common thing, nothing much to worry about. Next time, wait until she's fully lubricated, or add some artificial lubrication.

She'll know when she's ready for action again. Until then, be patient!

ironmaiden7o7 · 02-14-2005, 09:39 PM

This could be an infection, I doubt it's lube because the vagina is self-lubricated, no matter how dry it may appear on the outside, the inside is always moist. An infection can cause the skin to sore and easily inflamed, tell her to go and see a doctor!

slimshaydee · 02-14-2005, 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by ironmaiden7o7

This could be an infection, I doubt it's lube because the vagina is self-lubricated, no matter how dry it may appear on the outside, the inside is always moist. An infection can cause the skin to sore and easily inflamed, tell her to go and see a doctor!

...actually it just means she wasn't wet enough, or there was some really rough sex (just like everyone else said). Happened to an ex of mine and she told me it's happened before.

Boo · 02-15-2005, 02:13 AM

Trim your fingernails.

StanT · 02-15-2005, 07:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Boo

Trim your fingernails.

and do something about that sharp stud through your tongue.

curiousGEORGE · 02-16-2005, 02:13 PM

bump.......

Acetylene · 02-17-2005, 07:30 PM

Yes rough sex, especially involving fingers, can cause tears and bleeding. This has happened to me a couple of times.

It's a good idea to ask a doctor, anyway, though, because she will want to make sure the cuts are healed properly. It's possible for infections to set into an injury "down there" and not to feel any pain from it, so she needs someone to check up on her to make sure.

wolf · 02-18-2005, 06:44 AM

Were you using a condom? They can dry out sometimes, or the base doesn't get the lubrication that the part that is inside is getting.

firestormo · 02-18-2005, 11:18 AM

you can allways go in the backdoor.. lana backwards that is..

k9trainingbiz · 02-18-2005, 05:22 PM

This shouldn't happen - if your g/f was turned on enough, she would be wet enough that this wouldn't happen. Do you really think it felt good to her? How would you like someone ramming something into your most tender flesh until it tore and bled? Sounds like you need some education on what good sex is - good for BOTH! Get a clue man, talk to her about HER likes and dislikes.

Cervantes · 02-20-2005, 10:35 AM

Could also be a vitamin or mineral deficiency even something hormonal. if it occurs on a regular basis go see a doctor.
A friend of mine has to take estrogen because her vaginal walls are too weak.

greeneyes · 02-20-2005, 11:31 AM

I know this was a few days back already, but let her know that she should take extra care to clean around the torn area. Those small tears are perfect for bacteria and she could develop a pretty nasty yeast infection.

And sometimes tears just happen. When my boyfriend and I first got together, we had sex multiple times a day. I was plenty turned on and I still had a few vaginal tears. It happens.

KinkyKiwi · 02-20-2005, 11:41 AM

i get little tears pretty often...sometimes its just after a long time of being really rough the skin wears out and rips a little...even with alot of lube..sometimes it just happens..but yea put cream on it and just let it heal

02-14-2005, 04:39 PM	#1 (permalink)
curiousGEORGE Upright	question about vaginal tears during sex my girl got 2 small cuts on the walls of vaginal walls. they look like paper cuts. this occured during intercourse. the only akward thing i remember happening before she started bleeding was her slipping off me in a tough manner. does anyone have any answers to what could have occured and if this is normal? any help would be appreciated

02-15-2005, 02:13 AM	#8 (permalink)
Boo Leave me alone! Location: Alaska, USA	Trim your fingernails. __________________ Back button again, I must be getting old.

02-17-2005, 07:30 PM	#11 (permalink)
Acetylene Addict Location: under a rock	Yes rough sex, especially involving fingers, can cause tears and bleeding. This has happened to me a couple of times. It's a good idea to ask a doctor, anyway, though, because she will want to make sure the cuts are healed properly. It's possible for infections to set into an injury "down there" and not to feel any pain from it, so she needs someone to check up on her to make sure. __________________ There's no justice. There's just us.

02-18-2005, 06:44 AM	#12 (permalink)
wolf Ravenous Location: Right Behind You	Were you using a condom? They can dry out sometimes, or the base doesn't get the lubrication that the part that is inside is getting. __________________ Thousands of years ago, cats were worshipped as Gods. Cats have never forgotten this.

02-18-2005, 11:18 AM	#13 (permalink)
firestormo Upright Location: Los Angeles, CA	you can allways go in the backdoor.. lana backwards that is.. __________________ --Fire

02-14-2005, 04:46 PM	#2 (permalink)
firestormo Upright Location: Los Angeles, CA	not enough lube or rough sex could have caused it.. My GF had the same issue some time ago.. but the cuts healed and its all good..

02-14-2005, 04:47 PM	#3 (permalink)
curiousGEORGE Upright	thanks, anybody else have an opinion?

02-14-2005, 04:51 PM	#4 (permalink)
la petite moi Filling the Void. Location: California	Yeah, just try more lube, calm down with the sex for awhile, and try new positions, perhaps. If it gets really painful for your girlfriend, or there is an infection: GET TO THE DOCTOR.

02-14-2005, 06:50 PM	#5 (permalink)
ratbastid Darth Papa Location: Yonder	Fairly common thing, nothing much to worry about. Next time, wait until she's fully lubricated, or add some artificial lubrication. She'll know when she's ready for action again. Until then, be patient!

02-14-2005, 09:39 PM	#6 (permalink)
ironmaiden7o7 Insane Location: NYC	This could be an infection, I doubt it's lube because the vagina is self-lubricated, no matter how dry it may appear on the outside, the inside is always moist. An infection can cause the skin to sore and easily inflamed, tell her to go and see a doctor!

02-16-2005, 02:13 PM	#10 (permalink)
curiousGEORGE Upright	bump.......

02-18-2005, 05:22 PM	#14 (permalink)
k9trainingbiz Upright Location: texas	This shouldn't happen - if your g/f was turned on enough, she would be wet enough that this wouldn't happen. Do you really think it felt good to her? How would you like someone ramming something into your most tender flesh until it tore and bled? Sounds like you need some education on what good sex is - good for BOTH! Get a clue man, talk to her about HER likes and dislikes.

02-20-2005, 10:35 AM	#15 (permalink)
Cervantes Psycho Location: Above you	Could also be a vitamin or mineral deficiency even something hormonal. if it occurs on a regular basis go see a doctor. A friend of mine has to take estrogen because her vaginal walls are too weak. __________________ - "Philosophy is questions that may never be answered. Religion is answers that may never be questioned.." - "Religions take everything that your DNA naturally wants to do to survive and pro-create and makes it wrong." - "There is only one absolute truth and that is that there is only one absolute truth." Last edited by Cervantes; 02-20-2005 at 10:38 AM..

02-20-2005, 11:31 AM	#16 (permalink)
greeneyes Insane Location: Charlotte, NC	I know this was a few days back already, but let her know that she should take extra care to clean around the torn area. Those small tears are perfect for bacteria and she could develop a pretty nasty yeast infection. And sometimes tears just happen. When my boyfriend and I first got together, we had sex multiple times a day. I was plenty turned on and I still had a few vaginal tears. It happens. __________________ Put the blame on me So you don't feel a thing Go on and save yourself Take it out on me

02-20-2005, 11:41 AM	#17 (permalink)
KinkyKiwi "Without the fuzz" Location: ..too close for comfort..	i get little tears pretty often...sometimes its just after a long time of being really rough the skin wears out and rips a little...even with alot of lube..sometimes it just happens..but yea put cream on it and just let it heal __________________ Some mornings, it's just not worth chewing through the leather straps. Play with each other. Play with yourselves. Just don't play with the squirrels, they bite.