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Hah, thanks Rat. I was quite aware of that, but I am sincerely curious to know where pinkie got her information. :)

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Originally Posted by Jim Kata

I don't know how to make a poll so here it goes.

Last night I was talking to my woman, and asked her what my top 3 nagging things were (so I know what to stop).

Well, I found out that #1 was "badgering" her to get an STD test when we were a few months into our relationship (which was almost 4 years ago).

She had only been with one person before (with a condom) but she has "swallowed" about 5 guys semen (never mine....but thats just a whole other minor bitchfest).

Me, being a virgin and very hypocondriacish, asked her to get tested to make sure everything was cool (not just her being tested, but got tested myself) before we started having sex without a condom.

Anyways...she told me all of her friends thought I was being stupid, and I never got my friends opinion on the situation. But I was just curious on what you ladies thought about it if someone had asked you to do what I asked, and what you guys would think of a friend of yours asking a girl to do the same.

Please be honest, and forgive me for not giving more details because, I'm a bit tipsy right now. But they can provided if asked (i feel like an asshole about the whole thing now).

I agree that it sounds like she has comething to hade AFTER 4 YEARS. Her friends can go blow guys and deal with their consequences, but this is between you and your gf. It is 110% resonable to ask her to get a test. Her refusal represents somnething a lot larger than some little test.

I'd say tell her, "No more lovin' till you learn to grow up and be responsible". Suspend all sexual and romantic activities until she complies. If she goes to her friends or brakes up with you, let her. You're better off without someone else (sorry to be so harsh, but this is serious).

My wife has some friends in VA who I could introduce you to. :thumbsup:

of course her freinds thought you were being stupid...dont you know how girl conversations go? First one girl says something that she did, and then the other girl agrees that it was the right thing to do. Then the first girl says something that her asshole boyfreind did, and the other girl agrees that he is a total asshole. It really doesnt matter what the first girl says, the second girls job is to help her justify every opinion she has, every action she takes. Girls (unless they openly hate each other) have alot harder time disagreeing with each other than guys do.

Heres how the conversation went:

GF: "My annoying boyfreind is sooo annoying, just because i gurgle everyones cum but his, he thinks I should take an STD test, how annoying, everyone knows those tests are just for sluts, how stupid, isnt that stupid?"

FRIEND: "Yeah thats totally stupid"

well you forgot to add this....

FRIEND: "Yeah thats totally stupid, especially since I have an STD and gave head to his friend in the parking lot of home depot after I said I couldn't stand him."

By the way....I have to say this again cause it looks like some people don't seem to understand...she got the test about a month after I asked her to...and it came out negative.