Ladies, how do you like your guys?
 

You you rather have your guy Hard and ready when he takes off his pants or would you rather help him "Raise the flag"

Oh, already hard. That means whatever we've just done...or talked about...or whatever....has turned him. A lot.

Already hard! That way I know he's excited for what's to come...and his brain is as engaged as his body...

Hard. it's nice to know i can get him going without even touching him.

Hard . . . usually

However . . . sometimes it's fun to do a strip tease and watch it rise that way :thumbsup:

Hard, squirmy wormy penises aren't that nice to feel. Heehee. :D

You'd all be very happy with me. It's like:

You: "Hello"
Me: "Hi"
Penis: *SPROING* "You had me at hello!"

Sorry, but I'm sure it's been hours since that catchphrase was last used.

I like both ways. I have no preferance as long as the end result is the same:)

Preach it brother Suave.

hard.. mm then we're ready to go.

Awesome! I was just making sure, cuz I get hard really fast, like any physical contact (Holding hands, Kising, etc), but I was reading another forum entry where someone mentioned they liked to help get her guy up and I was like "Oh shit!" haha, guess I'm all in the clear

I like it when he is already hard and ready to go. It's a nice surprise when I just have to kiss him and he's at full attention.

I feel relieved. I'm not exactly inexperienced, but I'm not exactly a man-whore either. and I just thought something was up because i'm into my girlfriend the point where if we're making out heavy before we get to getting, i'll get hard before she touches me down there or hits my "hot spots" ears, neck, collarbone, nipples. Glad to see we're just the good men who really appreciate a women..even when they're clothed :thumbsup:

It's like you're reading my mind....

I prefer helping out! I love the feeling of a dick growing inside my mouth. It turns me on so much that it's usually all the foreplay I need :)

I like both, hard already is flattering and a big turn-on, a promise of what's to come. But it can be flattering also to start from scratch and get to the point if you know what I mean.

I have no control over mine. Sometimes I don't even realize it it's just all of a sudden "Oh well what doya know? I got hardon!" So half the time the thing is hard and I'm by my freakin self. Such a waste really. So I'm prolly gonna already be at attention before the girl even makes her way down there.

Asta!!

I love when my wife helps "raise the flag", but usually I'm already to go.

its usually hard - and i most of the time prefer it that way... but if i'm surprising him, there's nothing i like better than sucking him to his full potential. or the wake-up blow job? mmhm.

Both ways are just fine by me. I still get what I want in the end (no pun, ty).
I love helping my man get hard. It's like "Oh! look at what I can do!" On the other hand, it's really quite hot to feel him 'ready to go' through his jeans before I even do anything.

Though due to my own libido it doesn't happen very much I like it when she helps me out a bit. This is great because then I know that even though it wasn't on the brain for me she is ready to go and wants to make me feel the same...

I love my boyfriend's buldge haha.

I like it when he gets hard by him self with out me having to help it makes me feel sexy so sexy he got hard lol.

My bulge indeed and I thought it was the dance that you liked more.

hard for sure. I don't even have to do anything (perceivably)... That feels good. :)

I'd say I prefer already hard, but I don't think I've even been with a guy who wasn't already hard by the time we got to that stage. I'd probably think there was something wrong with me!

Hard. It's especially fun when I've caused a public erection and he's trying to hide it. I don't do that often, though. Only when he deserves it. ;)

My SO loves it when I'm hard - especially when she can see the buige through my jeans. But she also likes to "let it grow" in her mouth. And that's not always possible. Then she says things like "Baby, make it go softer".

As if.

I must say that the feeling of getting hard while Sage has me in her mouth is awesome :)

most of the time Martel is already hard by the time the pants come off. Sometimes it's difficult for me to get past the imagined psychological "implications" of him being soft when we're in the foreplay stages- I start doubting myself. He is always really awesome about letting me know that he's totally into it even if the little signals aren't reaching his penis....

He DOES have the most amazing penis..... I love seeing it in all it's erect glory!

Hmm it really depends for me. I really like it when my SO is hard and ready to go right when I take his pants off... but on the other hand, sometimes I like to take it slow and be able to do other things to get him hard. It always nice when I don't see him in a while and I get to just lay some hot kisses on him and he gets all excited and hard... lets me know I'm doing something right and I'm definitely wanted. :)

Definitely already hard. That's what I'm used to so anything else seems like there's a problem.

If a girl is taking my pants off, chances are i've been hard for ages. This is how I mostly prefer it, but also wouldn't mind being surprised and helped up. After thinkign about it a bit, I think it would be quite sexy to be massaged into a hardon. But unless I was taken 100% by surprise, theres no way that could happen. Even the thought of intimacy gets me started, which is the kind of thoughts provoked by cuddling and kissing.
If I try, though, I can keep a hardon away for a limited time...or at least keep it from getting too far. It's a technique i've mastered the hard way through tons of public boners :(

Bulge? Dance?

Boy...this stuff keeps getting better...

Those rare sweet moments of waking up being woken up . . .

I'm hard as soon as I touch my S.O., so when my pants come off (eventually) it will have been hard for a while.

I don't like it when girls see me soft it makes me feel less than a man. It looks like a gummy worm. Thank God when the wind blows hard enough I get hard. I'm easy. ;)

Both, though I really like how an erection looks through jeans. ;)

I much prefer to have a guy nice and hard and ready to go when you are peeling off his pants! It is a very good feeling....the equivalent of male gorilla chest-thumping...look at me! I did ~that~! Woot! Seriously, I love the fact that if I'm frisky then my guy is ready, willing and able.

On the flip side - I love waking a guy up by giving him a blow job. The sensation of a penis growing hard in your mouth is just the best! Mmmmm....nummy!

Awesome! Looks like the vast majority of ladies feel the same way. If it is ever possible to understand women, then this thread will help me get there! :thumbsup:

I'll have to ask my lady, but I don't suspect it's ever been an issue, as my tent is usually pitched beforehand. :)