Cumming in a condom
 

never done it. don't know why either. i.e. today my gf and i had sex for about 2 hours and i almost felt like i could begin to climax but i didn't. it's not psychological at all either because it feels fucking great and im not anxious or anything.. i got over that with head. we're using durex extra sensitive rubbers... you guys know of any [more] sensitive brands? my sex endurance is kinda pissing me off.

sidenote: anyone ever used the avanti non-latex ones?

Whats wrong with having extra long sex endurance?

On the topic of condom recommendations, my wife and I have tested out lots of different ones, and I'd say that our favorites are the pleasure plus and the kimono microthin. Both of these can be easily found online, and I've actually seen them in Walgreen's lately too.

We tried the Avanti, and she liked them, but I found them to be too crinkly and loose-fitting (I guess polyurethane can't stretch like latex so they have to make them bigger than normal condoms) to be enjoyable.

Kimono's good. Any ultra-thin latex made-in-Japan condom is apt to be decent, I've found. I used to use Lifestyles a lot. And no, I didn't care much for polyurethane, either.

i really like the trojan magnums
and trojan ribbed

I have this very same problem. I've only used a few types of condoms (Lifestyles and Trojan Ultra Ribbed), and I can't finish in either.

And to answer Martel's question, nothing, until your girlfriend gets so sexed out that she has to stop. Sure, I don't HAVE to finish, but I sure as hell would rather finish than not.

Haha magnums. I'd buy them just for the name. You could always just pull out and finish yourself, or have her finish you with the condom off.

I could never use a ribbed condom.

I'd get Robin Williams stuck in my head - "You want ribs? Go get barbeque - dont put it on there"

How long have you been at it together? It will probably improve with time and you'll find it easier to cum and eventually have to fight to stop from cumming.

never used that brand but we have to use non latex since Im allergic to it....we use Trojan Supra's (polyurethane) and Dave has no problem cumming at all....(He told me that when he's used latex ones that it was difficult for him sometimes) so maybe it can make a difference for you too ;)

yeah.. i kinda wanna try the avanti but theyre very expensive... half the qty for the same price :\

to answer kel: we just started.. tomorrow will be our 5th/6th time having sex together. i should give it more time, yes?

thanks for the input :)

In my experience, the condom of choice between me and my ex were ribbed i loved them and as did he, also ultra senitives are good, but all together i hate condoms. lol but they are a must if you have a new partner, but if u have been together for awhile and are taking other precautions i dont think they are a must.

I absolutely can't stand Trojans. Lifefstyles are better. We love Durex Avanti. The polyurethane are completely different in sensation and without the irritation from the latex.

Um, polyurethane? I'm not putting that in my body.

My wife and I will only use Kimono Condoms. You can find them at Rite-Aid, and if you live where there is no Rite-Aid, look for Walgreens or it's equivalent.

i wish i had the problem of lasting to long. i will switch with you and that will be the best 7 sec of your life. I have not tried either one. but good luck finding the right one. i would be upset if i could not finish too

thanks :)

i think i'm gonna try the kimono microthin then if those don't do it for me the avanti.. i might update, who knows. :)

Ummm yeah. When my wife and I were using condoms we used Durex, the extra sensitive ones. Although I do last alot longer wearing one I hate to finish with it on, I would usually pull out and shoot her titties or her tummy. It just doesn't feel as strong when I cum while wearing one for some reason.

Check out the Feb. issue of Consumers Reports. They have a test of condoms and a warning about some that don't do so well.
By the way, the Durex Extra Sensitive lubricated was the top rated one.

putting it IN your body? :lol: how do you wear your condoms?

poly's are the best thing ever, like someone else said, TOTALLY different feeling, and its so nice for me not to have to take a bath after sex or use creams because of the allergic reaction to the latex.

Um, polyurethane? I'm not putting that in my body.

If this person is a girl I think she means she doesn't want that in her body, polyurethane condoms are basically condoms made of extremely thin and flexible plastic for those who are allergic to latex and would rather not use Lambskin condoms.

gamer....his post said he and his wife only use kimono condem (that would lead me to believe its a guy posting)

I've found Exaclibur to be excellent. I agree, most of the Japanese condoms are tighter-fitting, and thus much better feeling.

I prefer Lifestyle's condom's myself
You could try the form fitting ones and see if that makes a difference. Just a suggestion.
All I can say is that I wish I had your problem.

I almost went out and bought a pack of Kimonos until you wrote this. How much tighter-fitting are they? I've had problems in the past where the condom either just wouldn't fit, or was so tightly fit that it hurt. That is no fun at all.

well with ahving 2 kids already im a little bit of a freak when it comes to condoms.... i usually keep a couple trojan-enz with the spermacide on hand in case the guy isnt prepared... i think i still have a couple trojan large condoms in my dresser from my last boyfriend that are probably expired... they were his fgavorite for the simple fact he loved buying them and watching the girl at the cash register scan them..... he loved to see there facial reactions